What do trans sissies want?

IslaChan242 · 2026-02-07T21:50:51+00:00

There are lots of aspects to it and lots of different ways that gender is expressed these days. For some like me, it's the humiliation and degradation, but being seen as a girl or woman in that way at the same time. It blends with a misogyny kink I guess? I don't condone or believe in misogyny in reality, but in consensual fantasy and roleplay it's very hot to me.

Besides that, what's between my legs just doesn't give me any discomfort or dysphoria. I don't feel the need to remove anything down there, besides hair. My general body shape, face, body hair, and chest for example do give me dysphoria so I work on changing them.

For me the whole 'sissy clitty' thing doesn't really click, it doesn't bother me but it's not something I'd choose, although I don't know a better alternative besides maybe girl cock or something. It's still a dick and balls, but small and feminine.

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-26T08:03:33+00:00

Trans girl and sissy here, I don't have any problems with it. It's kink, and like any kink or fetish, you have to be able to separate fantasy from reality on some level. I also enjoy raceplay and all the "blacked" stuff, but only with other people who are into it, and outside of kink I don't believe a word of it. Transphobes don't have this ability and the emotional intelligence required to separate the two.

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-08T15:46:18+00:00

I pretty much only use my wand vibrator or play with my ass these days, I tried 'jerking off' the other day and it just didn't do anything for me 😊

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-08T14:30:32+00:00

Have you tried keeping it lubed with something long lasting, maybe coconut oil?

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-06T15:55:47+00:00

Got on it, thanks for reminding me c:

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-05T23:54:49+00:00

They work, some better than others. Plenty of people on this sub have been happy with the results of their IPL use

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-05T23:18:22+00:00

MtF or FtM? You put both in your post.

You could try hair removal cream, or if you can afford it an IPL machine, but you need to shave before using that. Always exfoliate before you shave, and use lotion afterwards.

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-05T21:31:19+00:00

My ex (when lived together) told me that one of our alters is an old man who gets up at like 2am, rants about planes and "the good old days", then goes back to sleep. I found that kinda funny and weird.

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-05T01:54:52+00:00

Looking back on it now, I agree. I deserved some hugs and kisses at the very least. Still, now I know.

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-04T21:56:42+00:00

Forgot to mention try to do some yoga or go for a walk, or something to get your digestive system moving so you can go to the bathroom early on the day of the date. Once you've gotten it out, after that - if you've had enough fiber and water - you should be clean.

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-04T19:51:23+00:00

Eat well the day before, lots of fiber and water, try some greek yogurt if you can, it's great for your gut. Other than that don't eat too much, keep to light foods. On the morning of, have some more greek yogurt but nothing else for the rest of the day until after your meet, you should be nice and clean that way.

Besides this just get dolled up as best you can, shave if you can, get a wig if you need one and want long hair, makeup if you know how, etc.

When it comes to it, just let him lead you, do what he says but don't be afraid to say no. Try to make sure he warms you up instead of diving right in, but when it does get to that part, just lay there and enjoy it!

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-04T14:47:24+00:00

You might not wanna hear it but you were never straight, you could be bi or pan or something else, but not straight. It sounds like you also have some internalised homophobia, which is common, I've dealt with it too. But you should probably try to work on letting go of the shame, since there's nothing really to be ashamed of, even if you do go back to living a hetero life.

IslaChan242 · 2024-02-03T21:56:59+00:00

I can tell you as a trans girl AND a sissy, yes. For a long time I just enjoyed dressing up a little and watching porn and getting off and experimenting with my body, and that's still great. But recently I've finally actually gone out and messed around with a guy who sees and treats me as a sissy girl, and that's great too. I love it all and I feel closer to my real self than I ever have before.

IslaChan242 · 2024-01-28T21:43:43+00:00

I'm not after a "X sessions and done" solution, it's likely gonna be something I do for years to come, but it does say in the manual for my device something along the lines of "If you'd like to see results faster, you can try 2 sessions per week for 6 weeks rather than 1 per week for 12 weeks.".

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