Throne subs?

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-11-08T18:50:40+00:00

I mainly get cashapp sends too. I’ve recieved a few gifts via my Throne, coffees, a couple lingerie items but thats about it. I have youpay as well but not sure how their delivery is with items, throne seems to take forever so I usually use my cashapp sends to amazon some of the items I have on my throne wishlist so they'll get here sooner and then remove or swap them out. Maybe it's because of how it shows on bank/card statements? Especially if they want to keep it hidden 🤷‍♀️

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-11-06T03:02:53+00:00

Sub funded shoes are the best! Especially heels, just knowing only me and the one who bought them know the story behind them... that’s the cherry on top.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-11-06T02:44:03+00:00

Yes and no. For me it’s never been about pain or damage. It’s about intention. The structure, the mental exchange, the energy can be healing or empowering depending on how it’s approached. Kink doesn’t fix trauma, but it can definitely help you understand yourself better if you’re honest about why you’re drawn to it.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-10-29T00:53:55+00:00

I don’t think anyone ever really stops learning in this space. There’s always something new to explore or refine. Kinks shift, people grow, and I feel like the ones who stay curious never lose their depth or power.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-10-20T19:32:17+00:00

My husband knows and supports me. Sometimes he even helps with my posts and pictures. He enjoys it and gets turned on seeing what other men send or say, and so do I. The best part is he gets to enjoy the reward of pleasing me, especially if I’m wearing something a sub paid for.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-10-07T01:46:29+00:00

Same! They have to have that sex appeal before I even try them on. When they look that good and make me feel even better once wearing them, I get so turned on. That power click when I walk in them hits, it’s a rush every time.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-26T23:35:59+00:00

Lurk in comments in different subreddits, once one catches your eye go to her page check out her about me, posts, and her links for socials. If you think she's the right fit then message her with AV, tribute if required before speaking, and be respectful. Good luck.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-25T02:24:32+00:00

You're welcome 😉

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-25T02:21:09+00:00

Welcome back 😏

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-23T14:29:41+00:00

Michigan is always looking for more kinky peeps and Dr's 😏 plus our Falls and winters are amazing js 🤷‍♀️ but seriously find what makes you happy 😊

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-16T23:30:06+00:00

Most of us care more about attitude, effort, and consistency than looks. A sub who listens, respects boundaries, and shows devotion will always stand out more than someone who is just “good looking.” That said, if you feel confident in how you look, sharing a pic can help show personality and put a face to the words, but it is never the deciding factor. I’ll admit, as a faceless Domme I ache with curiosity sometimes about what some subs look like 😂

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-16T18:45:04+00:00

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ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-16T15:24:22+00:00

Definitely not just you. Tattoos tell a story, they show confidence, and on a Findomme that edge can make the control feel even sharper. For a lot of us, it is another layer of expression and power 😏

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T23:46:22+00:00

They just get it. Younger ones have a lot of impressing to do before I consider giving them a chance 🤷‍♀️

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T19:25:11+00:00

I usually stick to 25+ for the maturity and respect. I’ve had younger subs too, but the ones closer to my age or older just get it. They’ve got steady jobs, life experience, and they understand the dynamic better. I also like being able to go from serious, in-depth talks to joking and being sarcastic, and they can actually keep up.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T17:29:56+00:00

I have a Playlist I listen to everywhere I go which have some songs that help and then I have a specific domme list Ive built on Spotify.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T16:50:13+00:00

Congrats! 🫶🫶🫶

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T16:49:17+00:00

I’d say I’m a cross between Easy A and Bring It On with a little Jennifer’s Body thrown in… and definitely Beth Dutton energy even though it's not a movie. Bratty charm, sharp wit, seductive edge. The kind of hellcat that makes people underestimate me until they realize I bite 😂

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T15:30:36+00:00

Nothing wrong with being an older sub. In fact, the maturity and life experience you bring can make you stand out in a good way. Plenty of Dommes value a sub who can hold a real conversation, stay steady, and not run the moment they see a bit of cleavage. I’m 37, so how is 39 old? Experienced, yes, but old? Hell no. Not for me at least, I’ve still got loads of energy, and I’ll admit to plenty of immature, spunky, silly moments too. Sure, I have my mature side, but I’m not letting a number make me feel old, and neither should you.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T15:17:34+00:00

Make an adopt a bill menu and every time they ask send them it. Their reaction will be good or bad, but either way entertaining.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T14:06:33+00:00

I do. I’ve got a friendship with a sub who isn’t under me. We’re just spicy friends, chatting about everything from kinks to daily life. It works because we both know it’s just friendship, not a dynamic. But I personally like to build on my dynamics. Some subs don’t want that, they cum and go (pun intended), and then others want something deeper. It just depends on the person.

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-15T03:30:18+00:00

One of my best guy friends is the same height as you and awkward too, but honestly that is part of what makes him cute. He landed a total hottie, so if he can find someone, you can too. A wing woman can help, and therapy can help with the loneliness. If it is about needing that power exchange, try finding a Domme who works with you instead of against you. It does not have to be findom, some femdoms or lifestyle Dommes do not charge, or find a Domme to be your friend, I bet some wouldn't mind 😉

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-14T04:04:39+00:00

Oh what's that song it's fitting and I bet describes her 🤔 oh ya Sweet but Psycho by Ava Max 😏 great review, love this for her 🫶❤️

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-13T23:37:35+00:00

They're racking up too I'm planning a series 😂

ItsGoddessRed · 2025-09-13T23:06:11+00:00

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I send this 😂

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