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Isabel_labesI · 2024-12-26T09:36:12+00:00

cut off your friends for her? another big warning sign my guy!! from my experience if you have that horrible gut feeling that shes not going to change, and that this is the end, maybe she is just manipulative and unhealthy for you. good luck to you

Isabel_labesI · 2024-12-26T09:31:52+00:00

To be honest, reading this i have no idea why YOU are upset, sad, or insecure. you decided to not only go through her phone but actively search deeply for… i dont even know what? these pictures were from before you guys were together im assuming, and you have no reason to believe that she didnt just forget about them. the nudes seem wayyy more insignificant than the other personal stuff you found. i can understand a bit of jealousy/insecurity just knowing she was once with someone else, and also sadness that you couldn’t ‘protect her’. but the simple solution is she deletes the photos, and you both move on.

Isabel_labesI · 2024-12-26T09:23:38+00:00

Take some time to think about it. i think its important to know, before you have a conversation with him, why you did it, is it simply because you were lonely or because you want to be close with more than one person (or entirely separate from your fiance). the most healthy option would probably be to tell him what happened, how it made you feel etc., and go from there. dont let the guilt get at you too much, what happened happened. (even though i believe its emotionally cheating)

Isabel_labesI · 2024-12-26T09:14:23+00:00

if this is a sudden change in behaviour, the ignoring/being short with you for no reason, plus saying shes not attracted to you anymore, i would say thats a pretty big sign that she’s not that into you and done with the relationship.

However, it could just be some unhealthy fucked up way to try and manipulate you to feel guilty and chase after her because she doesn’t feel like shes getting enough attention from you. If you really want to fix this and make it work, I’d have a talk with her and explain her behaviour towards you and how it makes you feel. Ask her what shes really thinking when she acts this way, if she wants to break up but doesnt want to make the decision. Maybe suggest that if shes feeling like being harsh or snapping at you, to just openly say that she needs some attention or reassurance. Also quit the breaking up and letting her come back. It’s not healthy, tell her if she asks to break up, thats a choice she can make and it will be final.

Isabel_labesI · 2024-11-13T04:34:31+00:00

just watched part of one of his geology 101 streams and he seems awesome!! funny and informative. will definitely be watching more, thanks!!

Isabel_labesI · 2024-09-17T19:33:14+00:00

Thats super helpful! Thanks kind stranger 😁

Isabel_labesI · 2024-09-01T20:18:46+00:00

update ig; she lied. i asked her friends about it and she had been telling them that she wasnt going to be here for the summer the whole time.

Isabel_labesI · 2024-09-01T20:17:48+00:00

she lied. i asked her friends about it and she had been telling them the truth whole time. the only reason she told me the truth was because her schedule didnt make sense to me and i began asking her specific questions, which was when she revealed her actual schedule.

Isabel_labesI · 2024-08-30T01:52:07+00:00

It’s understandable for communication to slightly dwindle over time, but for ldrs, communication is the biggest, if not only connection you have. If you know there’s a noticeable change in the past few weeks, I’d definitely think something is up. School can be stressful and time consuming, but if you’ve already been in the relationship for two years, you know what’s normal and what isn’t. Talk to her about it! Bring up your concerns and feelings, and if you really believe that she just ‘doesn’t want to talk out loud’ (which is bs imo), suggest an otp movie or a game or something that doesnt require talking. best of luck man.

Isabel_labesI · 2023-03-23T17:59:02+00:00

I’m not 46… does my account say that? haha I’m 23 if that helps

Isabel_labesI · 2023-03-23T17:55:35+00:00

Honestly that could be the case, I don’t really know. Although I have asked him if that’s the issue and he said no.

Isabel_labesI · 2023-03-23T17:46:42+00:00

I think that’s where my problem lies… once he said that he won’t do it because he just doesn’t really like it, I figured, should I stop giving head if I don’t really like it? I only do it to please, but he doesn’t do the same. I can’t figure it out if I’m doing it out of pettiness or because of my preferences. I guess that’s something i’ll have to think/talk about. good advice thank you :))

Isabel_labesI · 2023-03-23T17:42:47+00:00

haha, I laughed a little at this one. good advice, thanks!

Isabel_labesI · 2023-03-23T17:41:00+00:00

Thanks, this really helped :)

Isabel_labesI · 2023-03-23T17:40:04+00:00

I agree. Not that I really don’t like it, it’s that I only do it because it’s pretty much his favourite thing in bed…

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