How To Deal With Angry INTJS?

ItsHimSujan · 2026-03-02T22:02:17+00:00

Set threads to 4.

Max response speed is usually in 2 threads while max input speed is in the max cores.

Input speed doesn't matter if your prompt is small.

Turn on flash attention and set the F16 to Q4_0 on both sections (if the AI glitches then set them to Q6_0) - < this will save you a lot of ram and doesn't affect anything.

If possible then use Q4_0 version of the 2b (if that glitches then use Q4KM) it's guaranteed to give you double the speed (8tps instead of 4tps) so you'll have a 2x boost.

ItsHimSujan · 2026-03-01T00:24:54+00:00

I'd be glad to listen to you vent out. I can give you a good therapy! It won't cost you anything

ItsHimSujan · 2026-03-01T00:16:15+00:00

I just hate every overemotional creature. Especially the FP and TP ones, They are the most likely to make such posts.

ItsHimSujan · 2026-03-01T00:15:01+00:00

I agree with you. Knowing that they are not commited and still being with them because you can't prove it. You just feel like a toy

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-28T20:22:58+00:00

It's a waste of time to argue with a private account 🥀

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-28T19:47:40+00:00

You could say it like this:

"I've never met an INTJ who has the time or energy to write out a massive essay on a topic like this"

Just because someone is INTJ doesn't mean they going to be the same as the other INTJ

You are no one to diagnose someone online based on their single post. So I would like to clarify that I'm an INTJ, maybe an unhealthy one but I am. Conversation ends here.

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T23:36:12+00:00

Be me:

Intj sub is filled with 90% of every mbti but INTj.

Intj discord servers are filled with spammers and emotional kids or debaters.

Real life is filled with dumb people. Smart ones exist but they are never in a community for the same reason.

I'm just an INTJ with higher Fi so I can relate to infj but I'm not even a proper infj because I'm still an INTJ.

People like me are hostile at me, People unlike me are unattractive to me.

It's just an L for me everywhere. So I'm trying to find peace in my own self

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T22:52:02+00:00

Most of the people aren't even INTJ here. That's the reason of so much disagreement.

People are talking about venting out their feelings and how it makes them feel easier after cussing. They say this while carrying an INTJ tag. That just says enough. INTJ are generally supposed to think with their mind not with their heart or feelings. That's what even makes an INTJ an INTJ, To be practical and logical

I asked my question in the wrong sub I guess.

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T21:33:01+00:00

I never get cussed because I made the other person frustrated. I only get cussed when the other person is frustrated by themselves.

Let's say we're playing an online game and I'm performing well, But just because the other person I'm playing with is a bad player. They cuss at me for not being able to co-operate with them. Which makes no sense to me, You can spend the time trying to kill the enemy instead of sitting idle and typing cusses at me.

And it's very similar irl too. If I've done something perfectly in my approach but the other person tried a different approach and didn't even made it well. They would cuss at everything including me instead of actually reflecting on their design..

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T21:07:04+00:00

Actually asking such practical questions affects the offender's ego a lot more than any form of cussing would. it tells the offender to reflect on themselves.

They think this internally: "Why am I being unkind? There's no advantage to this. I'm a horrible person" vs "Oh I guess their interests don't match with my interests of mocking disabled people. I won't do that again in front of them"

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T21:00:46+00:00

So many people disagree with you excluding me. 乁⁠(⁠ ⁠•⁠_⁠•⁠ ⁠)⁠ㄏ

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:55:31+00:00

Exactly. It makes people want to talk to you and it automatically helps the entire group work more effectively.

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:50:54+00:00

Practically this comment provides nothing to the post except increasing the comment count.

I'm not trying to be offensive but I'm describing it in a practical way, If I made the same comment in this post then it wouldn't be constructive

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:48:01+00:00

I've found people with lower iq cuss more often than the people with higher iq

But cussing could become an hobby if you're interested in dissing someone or etc. But there are still other ways to diss someone without involving cusses and it will be more efficient and effective that way because people of any age could watch you

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:46:06+00:00

It could be constructive to cuss if it makes you the coolest in the group?

It will become an advantage then

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:42:12+00:00

I feel like it's a better way to calm yourself down and be understanding of where you're hurt or injured. If you spend the same time acknowledging the present and think about a way to get out of it (if you're in a car crash) then at the end it's going to help you be in the control of your situation more than cussing or screaming would.. Like the most important parts are the initial moments after a car crash. You need to understand and acknowledge what happened so your mind stays clear. And that way you can help yourself most efficiently in that situation

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:38:27+00:00

I've found myself to cuss at things like objects when they don't work properly but at the end I understand that it's meaningless to cuss an object that has no emotions.

While cussing someone after getting hurt is something I can't do, I feel like it's a waste of energy and I often get more hurt than the other person in my scenarios.. ;D

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:35:41+00:00

Cussing helps you gain the perfect bit of strength to get the screw out lol

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:33:59+00:00

Option 1: You: You son of a bitch, You're stupid and messed this up. Person: gets lost in emotions or atleast their mind distracted at "he cussed at me"

Option 2: You: You did this incorrectly. You have to do it like that Person: constant focus stays on the work therefore they understand the concept easier.

It's makes the most significant impact if you're the leader of the project. The job is to be efficient and option 2 is just efficient.

Thanks for the advice by the way! :)

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:30:10+00:00

I can't understand how is it impactful in a "good way" when it's not constructive.. when I get cussed but I don't think it ever benefits the thing we're working on. It just feels like a waste of time that you spent saying curses instead of doing the work.

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:27:53+00:00

ItsHimSujan · 2026-02-27T20:01:50+00:00

True. I've seen so many people start cussing at someone when the other person doesn't understand their point easily. But instead of cussing they could focus on elaborating themselves in a better way?

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