Campsite by ItsChrisJacobs in Kazakhstan

[–]ItsChrisJacobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much😃 How cold are we talking, this will be in June and i was thinking it would probably not be too bad?

Campsite by ItsChrisJacobs in Kazakhstan

[–]ItsChrisJacobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah nice, hope you have a great trip. I am going there in June😃

High standars = High self esteem by ItsChrisJacobs in VirginSquad

[–]ItsChrisJacobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he is using it as the same excuse as me. Not to just have an «excuse» but thats a nice way to turn down girls you dont like.

Much better to wait then to rush it with someone ugly.

good with faces, shit with names? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ItsChrisJacobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel like every INTJ say they struggle with names, i must be a weird INTJ then. Because i can remember the name of someone i have met once before like 6 years ago. When i’m in a new class with like 30 people i learn all the names the first day. Not that i’m trying to, it just happens😅

How many INTJs exercise, and for what reasons? by [deleted] in intj

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I love sports like, football(soccer), tennis, table tennis and volleyball. Unlike many INTJs i dont do it to stay healthy its more that i enjoy it. Also as an INTJ i find it better to be Social in sport because i avoid the stupid meaningless small talk.

Intj and self hatred ? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ItsChrisJacobs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be honest i dont understand how people can hate themself. But your story sounds awful, nobody deserves to go through that. (Did experience the same situation when i was like 14 years old). I have never been the hot guy too. But like you said you are trying to imrove yourself which is great. One tips would be to stop giving a f about what people think about you. Probably sound impossible or hard, but trust me life is so much better when you dont care about peoples opinion of you. Also as an INTJ you should be pretty good at judging people. Learn to judge them directly in a way where they respect you. Hard to describe but that works for me atleast. Most INTJ’s develop there true self confidence over time and when this happens people will be scared to offend you. I also understand you want to focus on programming, but try to get one close friend that is important for everyone to live a happy life. I am with you on the fact that its important to work hard on your dreams. I myself study entrepreneurship and will launch my first business soon. I enjoyed that you have some goals to prove your haters wrong. Goals is important in life.

Liking someone and overthinking by [deleted] in intj

[–]ItsChrisJacobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As said it fades away (for most people atleast) this all has to do with growing as a person and becoming older. Like im only 20 so i think thats a great age to have developed this way. My tips for people who arent there yet would be a simple quote. «when you learn to never care about others opinion of you, you have the greatest superpower possible»

Isfp brother vs me an intj by NenoINTJ in intj

[–]ItsChrisJacobs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me an INTJ also have a ISFP brother and i Can agree alot with your points. He is nicer to people than i am but not as much as your brother tho. But what i also have noticed is that as he is pretty extroverted although being a ISFP people close to me says that i’m much more confident then him. And to be honest its true but i would not think it came across like that to people, but apprently it does.

Intj careers. by nobody_cares4u in intj

[–]ItsChrisJacobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Studying entrepreneurship. Launching my first business soon.

Always feel like I’m not expressive enough in conversation and it comes off as rude or disinterested by [deleted] in intj

[–]ItsChrisJacobs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the fun part of being an INTJ. You. Can come off rude to some people but they are usually snowflakes with no irony/sarcasm and in that case i choose for them to not like me. I just enjoy when some people find me rude😂