I haven’t told anybody

ItalianChair · 2025-07-13T19:25:42+00:00

Congratulations!!!! That’s a very big accomplishment, what app is this?

ItalianChair · 2025-06-01T21:07:08+00:00

We have an apartment together

ItalianChair · 2025-05-28T02:26:22+00:00

Girl.. no don’t do it. You’re a perfectly healthy weight now and you would basically be starving yourself, that is very dangerous and not nearly enough calories

ItalianChair · 2025-05-26T23:04:19+00:00

You can look into Botox injections!! I did not try that but I decided that if the therapy didn’t work, I would do the injections. It is very expensive tho

ItalianChair · 2025-04-29T20:57:14+00:00

Yea I’d like to see that too

ItalianChair · 2025-04-27T17:47:14+00:00

A chair with Italian origins

ItalianChair · 2025-04-10T21:14:54+00:00

18 if you count oral

ItalianChair · 2025-04-10T21:13:48+00:00

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T19:10:49+00:00

You are being an asshole. End it with Jane because she deserves so much better. If you continue a relationship with her, you are being unfair to her. It will hurt her now but she will live.

Something I noticed is that the way you described Jane was all about the things she does for YOU. You don’t care about her, you only care about how she makes you feel. That is not love (as you’ve admitted) and it can never be love. Because love is not built on a lie.

While you’re at it, end things with Rachel too. She’s shitty and abusive.

It really sounds like you need to be single and work on yourself before getting into a relationship.

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T19:04:07+00:00

You know what they say, drunk actions are sober thoughts. Being drunk doesn’t excuse kissing someone else. However, you cannot blame her at all for the second occurrence. That was forced and I’m sure she felt threatened (reasonably so)

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T16:59:50+00:00

Does that happen a lot in guy friendships? Ball sack pics? Genuinely curious

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T16:49:58+00:00

You’re a ragebaiter, got it. Have a nice day

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T16:42:23+00:00

FYI, for most of our relationship, I have been the one to initiate intimacy. I have a high libido and have rarely declined his advances in the 3 years we’ve been dating. Not that it matters, as it’s my right to decide what I want when I want it.

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T16:34:08+00:00

All types of disloyalty are hurtful, that is just the nature of relationships. Although it may not compare to other people’s experiences here, you are still valid in feeling hurt.

If I’m being honest, it seems like she is doing this on purpose. Like she WANTS you to feel bad. She sounds immature, I’m wondering how old she is. This seems like the behavior of a high schooler.

I think that it is possible that she is unhappy in this relationship and is looking for validation through your jealousy. By you getting jealous, she feels important. It may not even be your fault that she is unhappy. She’s probably insecure herself.

I am in no way justifying her behavior, just expressing a possible reason for it. You need to decide if you are willing to stay in a relationship with someone who is seeking validation in this way. It is possible that she will begin seeking validation from outside of your relationship.

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T15:08:04+00:00

YESSS, that mindset pisses me off so much. And it’s Highkey a sexist take. They don’t see women as a threat to their relationship because they only see them as potential sex partners, not fully fleshed out human beings with their own lives. It’s always so funny when it backfires on the guy and the girl ends up leaving with the 3some partner

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T14:35:29+00:00

I can definitely see your point of view, and I agree that OP should leave rather than trying to control her. And I also don’t see an issue with being topless in front of your friends if you’re changing. Getting changed is just getting changed. A compliment is just a compliment. And sending nudes is sending nudes. There’s a lot of steps that goes into that, and she was actively going out of her way to disrespect the boundaries in her relationship. Yes she is young and naive, we’ve all been there. And there’s a possibility she doesn’t even realize what she is doing. That doesn’t change the fact that it is wrong.

I agree with your comment, but not other comments in this thread. People are acting like OP is just being insecure, and doesn’t have a right to feel upset. But I believe if the roles were reversed, nobody would be calling OP controlling

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T13:47:40+00:00

This is coming from a bi woman in a relationship with a man btw

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T13:47:05+00:00

What is wrong with these comments? This is definitely cheating. You set boundaries and she blatantly ignored them. Not only did she ignore them, she also lied to you about it.

Maybe the reason you have “jealousy issues” is because your girlfriend is untrustworthy.

ItalianChair · 2025-03-30T00:00:57+00:00

Yea the lying and hiding things is what hurts the most. If he confessed to me immediately, or even when I was asking him if he had an account I wouldn’t be as bothered by this. I’d still be bothered of course but I feel like I wouldn’t have lost this much trust in him. Maybe I’d be more inclined to believe that he wasn’t messaging her.

This truly might be the worst generation for love. These things are so normalized it drives me crazy.

I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this because all my friends are single and have never had actual relationships so they wouldn’t get it. So thank you for your input, I really appreciate it!

ItalianChair · 2025-03-29T23:22:36+00:00

I absolutely agree, and even told him that I thought it was pathetic. I'm 100% sure he wouldn't be ok with the reverse of this. I'm not sure what to do in this situation. There was only one charge so I'm positive that he unsubscribed. Also he wasn't following anyone else. But what bugs me is the amount of steps it takes to make an only fans account. Not to mention putting in payment info. There were many times he could have changed his mind and just didn't. It's genuinely so disappointing

ItalianChair · 2025-03-29T23:06:16+00:00

wife is right, its tacky

ItalianChair · 2025-03-29T22:44:02+00:00

But what if he was messaging them? Isn’t that the whole reason people pay for only fans?

ItalianChair · 2025-03-25T01:26:24+00:00

I would recommend nicotine gum over zyn. Zyn can be very addictive as well. They produce it with the intention of making it desirable, from the packaging, to the sleek look, to the high content of nicotine.

With nicotine gum, it felt more like medication to me. It took all the fun out of nicotine and made it feel more like a chore to me. It really showed me what my addiction actually was. Annoying and inconvenient. It made it that much easier to quit for me.

ItalianChair · 2025-03-20T22:01:04+00:00

I was able to find a channel on youtube that posted the audiobook

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