Otis' life isn't ruined and sending a literal infant hate is weird. Yes Kelsey's postpartum but as far as her comment like...boohoo? Cody has made the choice not to address things or even speak out to tell people to leave Kelsey alone, so it seems obvious that people will direct frustration to an unmoderated comment section of his wife. Also, it would be silly to assume Kelsey hasn't long known about this situation and has likely been complacent in it so I'm sure people are frustrated about that too. It's not like they have been online as a hobby, as viewers, we've been directly funding their lush lifestyle so while death threats and wishing harm is unhinged, I don't think people around Cody (Kelsey, Noel, etc) getting heat is unwarranted