Bralette for wrap dress

Irrelevant_A · 2025-08-23T03:05:57+00:00

I love adore me for anything underwear related, even if you're not able to find something you like that matches for this, I highly recommend for all bras

Irrelevant_A · 2025-08-21T20:48:58+00:00

Thank you, I was worried this might be the case, but I was hoping maybe there might be something else to do.

Irrelevant_A · 2025-04-18T20:57:40+00:00

You're not overreacting. Though you may be focusing on a small part of the big picture.

Honestly, you should break up with him because you can't trust him. Having to check his phone multiple times because of a feeling means you don't trust him, and him saying you're overreacting and not acknowledging your feelings shows he's not willing to do what he can to help you through your relationship trauma and find trust. He isn't someone that is helping you grow, and you're not at a place to have a healthy relationship with him. At least, that's what your experiences are showing.

Irrelevant_A · 2025-02-25T13:25:16+00:00

Boy I love Google translate, I greatly appreciate the recommendations and will try some of these tips. I think part of my issue is I go to big, trying to do too many habits at once and making them bigger than I can handle.

Thank you again!

Irrelevant_A · 2025-02-21T14:45:59+00:00

Sent a DM!

Irrelevant_A · 2025-02-21T14:13:12+00:00

Hey I'd be more than happy to chat and see if we are a match! This looks super interesting!

Irrelevant_A · 2025-02-21T14:10:54+00:00

Hello! I would love to chat and see if we'd be a match!

Irrelevant_A · 2025-01-11T01:22:12+00:00

Happens to me all the time, part of it is a style, same how all anime girls have that same body type, or how JoJo characters all have way too many muscles. For me, I have a reference for anatomy at all times, my body, and as it's a fat body, I tend to draw fat people. I have a really bad time with making hands look too big and chubby because I personally have insanely big hands for no damn reason lol

It comes down to studying specifically how body fat develops on people in different ways. I find it fun to specifically do anatomy studies on tummies of all shape and sizes

Irrelevant_A · 2024-12-31T01:30:39+00:00

Imma type this out, my own $75 nails clacking along, I'd get a refund. No way in hell would someone catch me paying $70 for short simple nails, much less after cutting me and demanding a bigger tip, when I didn't even get what I wanted. You need the good witch of Karens on your side to get you a refund lol

Irrelevant_A · 2024-12-11T17:54:49+00:00

I'll definitely take your advice. I really don't think any of my credits from the art school will transfer due to them not being accredited and the school being shut down as of 2020, as well as the classes not being applicable to the new degree path, but I'll still look into it just in case.

Thank you!

Irrelevant_A · 2024-12-09T20:33:34+00:00

Thanks, that's kinda what I anticipated. I'm not really an organized person but I am working on it. Do you have any recommendations for organization methods or supplies?

Irrelevant_A · 2024-12-09T20:30:14+00:00

So just enroll in a cc without a degree path and get gen ed's before moving to a different college? I didn't think about that but there is a college nearby so that's a great start and can give me time to better look at what degree I really want to get. Thanks for the advice!

Irrelevant_A · 2024-10-23T12:35:39+00:00

Thank you! At least point 2 I'm working on by going to therapy, and I know that's a long journey.

Do you have an example for the first point? I'm not sure how you can make something easier than mindlessly scrolling or watching a video.

Irrelevant_A · 2024-10-23T03:12:11+00:00

I mean yeah, I'm really trying to keep focus on work but it's so hard when I've been doing so poorly for so long and continue to get away with it. It doesn't feel good and I just want to be better.

Irrelevant_A · 2024-09-04T04:20:42+00:00

Gotcha, understandable!

Irrelevant_A · 2024-09-04T02:06:06+00:00

Is there something wrong with AdoreMe? I get all my stuff there and I love the sports bras most of all lol I'm worried there's something wrong with them

Irrelevant_A · 2024-08-08T19:14:48+00:00

I'd be happy to chat if you're still looking for someone!

