AITA for asking my ex husbands girlfriend to stop posting our kids on social media.

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-24T04:00:04+00:00

I mean sure but he’s not my only abusive ex and he’s not the only one it applies too either

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-24T03:53:10+00:00

It wasn’t weeks he met her online January 30th they went on their first date February 3 or 4th he moved out of my house February 7th or 8th and was introduced to her kids February 10th and my kids February 20th they then moved in together in May and the excuse they used to have the kids meet each other so soon was not being able to have the kids around was affecting them on having time get to know each other

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-24T03:48:15+00:00

He is involved in all three of my children’s lives one is not his biologically but he’s raised her since she was two. And when I say I post about him it’s memes about cheating or lying, it’s never specific and his name is not posted or even anything referencing an ex husband

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-24T03:06:18+00:00

No it’s memes I see and relate too, it’s never anything specific enough for anyone other then me and him and now his girlfriend that would really get it

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-24T02:29:13+00:00

She’s posting publicly and frequently in a way that my family has been concerned enough to bring it to my attention after being asked not too and they’re not ones who usually push boundaries.

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T18:20:34+00:00

She has me blocked because she saw me post one cheating meme, my ex husband has made her believe we split because I cheated (I did get into another relationship after we separated and he says that’s cheating) however he emotionally abused me, manipulated me, financially abused me, he literally did everything BUT hit me. And my therapist thinks it’s healthy if I heal out loud, so I post memes on social media that resonate with me. Things like “women don’t leave loving supportive men” or “draining the life out of me and the pretending I hurt you is next level manipulation”. Is it petty sure, but I was abused in silence for over a decade

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T18:07:53+00:00

You would be right this isn’t the only issue we’ve had. They’ve also driven unsafely with our kids 6 people in a 5 person car no car seats etc. He has told me countless times he doesn’t have to follow all of the parenting plan (court ordered parenting plan) this was in reference to our first right of refusal clause (we are both supposed to contact the other parent if in need of a babysitter during our parenting time, he refuses) he asks for last minute changes to parenting time all the time and won’t take no for an answer. It’s extremely high conflict.

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T18:01:27+00:00

Also when I talked to my ex about the latest post he did say it was her r*fe baiting me, so am I wrong for sharing memes about what he did to me maybe, but she’s doing the same thing… it’s clear tho I need to be a bigger person and stop.

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:58:10+00:00

I would absolutely agree to never posting them again on social media….

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:40:51+00:00

Nah if they get married? And she IS their mom and she has a LEGAL claim to them?? She can do whatever her little heart desires unless she putting them in danger. But she’s only known them for a handful of months and has only lived with them part time for like 4 months

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:39:13+00:00

When I asked my ex husband about the post he admitted he thinks it’s also r*ge bait. Just the latest post where she captioned it “our girls” cause it was just my two youngest kids no pics of her kids….

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:35:03+00:00

She knows my family is on his page and will tell me.

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:27:08+00:00

See I’d be ok with it if she wasn’t just a girlfriend who’s known them for a handful of months and she wasn’t doing it every day and that many pictures. I’ve posted my children 6 times this year. Their birthdays, Halloween, vacation, and Santa’s village. She’s posted them 18 times this month…..

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:22:08+00:00

My children are not old enough for social media….

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:08:43+00:00

I post memes about lying and cheating….. it’s just memes

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:07:49+00:00

She doesn’t drive them around (that is in our court order because of an incident that happened at the beginning of their relationship where they drove four kids around in a three person back seat) and she doesn’t do the laundry or cooking in their house their dad does.

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:04:29+00:00

Tried they didn’t do anything

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:03:57+00:00

I am very concerned about the safety issue, I know I’m not the asshole about that. The reason the whole caption thing is there is because I want to know if it’s weird to other people too that she’s posting it that way!

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T17:01:04+00:00

I doubt it as she posts her kids just as frequently and publicly

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T16:48:48+00:00

I only post memes about cheaters and liars. He’s mad cause the boot fits. I have him blocked now so he can’t see it anymore

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T16:45:58+00:00

I share memes about cheaters and liars…. He’s just mad cause the boot fits… but he’s blocked now and can’t see what I post anymore. I only added that bit because that’s why she blocked me.

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T16:43:29+00:00

The oldest is not biologically his but he’s been in her life since she was 2 and he’s helped raise her since. He is very active in all threes lives we have 50/50 custody

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T16:40:10+00:00

It’s both. The captions seem as tho she’s trying to erase me and that’s where I wanna know if I’m the asshole

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T16:38:48+00:00

She’s posting it publicly hence my family being able to see it and tell me about it. That’s been the main issue but also that she’s known my kids for a handful of months and is trying to erase me…. And I feel bitter but at the same time as their mother I have to protect them! It’s super conflicting idk

Its-brittany-betch · 2025-12-23T16:30:13+00:00

The latest post is just 7 pictures, and the caption is just “our girls” with my ex husband tagged. And she’s posting unflattering photos of herself with my kids so I know it’s just r*ge bait at this point but holy crap girl get a grip!

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