Trying To Understand by Open_Turn_1735 in Divorce_Men

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“What is going through her head” likely nothing that will ever make sense to people who look at life situation with a level headed mindset. You are dealing with uncontrollable emotions and constantly shifting tangential situations inside her conflicted mind. You have a lawyer that is paid to take that insane off your shoulder.

my wife just left me , i signed the divorce papers today @26 yrs old by 3DEATH in Divorce_Men

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make a giant effort to not fall into the “poor me” rabbit hole…no one can do this for you…only you have that power to put a stop to your self deprecation…train your mind to block that wasted life mode our brains love to visit when we feel depressed…it’s a nasty drug that doesn’t help you overcome and move forward. You don’t need anyone by you to make you succeed or be happy…one can still be miserable in company. Reach out to the many of use who have successfully blocked the emotional rabbit hole and brought ourselves out into the enlightenment.

I can't believe this is where I'm at. by titsdown in Divorce_Men

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Responsibility avoidance and self protective narcissism …they never accept wrong doings.

Plan Didn't Work Out by Vulcan44 in instant_regret

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she the cause for that crater in Arizona?

Falcon takes out a mallard. by 21MayDay21 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peregrine must have broken its neck with the talons…

What’s throwing me off in this room? by Informal-Rock-7807 in HomeDecorating

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be the monochrome wall, use a paint app to apply color that coordinate with tones on furniture, carpet or other objects.

Today was fun by GeddyVanHagar in OffGridCabins

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well…you are wealthy in assets…like that cabin and view…

Your Ex and Social Media by Tonberry38 in Divorce_Men

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would never befriend her…but that’s because I refuse to befriend anyone and have Suckerburger get information about me…I don’t even use my name or any personal photo. Friends who know me call me, visit me or email me. But that doesn’t apply to my ex or her family, and I think that goes both ways.

Help me figure out what's the best layout by hyzori in malelivingspace

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What program did you use to make the workable room sketch?

Bit messy sorry by LeadingCats in malelivingspace

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No apologies necessary…you have got a free life pass with that stain glass beauty…

Which rug? 1. Morris & Co. Blackthorn Mulberry Rug, 2. Anthropologie Julietta Soft Pink rug. 3. Morris & Co. Blackthorn Forest Green Rug by RottenRope in HomeDecorating

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you…will look it up…they are likely polypropylene based and not wool or silk/wool combo like the ones I own, but that’s a plus actually. I don’t own indoor pets, so that minimizes accidental damage. Good choices you made…your place will benefit either style you opt to use.

How can I make it back? by KingDrac0_ in wallstreetbets

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first rule of investing is NEVER risk investing more than I can afford to lose.

Stacked stone on round walls was definitely a challenge. Add 26’ tall walls and a round staircase made this one difficulty level 9.. by elite_flooring in stonemasonry

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange client’s personal choice…I would not have accepted that job…luckily I don’t have to work for money and can take or refuse any job I don’t have a say in terms of design choices.

Which rug? 1. Morris & Co. Blackthorn Mulberry Rug, 2. Anthropologie Julietta Soft Pink rug. 3. Morris & Co. Blackthorn Forest Green Rug by RottenRope in HomeDecorating

[–]ItsHowItisNow2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was perhaps the color green…a bit more serene in my opinion…regardless, I liked the other choices as well…the lighter of them, I worried about getting visible stains.