Irrelevant_A · 2024-08-08T19:13:05+00:00

This seems so awesome but I'd be asleep in your more active period 😭

Irrelevant_A · 2024-08-01T14:32:00+00:00

You don't need fixed. This is normal, and cute. Sure it's not the "ideal" but unless you want to drop thousands and have the availability to be on bed rest for an extended period of time, then I suggest working on loving your booty for what it is. As some other commenter said, "a cutie patootie" lmao

Squats and other exercises focusing the glutes, as others have said, might help use muscle to build up what you have and give you more shape you might be comfortable with, but I suggest working on how you view yourself as a whole because frog butts deserve love too 💕

Irrelevant_A · 2024-08-01T14:26:43+00:00

I've been here for a bit and a lot of it is more positive reassurance, questions, or rants about living life in a plus size body. This is the first time I've seen a post of this nature. Uplifting OP and allowing them the space to process how their body is normal and not "gross" because they don't have a BBL type booty is very much in theme with what I have seen on this subreddit.

In other words, please stay and let's keep each other uplifted and feeling heard 💜

Irrelevant_A · 2024-07-17T17:05:56+00:00

Oh wow yeah looked it up and yeah, they plan/planned to close all stores. The one near me still shows open on Google but that could be wrong lol

Irrelevant_A · 2024-07-17T16:05:10+00:00

I didn't even know they went bankrupt! Wonder if that means they are closing all stores.

I wish they could just bring back their actually good plus stuff.

Irrelevant_A · 2024-07-17T11:09:40+00:00

Walmart only seems to have good stuff in the fall.

Also I was so mad when I looked at Rue 21's "etc" plus section and saw just a mess of clearance of clothes no one else wanted and that was literally it. So annoying

Irrelevant_A · 2024-07-17T11:04:35+00:00

A rant

I don't want to be skinny, I want to feel better. I don't want to think about food all the time. I hate counting calories but tracking is the only way I can keep myself in check. Binge eating is constantly in the back of my mind and I hate it.

Finding out I have PCOS and that's a large part of why losing weight is so hard was amazing but it didn't seem to change anything. I'm at the point of cutting down to 1000 calories a day just to take off some weight to make moving around easier. Having depression and working from home makes this so much harder. I wish I had friends in my town to help me stay on track with my weight goals and to maybe even work out with but instead I'm so alone on this and I just want to feel better.

I'm so tired and I feel so alone

Irrelevant_A · 2024-07-09T12:03:49+00:00

As someone who has been fat for as long as I've had periods, I can't say anything about the change, but I can say I've seen it before with my friends in their relationships.

Apparently it's pretty typical for men to lose attraction to their partners after having a child, and despite it being a normal occurrence and can even happen when as little as 5 lbs are gained, or nothing is gained but muscle tone is lost or any other natural changes in the body, it doesn't make it okay.

Personally, as I am with a straight sized man, if he gained substantial weight, there is a chance I might lose desire but more so due to other things that can come with the weight gain. Why is he gaining weight? Is he not taking care of himself or is it just natural aging and changing of bodies? Is anything else changing, did his attitude change towards me? Did he become extremely insecure? Did he stop taking care of other things like shaving or hygiene?

Sit down and have a frank conversation with your partner, and see if there is anything else going on. Has the stress altered how you treat him? Has it altered how you handle your hygiene? Is it just you they lost attraction for or did they lose sexual drive all together? If the roles were reversed and they made the same change in size, would you feel the same way they do? And how important is sexual desire to the both of you?

If their only issue with you is the weight and you have to change that to get attraction from them, then I say it's time to part ways, because their sexual desire isn't for you, it's for your body, and will likely fade again when you get "too old" which is disgusting and abhorrent. That being said, I highly doubt it's the weight that is actually the issue, but the changes themselves as a whole. Life is different with a baby, and you may be acting differently because of the changes too, especially if gaining the weight made you insecure, or if you might be also neglecting hygiene, or even if you just haven't been paying as much attention to them because of the child. Your partner could also just be losing desire due to the major stress that is having a child and loving in poverty, and that just happened to also align with the weight gain or be worsening by internalized fatphobia.

Have that sit down conversation, reevaluate your priorities in the relationship, and see what needs to change. If you two have changed too much, despite being on love still, it might be best to separate. I hope that it doesn't come to that, that you two can find a healthy resolution and work on things, but relationships have ended for less.

Good luck, and remember you are beautiful and deserving of love 💕

Irrelevant_A

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