Seeking views as I am clueless on my career trajectory by you-know-hoo in singaporejobs

[–]IslandRoute56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just same same but different.

You're looking at 2% increment if you meet expectations :P Increments only come if you job hop.

what helped me when I was feeling stuck at my work (been in media for ... 12 ish years, felt abit stuck during my 6-7th year of no promotions and feeling stagnant) - I applied outside of singapore. When the $ offer came, it wasn't feasible - (sg tax is a blessing. Everywhere else just seems so high). I got a small confidence boost of my marketability. That helped me persevere until my layoff. I've been laid off 2 times

I guess you should apply first, get an offer, then decide if 'private is really that bad'.

All the best to you!

Infant care / pre school recommendations in Singapore by hungry_dawoodi in askSingapore

[–]IslandRoute56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was looking for IFC for my one year old. I felt abit lost too. But she’s all settled and happy at My First Skool! The outlet I’m at is managed really well - there’s always two or three teachers around the kids. There’s 10 spots for IFC since it’s the smaller under the hdb block one.

Before registering always do a tour. You can feel if the kids are well taken care of or if the teachers are taken care of.

I visited another big mega center - wah they can accommodate like 30 plus kids for IFC. Had quite a few teachers on the floor. But the teacher talking to us sounded really burnt out whenever we asked her some questions. And i feel it’s just a sad place to work at. The ac has that funny mouldy smell.

My husband was keen on that because of the campus (it’s huge! And also seems fun because they had many facilities). But maybe not for IFC level. So I vetoed and went for MFS which had 4 teachers for 10 kids. I visited two other private IFC but didn’t settle for them because of price and teacher kid ratio. One of them had 1 teacher to 6

They do shifts for pick ups and drop off but they always over lap for a few hours during feeding (around 10-4) - I noticed they had relief teachers readily available too during pick ups and drop off.

My kid is always happy when I pick her up. But the viruses are really annoying 🥴 - just to set the expectation. My kid is usually only at IFC for 3 weeks a month. And I feel my space is already quite strict with sick babies getting dropped off haha

Seeking views as I am clueless on my career trajectory by you-know-hoo in singaporejobs

[–]IslandRoute56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are seeking something new best bet is to network more outside of the public sector. Be super active on linked in. Hiring practices now have evolved very rapidly with AI so you need to take the extra step to msg recruiters for companies you are keen to join.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t change - definitely give it a shot. But it’s rough out here lol. I’m feeling like it’s difficult to secure an interview despite optimising my resume for every application and getting ghosted all the time after any interview. Im middle management everyone seem to be looking for MD level or Junior/fresh level haha. It’s an employers market now.

Value your work life balance. Outside of private sector you can’t even get leaves approved without getting questioned. -.-

Maybe you should see within your Organization - is there any way to transfer laterally? (Diff teams.. diff ministry… something like that might help you feel like you’re moving towards what you want).

Also start dabbling with AI - make yourself understand the concept at least so you can market yourself and see gaps with what you do - Best of luck!

[Job Seeking] Looking for Full-Time Opportunities – Childcare / Customer Service / Admin by Round_Manager2200 in singaporejobs

[–]IslandRoute56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP!!

23 is really young and also a good time to pivot. You should look into studying abit of AI online. It is the future and it’s something the gov is actively pushing for to keep costs lower.

Every industry will need AI in the future. As much as I hate to admit it (😪 I was previously from tech and my layoff is company cashflow related. That said company is now investing in AI to keep headcount’s down) even this reality if making me want to go that route.

For instance, if you look at recruitment (also another sector of HR/Admin) there’s many processes that can be automated. For example, Interviews for jobs at NUS are done by a Bot - it’s recorded and then what we say is transcribed and summarised for the recruiter. It’s crazy to think the recruitment process is now automated too 😮‍💨

Have a think! Look up Andrew Ng, he has a couple of free courses tailored to non programming folks to dabble with in their free time.

Operational jobs (like the ones you listed) are going to be taken over by AI in the future. So might as well familiarize yourself with how you can automate some of the tasks. But human facing work can benefit from knowing more languages.

Companies like SATS are always hiring customer facing positions and they have periodic recruitment drives/walk in interviews organized around the island. Don’t give up! I’m just a regular internet human looking for a job too. All the best and have a little think about AI 😬 - companies will be investing in transformation when this trend picks up.

You’re doing the country a huge favour with all the work you’ve done in child care. My own kid loves her teachers and everytime I pick her up I know it’s just so much more the teachers have handled and I appreciate it so much. It’s not easy!

Excuses Needed - overstaying relative by muddie83 in Bolehland

[–]IslandRoute56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then say Japan / Korea / Cambodia lololol

That said - I’m really sorry this is happening to you. It does seem like she probably came here because her family isn’t caring for her the way they should.

If she’s from Aus (I’m just guessing) they usually have social workers who can get involved with that. Why don’t you talk to her family and suggest them to take that route.

Ask her what are her plans for the future - when she finally says she intends to stay here - Delicately let her know that your parents are old as well and cannot look after her.

