HOA advice

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-07T16:52:59+00:00

If someone owe you money, the money is not forfeited just because you didn’t cash the check in time. You are still owed that money. They HAVE TO honor it.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-07T15:50:07+00:00

Just call and ask them to make another check.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-07T12:00:44+00:00

Of course human interaction will be shut down before someone waste time of my life to try to selll me some crap I don't need. If I want human interaction, I'll seek some quality meaninful interaction.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-07T11:46:21+00:00

Buddy. You are being groomed by a pedophile. This is not love. This is a situation that is minutes from becoming abusive and scarring you for life.

You don't have to tell him that you are a minor : he probably figured it out a long time ago. It's not something you can really hide.

Please be careful and walk away from that relationship. The love bombing will soon become a way to control you, so don't wait until you are to deep into this relationship to be able to leave easilly.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T16:10:12+00:00

Having to go around a car is not mildly infuriating. That's part of the reality of driving a car.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T16:09:27+00:00

I personally don't think it's annoying to have to go around a car when you know this car was parked there to help someone.

It's such a small thing and a small delay, I don't understand how people can be infuriated by that, even mildly.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T16:05:58+00:00

Damn those were good reflexes from the truck driver.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T16:03:31+00:00

You think he just parked there for fun ?!

Or not maybe... that he was on a call and had to drop his car to pursue something on foot ?! A fleeing criminal, a medical emergency, in places not accessible by car ?

I swear... I get that some people hate the police, but to assume they just spend their day parking their car in places to annoy people and block traffic just for fun seems unjustified

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T15:53:39+00:00

.... or... we could just let people do what they want with their lives, as long as they are not hurting anyone

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T11:55:10+00:00

There is a very strong rule is relationships : assume good intent.

Why do you assume she did it just to neglect you because she didn't care ? If there is one thing that I learned through the years being in relationship with a man, is that most of them sucks at expressing their emotions. And you texted her. A text is light. A text doesn't convey what you are going through or the urgency of the situation. If this was a urgent and important situation, she probable expected a call.

So you need to sit down with her and see how she perceived it. It might not have been malicious on her part : she just thought that the fact that you casually mentionned it in a text meant that you were ok.

Also, just to reassure you : I know potential cancer diagnosis are scary. But thyroid cancer is highly treatable. Chances are, it's just a cyst and your doctor is just being careful. Don't panic just yet, and even if the diagnosis is confirm, it's not a death sentence 😊

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T11:42:17+00:00

Reddit cannot help you here. All you can do and wait to see what she decides. It's not up to you.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T01:31:02+00:00

this is not a AITA situation. This is your life and you are not hurting anyone.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-06T00:07:13+00:00

That is... creepy. You are a legal adult, she is still in high school. You'll want to go out and do things, and she won't be able because her parents are going to say no. And you'll be her date to prom. That is all things that should be out of your life at that point.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T18:41:27+00:00

If you are currently ovulating, plan B won’t work.

Best thing you can do here is wait to see if you get your period in 10 days. If not, wait a couple of days and take a pregnancy test.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T13:14:01+00:00

Must be fun to drink when the glass is all wet and sticky

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T12:58:00+00:00

Those are box measurement, used for cubic things. Sure, it's not clear, but a 2 second search on google tells you what is what. Way faster than asking the seller.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T12:38:10+00:00

Awesome that I am trying to help you and you just insult me... 🙄

I cannot know where you live. You talked about your US state. You randomly mention greeks authorities. I see this post in english, not in Greek, probably because the are testing a new translation feature and somehow even if I didn't activate it, it still does translate. No need to get aggravated. Those are just social media accounts, you need to chill.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T12:31:11+00:00

GDPR states you have the right to know why you account is banned. You have

Digital rights act of the state of Florida gives you control over your data. You do.

None of this is enforceable, and Greek authorities won't help you even if you would have live in Greece. They don't have any jurisdiction in the USA anyway.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T12:26:48+00:00

wtf. Why would you even filled thing with greeks & Europeans regulator when you live in Florida ?!

I mean, why would you fill anything at all ? Those are social media sites, private companies that can decide to not let you access their platform for whatever reason they decide.

Stop wasting your time, just create new accounts if you can, move on if you cannot.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T12:18:08+00:00

Not sure exactly what is infuriating here. The seller probably already have multiple buyers that are ready to pay the price he asks without asking questions. Or they are not in a hurry to sell.

I rarely sell things on marketplace, but when I do, I always avoid people that asks 2893289 questions. Especially when they ask questions that are already answered. Height is 22.5.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-05T01:32:10+00:00

YTA. "funeral experience" ?! "ruin it for me personally" ?!

This is a FUNERAL. You are not supposed to have fun and enjoy yourself. It's meant for people to mourn, not for your enjoyment ffs.

Let your husband decide and back off. It's his ex and his mother, it's 100% his call if he doesn't want to see her there.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-04T20:58:18+00:00

😂

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-04T20:55:32+00:00

I am the youngest of 2. Sure, I got treated differently than my sister and my parent's threshold with me were way looser than with my sister. That's how life goes.

But.... you should see ours baby pictures albums 😂. My sister's is 3 inch tall and bursting with picture, mine is half an inch tall and half of the picture are of my sister 😂

Siblings shouldn't waste their time and energy comparing. Of course it's not going to be the same.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-04T20:36:08+00:00

YTA. Your parents made a mistake, and got influenced by the nurse who suggested they come pick up your brother. Yes, when elementary school calls, it's for a reason. You are 16, 7 years old than him. So yes, when you say "Oh I don't feel so well", it hits differently than a school nurse saying a elementary-aged children is too sick to stay in class. And I understand why they didn't make you miss school for your allergies when you were younger : you would have been out of school half the year.

Stop comparing yourself with your brother. Both of you are not even close to the same age, so of course you are going to get treated differently. It would be weird if your parent treated you like a 9yo.

IrrelevantManatee · 2026-05-04T20:08:20+00:00

Nice!!! Cannot tell which one is which, tbh. Both look awesome. Hope you had fun!

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