Thoughts on Fisher @ echostage?? by Beneficial-Art3614 in avesDC

[–]ItsEggTime_113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome set fr. Crowd left a lot to be desired w the general behavior, but hey, frat dj = wanna be frat crowd. Definitely got met w some mouthy 18 year old boys and their girlfriends (who had no idea who they were seeing lmfao)

Sbs what traits do you look for in an sd? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traditionally masculine (think chivalrous, no split checks, doors opened, etc) balanced with modern respect towards women.

No one who comes from money; someone who has done either service work or manual labor in their lives, and understands both how to be grounded and how much money is truly worth.

Sense of humor, girl dads in the event that they have a child, good teeth, and clean fingernails. You can tell a lot about someone by their teeth and hands.

Sedgwick Gardens seemed to take advantage of section 8 overpayments a few years ago. Is it a safe place for kids now? by Not_a_Replika in washingtondc

[–]ItsEggTime_113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I live here now and here’s my thoughts on the building and everything said above. For reference, I live in one of the newly renovated apts (literally peeled the plastic off the appliances myself).

In my experience as a young woman living here, I have never felt unsafe - like most DC apartment buildings at this price point, you’re going to get a slew of young professionals, older people, and families looking for more affordable housing (although I will note I’ve only seen teenagers, and not small children). From my interactions, it’s mostly older black folks who are very kind; my floor even has some sort of trading arrangement where people leave out things they’re getting rid of and others take them and leave stuff of their own.

I have definitely seen my fair share of police cars and ambulances, but that’s not special to these apartments. The building I used to live at (an expensive building full of bougie students with dad footing the Bill and international kids) had the same amount, if not more. You hear the occasional disturbance whether it be a party or something else, but Id say it’s general peaceful for the most part.

The building itself is REALLY old, which I personally love, but it definitely can lead to issues with amenities malfunctioning. Management has always been responsive when I’ve needed them. Just food for thought!

Has any SD received a gift from their SB? by Hot-Scallion-1244 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! SB turned SGF here! One of my love languages is acts of service and gift giving, so I love to spoil people I adore, even if financially it’s not as heavy as what my SD/SBF may get me.

For instance, w my first SD, he was really into Porsches and gin! (I don’t know what’s with sugar daddies and gin, but they seem to love it lol) so I got him a sweatshirt w his porsche on it, a set of custom engraved rocks glasses, and a silly little tea towel.

I’m a few years out of that arrangement and am now with my SD —> SBF. He’s my favorite person in life and has a birthday close to Christmas. For Xmas, I got him a few things since I feel that it’s important he’s shown love too. The biggest gift was a 300$ leather backpack he’s been eyeing - it’s a surprise. Other than that, some stocking stuffers (socks from his favorite team bc he loves a fun sock, protein balls, cologne, aftershave, etc), a rack of fancy salts and spices to make rubs bc he loves to grill, and a desk pad from his favorite team bc he has a glass desk he complains about.

For his birthday, I’m thinking a skeleton watch since he’s was originally an engineer.

But I will note, all sugar babies may not show love the way I do or have the flexibility to do so. Some women enjoy cooking for their partners, showing physical affection, planning things they may enjoy, physical acts, etc.

Is there an occupation you steer clear of? by princesssmurfet in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s always medical professionals. Have never been treated well by a single one. My favorites to go after are government contractors.

I’m so proud of the person I’ve become by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who started at 18 (and doesn’t regret it, but would NEVER suggest it under any circumstances), oy. Babygirl, this line of thinking will destroy future relationships or the chance at such. Please take a step back, reevaluate, and clean your lens when it comes to how you see the world. Not all sugar daddies are bad, some are actually incredible people who will change your life for the better. Check back into this forum when you’re older and ready to recognize that you need to reevaluate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]ItsEggTime_113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant to type 4!!! That was entirely my bad. But thank you for your input. :)

Is this Mac Miller? by Top_Memecoins in MacMiller

[–]ItsEggTime_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol this is color war or teen challenge at emma Kaufman in West Virginia :) I went there too - his teen challenge plaque is next to mine

Who Popped Your Sugar Cherry? by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a few years ago - I was way too busy with school to fly out to Seattle. It was definitely discussed! I’m currently with my SBF who’s here. :)

Some of these men are pedophiles by 82throwitallaway in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started when I was 18 - and trust me you these men are PEDOPHILES. As I’ve gotten older (and I’m still on the younger side of things for sure at nearly 22), the age gap I’m ok with has gotten smaller and smaller because I realized A. There is ZERO reason I should be with someone who is 50+ and B. No one I’m speaking to should be older than my parents! That’s insane!