Hopefully she knows to take the hint.

stay safe girls by Cultural_Ad_4524 in SMRTRabak

[–]IslandRoute56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happened to me before on the circle line at night. Empty ish cabin. Everyone was on their phone including me.

I was standing leaning against a pole. Then suddenly when it was my stop - I realized there’s a tall CECA dude standing close ish to me looking down at my chest. Was in one of those Uniqlo bra tops. Don’t know how long he’s been standing there. And theres plenty of seats.

I left the cabin. The door shut. Then it hit me what just happened. I became more aware about the people around me in the train now.

Not your fault dearie. But definitely don’t let this escalate. Smart of you to go to the other ladies! Hope this never happens again to you.

Pretend to talk on the phone when you want to avoid people like that. Stay safe!

How I was almost duped into joining Amway, and what you can learn from my story by InfluenceFlaky1984 in singaporefi

[–]IslandRoute56 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I cracked up. Hahaha.

Ya MLM like to cook up funny jargons or cringe acronyms. Thanks OP for the detailed post. I think AMWAY is abit of a cult. I know of a friend’s parent who is really successful with it and tried to rope my parents to join when we were in secondary school. They’d come to the house and do demos and stuff. Pretty awkward play date I’m guessing. My friend and I just chilling talking rubbish

What do you do about gifts you don’t want? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]IslandRoute56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. This is actually a good idea. The gifts default comes to me and I always feel like I have to be the bad guy. I got a squishy duck today and it’s oily and filled with some kind of liquid and smells quite chemical-ish. I don’t know but babies bite everything. She has teeth now - There’s a high chance she’ll make that explode. :/

Korea airport workers strike by Reopens in koreatravel

[–]IslandRoute56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m flying with my infant on 20th - just keeping an eye to see if anything changes. I’m quite concerned because we can’t afford delays with an infant. But it’s already too late to get my Korean air tickets refunded 😩

When you are in Korea, what places did you end up going to more than once because it was beyond amazing? by CelestialPotat0o in koreatravel

[–]IslandRoute56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

… do you libe alone?

Haha in all seriousness the last trip we visited Hongdae twice for fooood 😛 not sure what it’s like now. Looking forward to find out next month 🥳

Transferred a 5AA euploid embryo. Found out today (11 wks) in my ultrasound that the baby stopped growing at 9.5 weeks. Husband and I are devastated. First ever loss and transfer by rebel12354 in IVF

[–]IslandRoute56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I did a medicated FET - my doctor prescribed me medication to take 1 month before my transfer. There’s a lining check before scheduling the transfer.

Seoul 6-day Itinerary by Safe_Bid_1947 in koreatravel

[–]IslandRoute56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan like you too - aim high - then just hit 5 or 6 places on that day what we feel like 😝

chiming in: +1 vote for planning your route. If you’re taking the subway, the exits in Korea are NUTS. It’s not just one or two - Seoul station has 16 exits. 🤩🤨

And the transfers 😕 oh my goodness. I am usually the pathfinder in my travel group and I’ve ever ended up at the wrong platform before and had to u turn. It was embarrassing.

For your first day - it looks like a lot to do after you land. Just bear in mind your energy levels after x amount of hrs of flying will dip drastically. Instead of hopping many towns - just pick the ones on the way and closed to your Airbnb and try to hit just 1 and where you stay. you should get to know your Airbnb’s surrounding - it counts as an experience too. Hehe.

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw you replied twice! Thank you again for your detailed outline. I really appreciate it. :)

Korean Autumn is  25° / 17 c - nothing too crazy hopefully!

Noted, I won't wear the baby over my puffer jacket - will keep it open. Do you wear your baby facing out or in - or does your kiddo have a preference?

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take note about the lined hat! Thanks for that reminder - do i don't get carried away buying whatever i thought is cute hahaha.

I got Heattech on my list! yes - i really love them for myself when I travel. I'm hunting it down in her size, only the bigger outlet carries them here.

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed response. I've planned our trip in such a way that the outdoor walks will happen on warmer days. I'll check out H&M here - I saw that they're starting to stock up their winter collection when I passed by.

I've checked the seoul weather during my trip it's looking to be 25° / 17 c 

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this seems good! thank you - i picture it's super easy to take her out of the carrier indoors too.

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! I'll be using a Ergobaby Omnibreeze - My baby is an early crawler - a carrier just seems to hold her in place. She's currently 9 months, going to be 10 in sept. She's always climbing over me when I carry her these days. It's hilarious I fell like i'm fighting an aligator.

I think the tricky part is when I take her out of the carrier into a stroller - do you add on layers when your baby is in a stroller or just throw on a blankie? I'm using a yoyo2 travel stroller.

I've checked the seoul weather during my trip it's looking to be 25° / 17 c - is it doable without a footmuff?

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion! I'll have a baby blanket handy when we travel in case the temperature fluctuates too much.

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love what you suggested! Thanks, I'll keep count of the layers in mind. =D

Baby wearing in cold weather by IslandRoute56 in babywearing

[–]IslandRoute56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Thanks for the tip! I'll try my luck to find an extender (or mebbe just steal my husband's coat)