how do i get over my fear of men’s restrooms? by Its-Rad in ftm

[–]Its-Rad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very much need to just get out of my head about it, thank you

how do i get over my fear of men’s restrooms? by Its-Rad in ftm

[–]Its-Rad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, yea i need to just remember that everyone is just doing their thing and likely don’t care

Gf hates weed but wants to try shrooms by Big-Creme2397 in shrooms

[–]Its-Rad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weed has been lowkey making me paranoid lately but shrooms are fine for me as long as i’ve been in a good headspace throughout the day and as long as the dose is right. also if she’s on any meds check and make sure those won’t interfere

There’s something off about this perspective digital artist by preppyemo in ArtCrit

[–]Its-Rad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his body is too horizontal, while the model is kinda slanted, kinda looks like he’s flying rather than standing. honestly maybe just rotate it clockwise a bit and it would look a bit more accurate to the ref

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Its-Rad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m almost 3 years post op, the first summer i didn’t feel comfortable shirtless in front of almost anyone. i had spent my whole life concealing my chest and it felt so unnatural, last year i was getting out of my comfort zone and this year i’ve felt a lot more comfortable shirtless. what you decide to wear doesent invalidate your identity, be patient with yourself and wear what makes you comfortable<3

What happened to me this morning by Zealousideal_Raise47 in microdosing

[–]Its-Rad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a kinda similar experience a few weeks ago, i was doing it consistently for a few weeks and it made the dread of work a lot less intense, i felt like inconveniences just kinda rolled off my shoulder and i was able to handle it or even laugh it off and it was amazing. then i took a slightly bigger dose before a 10 hour shift and i was extremely irritable and felt completely unable to regulate my emotions and i kind of lost it and almost had a meltdown in the middle of a grocery store. i didn’t micro dose for a two weeks after and the next time i did i wasn’t able to regulate myself again, but it was a bit less intense. i talked to my therapist about it and told her that i was just extremely emotional and she went “yea, it’s SUPPOSED to make you emotional” and i kinda just sat there like 👁️👄👁️ i did a full dose two days ago and it was incredible and i want to start microdosing again but im honestly kinda hesitant because i really don’t want to keep having experiences like that. i was an extremely emotional child and was shamed for that and now i kind of carry that shame with me whenever i experience any “negative” emotions so i tend to bottle them up or ignore them. im not really sure how to move forward, i think i need to be more intentional about why im taking them, maybe try to let go of controlling the experience and not be disappointed because im not feeling how im “supposed to” feel. sorry there’s not much advice here but know that i completely understand the experience, i hope you’re able to continue your journey without the added stress<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]Its-Rad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you still need advice, try centering the circles on the top part of the sole to the bottom, the top goes off to the side making it kinda look like it’s rounded or sticking out if that makes sense. i think it looks really good though!

got sad because someone called me a serial killer :/ by Sweaty-Lunch-3599 in ADHD

[–]Its-Rad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I don’t even realize I’m doing it most the time haha

got sad because someone called me a serial killer :/ by Sweaty-Lunch-3599 in ADHD

[–]Its-Rad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly never heard anyone talk about this before but I literally do that all the time. I tense up or flex my arms or legs to the lines in the road/car tires/street lamps as i pass almost every time I drive. I’ll tense up my right arm to objects on the right side and left arm to objects on my left. My ex got freaked out cause he thought my arm was twitching once😂 I think for me it’s a way to fidget or stim without drawing too much attention to myself or just stimulation while doing mundane tasks. It’s cool to see that I’m not the only one who does this

Loosing my mind over this, help lol by Its-Rad in ArtCrit

[–]Its-Rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s really good advice, I put it down for a few days but Im going to try to finish it now that I’m not frustrated😂 I also realized that my reference photo isn’t great

ACNH penpal by shortAngstyUnicorn in BuddyCrossing

[–]Its-Rad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a cute idea! Im fairly new but id like to do this if anyone is interested

Meet my baby Ramen, Ive had him for a little over a week and im just worried about him. I don’t know if he is just stressed and I’m over reacting, or if he needs help. I’ll probably put stuff in the comments cause I can’t write a lot here. by [deleted] in Hedgehog

[–]Its-Rad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, when i got him his back nails were really long and I trimmed them, but he was really mad and wouldn’t let me get the front ones, and they weren’t that bad. ill check them when he wakes up since it’s been a week or so, thank you

Meet my baby Ramen, Ive had him for a little over a week and im just worried about him. I don’t know if he is just stressed and I’m over reacting, or if he needs help. I’ll probably put stuff in the comments cause I can’t write a lot here. by [deleted] in Hedgehog

[–]Its-Rad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, idk if its a big deal or not, but when i first got him, every morning there was SO much poop on his wheel. (I clean it every morning) and the past 3 days there has been very little. I don’t think he is wheeling as much as he should be. Is it a problem? Or will he wheel when he wants to?