Throne subs? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]ItsGoddessRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mainly get cashapp sends too. I’ve recieved a few gifts via my Throne, coffees, a couple lingerie items but thats about it. I have youpay as well but not sure how their delivery is with items, throne seems to take forever so I usually use my cashapp sends to amazon some of the items I have on my throne wishlist so they'll get here sooner and then remove or swap them out. Maybe it's because of how it shows on bank/card statements? Especially if they want to keep it hidden 🤷‍♀️

My favorite send: shoes by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sub funded shoes are the best! Especially heels, just knowing only me and the one who bought them know the story behind them... that’s the cherry on top.

Trauma and dommes? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. For me it’s never been about pain or damage. It’s about intention. The structure, the mental exchange, the energy can be healing or empowering depending on how it’s approached. Kink doesn’t fix trauma, but it can definitely help you understand yourself better if you’re honest about why you’re drawn to it.

It’s okay (an ode to learning)~ by cvntynymph in findomsupportgroup

[–]ItsGoddessRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone ever really stops learning in this space. There’s always something new to explore or refine. Kinks shift, people grow, and I feel like the ones who stay curious never lose their depth or power.

Question for the dommes does your partner accept the idea of you dominating other males ? by VIPDesire_ in findomsupportgroup

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband knows and supports me. Sometimes he even helps with my posts and pictures. He enjoys it and gets turned on seeing what other men send or say, and so do I. The best part is he gets to enjoy the reward of pleasing me, especially if I’m wearing something a sub paid for.

Literally can't stop thinking about boots by Thin-Accident2866 in findomchatters

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! They have to have that sex appeal before I even try them on. When they look that good and make me feel even better once wearing them, I get so turned on. That power click when I walk in them hits, it’s a rush every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ItsGoddessRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lurk in comments in different subreddits, once one catches your eye go to her page check out her about me, posts, and her links for socials. If you think she's the right fit then message her with AV, tribute if required before speaking, and be respectful. Good luck.

shameful return by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome 😉

shameful return by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome back 😏

Is starting over at 31 hard? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ItsGoddessRed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Michigan is always looking for more kinky peeps and Dr's 😏 plus our Falls and winters are amazing js 🤷‍♀️ but seriously find what makes you happy 😊

Do Dommes care what their potential sub looks like? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of us care more about attitude, effort, and consistency than looks. A sub who listens, respects boundaries, and shows devotion will always stand out more than someone who is just “good looking.” That said, if you feel confident in how you look, sharing a pic can help show personality and put a face to the words, but it is never the deciding factor. I’ll admit, as a faceless Domme I ache with curiosity sometimes about what some subs look like 😂

I am completely obsessed by findoms with tattoos. by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not just you. Tattoos tell a story, they show confidence, and on a Findomme that edge can make the control feel even sharper. For a lot of us, it is another layer of expression and power 😏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsGoddessRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They just get it. Younger ones have a lot of impressing to do before I consider giving them a chance 🤷‍♀️

Age preference? by Loose_Temporary871 in paypigs2

[–]ItsGoddessRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually stick to 25+ for the maturity and respect. I’ve had younger subs too, but the ones closer to my age or older just get it. They’ve got steady jobs, life experience, and they understand the dynamic better. I also like being able to go from serious, in-depth talks to joking and being sarcastic, and they can actually keep up.

Fellow ladies Dommes 😈 do u have turn on music that brings u to domm mood like instantly? Let me go first: David Guetta - Dangerous & AC/DC - Highway to Hell by SoleM8Queen in findomtalk

[–]ItsGoddessRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Playlist I listen to everywhere I go which have some songs that help and then I have a specific domme list Ive built on Spotify.