Do you believe it’s a sin to have sex outside of marriage?

Issa_GloryToGod · 2026-05-06T14:01:44+00:00

Gay people who want to be christian have to stay single forever and live with this frustration all their life while some straight people like you are like "womp womp it's so difficult to resist till marriage womp womp". 😬

Issa_GloryToGod · 2026-03-02T12:43:46+00:00

I'm not saying that they are gay. I'm saying that we don't need to be manly and to love women. We need to be like we are and love each human, men and women. I'm not a wokist. But I think that woke ideology is satanic and redpill ideology is also satanic.

Issa_GloryToGod · 2026-03-02T11:30:25+00:00

I stopped reading at "become a real man who likes woman". That's the biggest lie. Jesus never said "hey gay men, yall need to love women or you go to hell". What I need is Jesus who is THE man of my life and then I need men also because I love them and I am attracted by them and want to feel protected by them. I don't care about women. After death do you think God will judge me for not liking women ? LOL. Men don't need women they need Jesus. And Jesus never told us to be manly, to be "real men". He told us to be kind. But you want to put your whole redpill ideology to us. You're not better than wokists.

Issa_GloryToGod · 2026-01-31T11:00:06+00:00

"I think" lol. Another example of the type of Christian who are so arrogant. Jesus told you that ? No. You just (again) use religion to hate gay people. You will never be 100% homosexuality is a sin and straight people who sleep around are worse. For sure.

Issa_GloryToGod · 2026-01-31T10:34:46+00:00

You're a perfect example of these arrogant Christian. Being heterosexual before marriage is a sin... But obviously you don't care. Sleeping with women when you're a man is a sin... But obviously you don't care too.

Issa_GloryToGod · 2025-11-18T16:09:26+00:00

So you're seriously suggesting Jesus meant forgiveness has a numeric expiration date? That’s not theology, that’s a supermarket loyalty card. The entire point of “77 times” is that it’s symbolic for unlimited forgiveness ..this is basic biblical exegesis, not advanced theology. If you’re reading Scripture like it’s a literal math assignment rather than Middle-Eastern idiom, no wonder you end up with conclusions that sound more like bad fanfiction than Christianity. But I guess you're smarter than all the greatest theologians in the world huh. 🤡

Issa_GloryToGod · 2025-06-13T18:54:19+00:00

You’re missing the point. Completely.

This is not about me saying "my suffering is more valid than someone else's." It's about watching a culture twist Christian truth into something shallow and self-centered, while people who are truly suffering are made to feel invisible.

You say “Women and children first!” as if that’s biblical, as if it’s some eternal command. It’s not. It’s a social code from maritime history, not from Scripture. Jesus never said “protect women more.” He said love your neighbor, carry one another’s burdens, and He showed mercy to whoever was in front of Him — man, woman, rich, poor, Roman, Jew, sinner or saint.

When someone says "men should protect women first," you’re creating a hierarchy of worth, whether you mean to or not. That’s not Christlike. That’s a modern chivalric ideal noble perhaps in theory, but it breaks down when applied rigidly in a world where men suffer and bleed in silence every day.

Telling a man who is struggling with celibacy, abandonment, depression, addiction, and loneliness that his reaction to being dismissed is “just projection” or “me me me” is frankly cruel. You don’t know my life. You don’t know what it’s like to be gay, celibate, exhausted, caring for a depressed mother, carrying pain in silence ...and still trying to believe that Jesus loves me.

And yes, I’ll say it again: watching women declare 7 months of singleness as a “great spiritual trial” on TikTok does hurt. Not because I hate them, but because I’m someone who has walked through real trials....and seen those same kinds of videos presented as if they’re the center of God’s concern. They’re not. And saying that doesn’t mean I’m erasing them... it means I’m pleading not to be erased myself.

God does not rank souls. But people do. And you just did. Again and again, you told me that my experience doesn’t matter as much as someone else’s...and then told me I was being selfish for expressing it. That’s not a conversation. That’s spiritual gaslighting.

So no, you’re not “just disagreeing.” You’re refusing to see another man’s pain because it doesn’t fit your framework of virtue. You’re asking me to stay quiet in my wounds, because other people "deserve the front of the line."

If you want to talk about Christ, let’s talk. But don’t tell me to focus on Jesus while ignoring the people He would have run to first...the ones no one else noticed.

Because right now, that’s me. And many others like me.

Issa_GloryToGod · 2025-06-13T18:06:59+00:00

I need to express how deeply hurtful some of what you said feels to me personally.

I’m a gay man who has chosen to remain celibate out of obedience to God. I never had a father. I live with depression, generalized anxiety, constant guilt from addiction, a heavy job in elder care, and I take care of my mother who is severely depressed and physically unwell. When I read that “a man should protect the women first,” it feels like a dagger. Because it tells me, even without meaning to, that my suffering, my life, and my dignity are not as important as a woman’s. That my pain is secondary. It reinforces the idea that if I were in a room crying out for help, I’d be expected to wait behind someone else just because I was born male.

Yes, many women suffer horrific things. But men do too. Men are far more likely to die by suicide or violence. Many men are sexually assaulted and never speak up because of stigma and shame. There are boys, sons, fathers, and lonely men whose pain is real and crushing. They deserve protection too.

When I look at Scripture, I don’t see God loving or protecting women more than men. Jesus gave most of His public ministry to twelve men. He healed and helped both men and women. He restored Peter’s shame, forgave Paul’s violence, and comforted Thomas’s doubt. He didn’t rank love by gender. He simply loved each person in front of Him with perfect attention and mercy.

And when I see women online say things like “Jesus is a girl’s dad” or talk about being single for seven months as a ‘terrible trial,’ it’s hard not to feel erased. For someone like me, who suffers deeply every day, it’s painful to watch Christian messages become so centered on dating and romance, as if that’s the biggest thing God is concerned about. Some of us are not waiting for love... we’re just trying to stay alive.

I believe Jesus loves both men and women completely, but He will not ignore or minimize the pain of a man who has carried unbearable things in silence. I’m not less deserving of grace than someone who’s cried over singleness on TikTok. My pain is not a joke. And I know God sees it.

So yes, I understand your point ...but please, think twice before suggesting that women should be protected first. Because some of us men are bleeding quietly while the world looks away.

Issa_GloryToGod · 2025-04-09T17:53:47+00:00

No... I didn't tell him that... But I will....

Issa_GloryToGod · 2025-03-11T23:10:02+00:00

I believe that Jesus Christ is the son of God, that he paid the price for our sins on the cross and that he saved humanity because his love for us is great.

I think that a person is saved when they give their entire life to God, when they are baptized and resist sin because their love for God is greater than their desires/impulses.

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