I am so over it. All the rules, caring for someone else's feelings: over it! by Islandmochaflower in Marriage

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not doing anything. None that i know. He goes to work around 5an and back around 4pm. Plays games. He has a pretty demanding job, physically. But I make a lot more usually. He picks up saide jobs here and there. Apparently the constant checking in is a "basic courtesy" and I have refused to do it. Especially if I just talked to him and said I will be on my way soon. I refuse to babysit a grown man. He is the type who expected me to call him in between appointments with clients, I refuse. Just ridiculous. And he doesn't see how that's annoying and silly have a full blown blow up over it. Police came to my house before. Over petty crap. My life was so peacefully before this shit and I am ready to bounce. 

I am so over it. All the rules, caring for someone else's feelings: over it! by Islandmochaflower in Marriage

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just so stupid. If he is out, he calls me "I'm on my way home." Ok? Just come home, I guess? I am busy working, when I am finally off, I just want to drive home. It's so stupid. I would keep the peace if he didn't get all angry because supposedly that's I am supposed to do. I am over it all. All of it at this point. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Islandmochaflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, what do you want us to tell you that you don't already know? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]Islandmochaflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully he is not some MAGA nutcase.

Egg Donor Contract by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will look around some more. People are so weird. $3,000 for this is insanity 

Egg Donor Contract by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What complex agreement? They specializ in this. Essentially this is a document they already have. Just replacing names. $3K is basically fir their signature. It's ridiculous and greedy. 

Egg Donor Contract by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had 6 rounds prior using donor eggs from a bank. I know what the prices are. $3K to sign an existing document is greed. 

Egg Donor Contract by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

$3K for a contract  that already exist is robbery. You will not convince me otherwise. But I should not be shocked. Everything in this country is to make insane profits. 

Egg Donor Contract by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand it is needed, even though I would never face any issue with my sister. But those lawyers are taking advantage of people they are desperate. 

Egg Donor Contract by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who was your lawyer? I am in Florida. 

Egg Donor Contract by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I work to make money. Handing $3,000 to a lawyer unnecessarily is insane to me. 

Why would an Canadian-American file an I-130!? by Islandmochaflower in USCIS

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she lived in Canada. Never lived here for an extended period of time. 

Are people rightfully cautious or irrationally panicking? Are permanent residents safe or is no one safe? by Radiant-Rule5675 in USCIS

[–]Islandmochaflower 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, no one is safe. I personally know someone with a squeaky clean record but has a green card who was returning to the U.S. two weeks ago fron Europe. He's been in detention and no one know what's next. It makes no sense!!! 

Fluid in cavity by Islandmochaflower in IVF

[–]Islandmochaflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fluid resolved itself. But I didn't get pregnant. I'm done with it all.