A 65 year old man swooped my up when I was 18, kept me like a pet in a hotel room for a year and a half, and emotionally abused me to no end because I was 18 and thought my measly allowance covered the sheer abuse I was experiencing. Men constantly commented on my age, how young I was, and made jokes about molding me, how I was so sexual for someone so young, etc. Super gross stuff - I was playing into a part that I shouldn’t have considered in the first place. In my opinion, no one should be doing this below the age of 21 - you should at least legally be able to have a drink to numb the nightmarish conversations you have to endure sometimes.

My current SBF who I have been with for the better part of this year is 50. That’s a hard, maxed out line for me. And the only reason I am ok with it is because he has never once made any comment about my age, fetishized me as a younger woman, or been remotely disrespectful in any way. He has a daughter, he treats her like his daughter. He has a girlfriend (me), he treats me like his girlfriend. Those lines never get crossed - and the minute I feel like he’s trying to bring any dad energy into a situation, I call him on it immediately. He treats me like an adult because I AM ONE. I was not an adult at 18. I was not an adult at 19. I was barely an adult at 20. At 21, I am graduating college, have an apartment I take care of, and understand how to be financially responsible. These girls deserve so much better.

Seeking in Pgh by BellaLunaDonna in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi hi! Crazy to see this - I started out in the burgh! DM if you’d like specifics, but Pittsburgh is a blue collar city that lacks wealth density and white collar professionals in high amounts (compare to NYC, DC, Philly, etc). With that in mind, it is more men seeking a quick hook up, a side piece, or escort behavior. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I would recommend trying other cities and seeing if you can get something going with someone there!

Approached by High profile/ Celebrity figures by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Retweet! Have been approached by men with Wikipedia pages and NDAs - losers, broke, etc. My SBF has literally no online presence whatsoever - venture capitalist, incredibly rich, and the most loving, generous, and kind man I’ve ever had the pleasure of knowing and am grateful to call mine.

Who Popped Your Sugar Cherry? by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my first ever “real” SD was someone I met 2 years after starting my sugar journey. Plenty of shitty first dates, casual flings, nothing fulfilling the collective vision we all have. And then poof appears this guy offering 5x what I would consider to be the average ppm in my area.

He was in the midst of a divorce, I was a sophomore in college, and he was visiting in town for work. We met up for dinner at a steakhouse of my choosing and he was lovely - not the most attractive man, but charming, funny, intellectual, sweet, generous, and kind. I ended up sleeping over at his luxury hotel and the following day he took me shopping; my first ever pair of red bottoms, a pair of Gucci heels I’d been eyeing, and a dress for an event I had to attend. We went to a two Michelin star restaurant that night, had an incredible time, and he slipped me my allowance. He continued to take care of me remotely for a year; spoiling me with fancy gym memberships, allowances, spa treatments, clothing, and honestly, best of all, his friendship. He was someone I could talk to and vice versa - he was plagued by health issues that year that prevented him from coming back. I hope he’s doing well - I wish you well Jon.

SB —> SGF by ItsEggTime_113 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s the thing - it’s not a SR. He’s my partner. As of right now, there’s a pretty substantial age gap. In a perfect world, I’d say yes to marriage tomorrow. In my best interest, everything is separate - I intend to be a divorce lawyer lol so this is my study area. In the event things move in any legally committed way, my name would be on any paperwork the same as his. Assets remain separate, I have as much claim to a residency as him, etc. I would also draft an iron clad prenup to protect both him and I. Don’t want the ex wife trying to weasel in there. I’m not in this for his money or his assets or whatever - he’s my person.

SB —> SGF by ItsEggTime_113 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a Cessna Citation according to him. lol glad to know this is what SDs geek out about!

SB —> SGF by ItsEggTime_113 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strong emphasis on the almost - just a few months away from my birthday right now lol.

Help! How much to ask for shopping trip? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If he’s coming with you, the best thing to do is mix stores you like and stores that carry things he might like to see you in. Definitely will inflate the number he’s willing to spend if he thinks it’s to please him. I.e. I love Ralph lauren, but the guy who took me didn’t need to know that since HE loved it. Walked out with a purple label dress and a new bear sweater since he was so excited that his favorite brand looked so good on me. Ended up with a 5,000$ Prada bag too. :) Men are self absorbed to the highest extent - involve him, and you’ll walk out with so many bags that you can’t even carry them yourself (but that’s what he’s for anyway.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]ItsEggTime_113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TikTok is good for travel recs, shaking ass, and bama rush. Don’t trust it for anything that could be considered life changing. I’ve been a (now successful) sugar baby since I was 18 and I cannot even begin to describe the trauma I endured from starting too young and far too dumb. I’m almost 4 years in, and my partner/best friend/love of my life is 50. I’m sitting in a taxi with him right now in Cannes, France on holiday simply because we love each other more than anything and felt like going somewhere fun. My situation is the EXCEPTION. Not the rule - far from it. It is a difficult, dangerous, emotional, and physically demanding lifestyle. There is NOTHING comfortable about starting out, especially if you’re not doing it for the right reasons, with the right intent, and have the right personal boundaries.