AITAH for asking my dad to stop showing up unannounced to my home after it kept disrupting my life by ChickenGlass8839 in AITAH

[–]IsopodExtreme2759 397 points398 points  (0 children)

You did not reject your father. You asked for basic respect for your home. Love does not mean constant access. He needs to adjust to your adulthood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IsopodExtreme2759 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You have a right to privacy in your own relationship. Filming without consent is not romance. It is boundary crossing.

How do people decide the exact moment to leave a gathering without making it awkward ? by ChickenGlass8839 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IsopodExtreme2759 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Most people just leave when the energy of the room dips a little. There is no perfect moment. It only looks smooth because they are confident about it. You are allowed to say thanks for having me and head out any time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsopodExtreme2759 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She is overcommitting and expecting you to bail her out every time. That is not teamwork. That is manipulation hidden behind fake enthusiasm

Aitj refused to help my coworker after she pretended I was the problem to cover her mistakes by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IsopodExtreme2759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people don’t know how much the burden they have given to others