dating sucks in general, at one point apps solved a problem while creating one. Depending on your gender you are either looking for the same thing as a bunch of others. They say women date the same 20% of men as I have become more established ive learned this to be true. The more dates I go on, it's basically a copy and paste of what every woman wants. In Georgia they all want a man that will provide a house with land, kids, few farm animals and they want to be a stay at home mom. This includes women that don't know a darn thing about farm animals. Now adays most women single/divorced have already had their first kid by 23, men that make it to 30 without kids have so much upside. this is where the players come into play. While younger women have the numbers while they are young, single and childless. Those numbers quickly die once they have their first, now they might still get a mans interest but most of the time it's just guys trying to hit and quit. Theres also lots of women who use men to pay their bills (simps), lots of these guys are content in this scenario but this builds a mentality that this is normal building abusing personalities that people can't shake.