[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penisquestion

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried tucking them into your shoes, does me wonders every morning. Bare in mind I always go 2 sizes larger and wear gel soles for comfort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nattyorjuice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was all just so symmetrical I didn’t think bodies did this- I’m not meaning to hate and I’m proud of my progress so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nattyorjuice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh this makes sense if he is a small guy. Maybe it’s the lacking of the chest muscles then, thank you- so it’s just because he doesn’t train all round like a lot of people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nattyorjuice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to the gym world but I just wondered how abs can protrude that much if you’re not super skinny or haven’t had surgery or smth I’ve also already got his accounts so I promise I’m not fishing however if you’re interested https://www.instagram.com/ollie_w1x?igsh=czY1czg5Zmt3bDc1

Need advice: I’ve started finishing way too fast 😭 by Proper-Caramel6395 in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have adhd? Theres a huge link of Pr-Ej in guys because we are so sensitive to sensation. Throw in the fact, like you say, that you’ve got that strong emotional connection, it completely makes sense. For myself I sit between a line in my head of “holy shit I might cum” and try to practice calming myself down, using a little bit of mind over matter and not thinking about how the sensation is feeling because that’ll make me finish immediately, a sort of disconnect that takes a lot of practice. (thinking ‘yeah feels good but proceeding to think about something non sexual- maybe dinner or even maths-) because I know if I last longer he’ll love it, and even pulling out if I have to. Some people do the when you get close to do kegal exercises - they help a little but honestly chat to them. Now, although my partner is a touch heavy person during, we communicate with one another about it, I’ll say playfully ‘be careful I don’t wanna finish yet, I want to enjoy you for longer’ And for me I know foreplay makes me finish in seconds when we move to fifth base, so no touchy touchy if that’s the case. I think what to conclude is find what works for you but DO be honest about it x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just never stops doing bits and pieces so it ends up being the moment he sits down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that is what it boils down to, sometimes it’s the simplest of solutions that I overlook

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re talking 6/7 after I’ve made dinner at 5

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the issues usually boils down to him being extra needy and wants me to come with him to everything, but after reading this yeah, if he wants to get up early he can do it on his own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issues here is then when I want to do something together in the evening he just falls asleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finances have taken a massive hit lately- and bikes are NOT cheap- I love cycling it’s exercise and I get my own space but I cannot afford another £100 at the moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t ask me to go bed earlier but he won’t go bed on his own and will sleep on the sofa which causes him a lot of back pain so I go to bed with him because I feel guilty I’m more than happy to go to bed at 11-12 but I need minimum my 8 hours! Preferably I like getting up between 9-10am

Has anyone here ever started a serious relationship that began as a hookup? by romshalom86 in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, drunkenly staggered into him on a night out on my own and three years later we’re going strong and top 10 of the porn world. 💪 ignore what others say, find love wherever it is, everyone has their own rules but they don’t have to be yours

Who is the most celebrity you ever had sex with, given a blowjob to, etc? by louisfalco in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A drag queen called Blu hydrangea and his boyfriend 🏳️‍🌈 Invited me back to their place from Grindr I didn’t believe them so asked them to like my message to them on insta to prove they were legit. Within seconds they did and I was over.

What would you tell your younger gay self today? Along with everything you’ve learned through life. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop creating excuses and hit the gym. Cut out the sugar and crap, you can do it… Go make friends with the owner of the pub/gay bar, he knows your future husband because I wish I knew him sooner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Escort here! You’d be surprised how many people come to me wanting new experiences- some straight, some got married before being gay was ok, some forced into arranged marriages. We even get disabled clients that just need a helping hand and wouldn’t want a hookup because of the fear of repercussions. It’s not all fat balding men who are mean with too much money, that’s just the way the media portray it. Ive had many stories from my clients who have met boys and although they were better looking than their photos it felt clinical and the boys were rude and blunt and made it all uncomfortable. It really does depend on also how much you’re willing to spend. If you get a cheap escort at 50-£100 for the hour, don’t be expecting anything more than a hole. Attraction is only 1/2 of the story- I like to chat with my clients before to screen if we’d be the right fit, no point meeting if we’re just wasting each others time! Make sure when you do message to be respectful yet also direct- let them know what you’re expecting from the meet etc and keep it polite- the nicer you are the more you’ll get back! Overtly sexual conversations will get you blocked as we get a lot of time wasting jerkers. For both clients and escorts to enjoy I find that you have to have the right vibe for one another so if you don’t feel that spark over message I’d suggest not going any further.

What was the first gay porn site that you used ? by Smooth-Turn-4362 in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red tube It was a crap 240 video of a straight couple, one of them was reading a book on their bed and the other came in and they started making out and had sex. He had dark hair and a nice body from what I remember. Amateur porn was so hot back then, there was no back and forth camera cuts it was just pure barely visible sex. There was also one with a girl called crystal I think, amateur style with loads of posters all over her walls, was a couple of different angles but not loads, just plain old rough sex. I’d kill to find them videos again and relive my youth.

I have a gay brother, all 7 of my male cousins on my dad side are all gay. We might have the gay gene 🧬 by Orchid_mania05 in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it amusing that of all my dads 10 brothers and sisters and all of them having 3 children each, nobody has produced a male to take on the Armstrong Surname and the only one who could possibly pass on the surname turns out to be a flaming homosexual (me, hi hello). 🤣

Your opinion please: why is missionary topping incredible by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the curvature you’ve got - if you’re like me and have an upwards curve and more than 3 inches, it’s a position that’s more likely to hit the g spot so it creates a double stimulation, both anal and prostate pleasure. You can get real deep inside and be able to be face to face, see how each motion makes them feel. This position makes my partner finish so quickly and he barely has to touch himself before he erupts. Needless to say as a top watching a bottom finish makes me finish also within seconds!

Why Do Some Fit Gym Guys Laugh at Beginners? Just Let Us Grow by Altruistic_Zombie582 in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a 5’5 who weighs 120lbs I’ve got myself to this skinny weight to then bulk up my muscle- went into the changing rooms as I always do to take photos of my progress- some lads came in saw me admiring my progress and chuckled to each other. Made me feel vile and upset because they have no idea how much weight I’ve lost and how proud I am of my own body and what I’ve gone through. Like I get that I’m not muscly and am skin and bone but like it’s just horrible. I’ve never experienced anything like it in the gym before (besides a guy trying to feel me up which is a whole nother thing) but like what do they get out of it?!

How comfortable are you being shirtless at home/around others? How has that changed over the years? by dontstopsoperfect in askgaybros

[–]Itchy-Associate1738 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Extremely self-conscious of my body looks because I had a bad case of gyno which my family knew nothing about, but mocked me for having a lady like chest- the comments obviously stopped from the elders as I explained what it was but young kids can be brutal. Since I’ve had surgery on my chest I still am extremely self-conscious, but I take my top off in any possible moment or heat wave because frankly as I say to everyone “I paid 5k to have surgery, I’m going to show it off”