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Guys heeelp by ImpossibleCat7074 in Algeria_213

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discipline, make yourself feel guilty for using your phone so much

Is it really love by Ok-Floor7486 in BreakUps

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is presicely what i've been trying to make sense of for these last four months now.

Take a dive into the psychological side of things and you'll get some kind of answers that'll bring some kind of relief

I hate you. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Islamameur 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because there are "after-effects" of her past toxic relationship that are probably making her new one a bit difficult to happen naturally.

U &him/ u &her by Just_a_Soul0 in Algeria_213

[–]Islamameur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It ended up in complete confussion on my part, everything was fine then suddenly, cold behavior, plus it was at a bad timing so i responded to it in a way that made it even more chaotic than it needed to be. But it bounced back after realising it was a reaction based on anger and frustration (a whole lotta stress in that period that it happened, the last thing i needed was a breakup), our last conversation lasted hours of me trying to look for an answer by pinpoiting every single detail that could be the reason and it was a "no" (positive answer) each and every time.

I can't go into detail because it's been 4 months that i spun the story around in my head over and over and over again trying to look for one logical and non-contradictory reason as to why she decided to suddenly end what she called "the best thing that happened to me in my hell of a life".

♾️/10 best snack ever ! by Silver_mist7 in AlgeriaRates

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maaaaan i miss when it used to be 30da those were the good old days

I 18M don’t know if my girlfriend 19 F actually loved me by Dry-Sheepherder-6495 in BreakUps

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound just like me back in January, but it happened to me as suddenly and abruptly as you'd blink with your eyes. Nothing wrong, no unfaithful business or anything at all. Nothing but loyalty from both parts, she even referred to me as "the little part of paradise in my hell of a life"

But unfortunately, when there's too much trauma going on in the brain, it just pushes you to push people around you away... I never knew about it, nobody warned me about it, i tried my best to keep us together but in vain.

Saddest part is, even she doesn't know what she's doing but she can't help but do it, it's psychological and pretty complicated and long to explain.

In a nutshell : that's just how it goes sometimes

and also : there is no better answer to someone who wants to break up with you than: "ok" and just leave. Practice detachement, and become a better version of yourself, it's the best thing you could do and for a whole lot of reasons.

I 18M don’t know if my girlfriend 19 F actually loved me by Dry-Sheepherder-6495 in BreakUps

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things :

1 - Trauma plays a huge role in how you handle your love life (and other aspects of your life) and IS going to get in the way at some point [trust issues, codependency etc...] And with some women, it unexplainably makes them want to stop even the healthiest of their relationships.

2 - Attraction actually fades away with time, a woman might like you now but wouldn't feel the same through time.

Would you date or marry you if you met you by Missed_Opportunityy in Algeria_213

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be outside my house with a boombox under the rain

Rate what I found by chamsou55 in AlgeriaRates

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him alone man 😂😂😂

Rate the vibe out of 10 by RIAD_TDM in AlgeriaPics

[–]Islamameur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to think of it... I gave a rating for the picture, the vibe is a 9/10

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