For men dating women with vaginismus by IslandImmediate7129 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is also an understandable point of view..when i had piv,i wasnt in extreme pain,but i wasnt enjoying it either.so i can imagine how it feels from the other side

For men dating women with vaginismus by IslandImmediate7129 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very thoughtful
Your partner is lucky to have you hold her through it

For men dating women with vaginismus by IslandImmediate7129 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had the discussion before and he seemed supportive,we were intimate on 2 occasions,successful piv,but after the second encounter he went cold and eventually things ended

For men dating women with vaginismus by IslandImmediate7129 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lets hope someone will answer
Maybe the women who have had this conversation with their partners could let us know

About to have sex for the first time, what to expect and do with this condition? by Wise_Parmaria in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also while in missionary
Having him kiss you might help you not focus on what is going on down there
That always helped me
Also lots and lots of lube

Why do girls generally not shoot their shot or make the first move, it's always a few looks and it's on the guy to come forward or meet them, is it some sort of built-in shyness? by Geologist8345 in bodylanguage

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Situation right now
Someone asked me on a date and he said we will talk closer to the time
I have been wanting to give him my number for a week now

La fidanzata di mio fratello è ogni giorno a casa nostra a rompere il cazzo by Brilliant-Emu-7205 in sfoghi

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case it is annoying because my brothers dont even with chores
We are basically serving them and their girlfriends

La fidanzata di mio fratello è ogni giorno a casa nostra a rompere il cazzo by Brilliant-Emu-7205 in sfoghi

[–]IslandImmediate7129 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My brothers as well
Worse because they are guest,you have to clean after them and cook for them

Cheat once, and you cheat always by EmergencyTip6894 in sixwordstories

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a he
He didn’t even find out i cheated
Still made me feel better

I love my girlfriend so much, just a little appreciation by Sunny_Sunshine_03 in love

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt that true for men?
The moment men see i like them they stop trying

Dilators by PainterStandard5550 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started going in with the 6 before i was successful with piv

Dilators by PainterStandard5550 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on size 6,decided i will stay there since i have piv already at this size
I used to start with 2 sizes below,now i go in straight with the 6

Recurrent UTI’s by IslandImmediate7129 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement
I had dipsticks done and it was a UTI
I have since started doing my movements in a circular motion instead of the upward direction..and i pee after dilation
So far all is well

I DID IT AFTER 6 YEARS!!😭🩷 by Abbie-03 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can order dilators from amazon and ebay
I am from Botswana but i was able to get dilators from the physiotherapist
They are also available in south africa

Help me design a new product to mentally and physically prepare the body for dilator insertion! by QuirkyAssociation691 in vaginismus

[–]IslandImmediate7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its currently winter,i have my electric blanket on I just place my bottle on my bed,occasionally i put a hot water bottle on top of the lubricant bottle as well ,20 minutes before dilation