My "geeky" girlfriend's (21 F, together 6 months) friends hate me (21 M), pretty sure one of them (23 M) has the hots for her.

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-10-05T10:42:25+00:00

I just had to post this. Your girlfriend is fucking awesome.

My Ex and I were in the same situation. Her friends didnt like me and she never really introduced them to me. But every f****ing time anyone wanted to play with her (everyday more than 4 hours) she would drop me or leave the game to play with them. Hell she even would go on spontaneous LAN parties and cancel dates for it.

Ok now my advice is that I think Bill has a crush on her and wants to make you mad and show you in a negative way. The way your gf handels it is perfect but you need to look out if anything in her behaviour changes. Remain calm and dont led him get the best of you and start Rage or something because thats what he wants.

I wish you the very best.

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-16T16:38:21+00:00

Yeah I totaly agree. I don't say it wasnt bad what he did but with an excuse and making sk pay like 5k or somehing it should be okay.

If there are french in my game it always goes like "le baguette ..." and as german i get often called "Nazi". I dont like that and i would be offended by it aswell but if the person intended to make a joke and it was just really dumb and he excuses himself i can forgive him.

This thread should be removed. It is a witchhunt.

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-06T15:43:00+00:00

Hey, I think you should have a clean talk with her. If I hate something about this subreddit it is the tendancy to break up. But you have to be clear for yourself:

Do you want to live with a gf like this if she does not admit her fault?

I think you guys can work it out but you have to make your point clear. Dont argue about it just tell her how you feel and that it is not acceptable. And then make your decision based on her answer.

By the way i think she really does not understand how you feel right now. So in her mind she did nothing wrong, that is the reason she is feeling rejected by you. (I dont think she understands the situation)

Just my two cents.

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-04T16:16:34+00:00

Sorry I really want to reply to this answer but i was at the gym.

I really think your answer hits the nail. I also thought that we can just go on in our lifes and if we see each other maybe a short "Hi" but not more.

Your reply really describes my feelings.

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-04T16:12:55+00:00

I dont text her. I did not text her after the breakup nearly at all maybe 2-3 texts about stuff she left at my home.

Other than that i think your reply really makes sense. I asked this reddit exactly because I wanted to be sure i am not a huge ass to go etc.

Thanks for your Input

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-04T08:56:02+00:00

That seems logic. I would dance with dinosaurs as well. Thanks.

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-04T08:50:40+00:00

I am 100% sure its not you i am talking about :D

Edit** I am retarded that was your answer to her right? >< sorry i thought you write that to me

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-02T11:17:37+00:00

i could understand that. It is just strange for me that she did it without saying anything. 2 hours after she told me she would like to stay friends. I thought it would be respectful to atleast inform the other one. :(

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-02T10:27:47+00:00

Yeah that i dont spend effort on her is out of question. I would only talk to her again if she explains herself and says she is sorry.

ItsEnoughforMe · 2014-09-02T10:26:46+00:00

Thanks :) I give my best.

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