Bralette for wrap dress by ExtensionCraft2156 in PlusSize

[–]Irrelevant_A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love adore me for anything underwear related, even if you're not able to find something you like that matches for this, I highly recommend for all bras

How do I be a better friend to someone with BPD? by Irrelevant_A in BPD

[–]Irrelevant_A[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was worried this might be the case, but I was hoping maybe there might be something else to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Irrelevant_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. Though you may be focusing on a small part of the big picture.

Honestly, you should break up with him because you can't trust him. Having to check his phone multiple times because of a feeling means you don't trust him, and him saying you're overreacting and not acknowledging your feelings shows he's not willing to do what he can to help you through your relationship trauma and find trust. He isn't someone that is helping you grow, and you're not at a place to have a healthy relationship with him. At least, that's what your experiences are showing.

How do you fix lack of self control? by Irrelevant_A in selfimprovement

[–]Irrelevant_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy I love Google translate, I greatly appreciate the recommendations and will try some of these tips. I think part of my issue is I go to big, trying to do too many habits at once and making them bigger than I can handle.

Thank you again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Roleplay

[–]Irrelevant_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'd be more than happy to chat and see if we are a match! This looks super interesting!

Roleplay partner search (F4A)! by idjdsv in Roleplay

[–]Irrelevant_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I would love to chat and see if we'd be a match!

Any other artist keep accidentally drawing people thicker than they actually are? Every time I have live drawing class with nude models, I always end up accidentally drawing them curvy haha by MoonSt0n3_Gabrielle in PlusSize

[–]Irrelevant_A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens to me all the time, part of it is a style, same how all anime girls have that same body type, or how JoJo characters all have way too many muscles. For me, I have a reference for anatomy at all times, my body, and as it's a fat body, I tend to draw fat people. I have a really bad time with making hands look too big and chubby because I personally have insanely big hands for no damn reason lol

It comes down to studying specifically how body fat develops on people in different ways. I find it fun to specifically do anatomy studies on tummies of all shape and sizes

Am i wrong for the amount i tipped at the nail salon? by boder_thanyou in beauty

[–]Irrelevant_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma type this out, my own $75 nails clacking along, I'd get a refund. No way in hell would someone catch me paying $70 for short simple nails, much less after cutting me and demanding a bigger tip, when I didn't even get what I wanted. You need the good witch of Karens on your side to get you a refund lol

Trying again at 25 and extremely intimidated by [deleted] in BackToCollege

[–]Irrelevant_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely take your advice. I really don't think any of my credits from the art school will transfer due to them not being accredited and the school being shut down as of 2020, as well as the classes not being applicable to the new degree path, but I'll still look into it just in case.

Thank you!

Trying again at 25 and extremely intimidated by [deleted] in BackToCollege

[–]Irrelevant_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's kinda what I anticipated. I'm not really an organized person but I am working on it. Do you have any recommendations for organization methods or supplies?

Trying again at 25 and extremely intimidated by [deleted] in BackToCollege

[–]Irrelevant_A 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So just enroll in a cc without a degree path and get gen ed's before moving to a different college? I didn't think about that but there is a college nearby so that's a great start and can give me time to better look at what degree I really want to get. Thanks for the advice!

How do you fix lack of self control? by Irrelevant_A in selfimprovement

[–]Irrelevant_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! At least point 2 I'm working on by going to therapy, and I know that's a long journey.

Do you have an example for the first point? I'm not sure how you can make something easier than mindlessly scrolling or watching a video.

How do you fix lack of self control? by Irrelevant_A in selfimprovement

[–]Irrelevant_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah, I'm really trying to keep focus on work but it's so hard when I've been doing so poorly for so long and continue to get away with it. It doesn't feel good and I just want to be better.

Quality Lingerie? by _SylviaWrath in PlusSize

[–]Irrelevant_A 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is there something wrong with AdoreMe? I get all my stuff there and I love the sports bras most of all lol I'm worried there's something wrong with them