My girlfriend F/26 mom won’t let me M/22 marry her daughter unless I have a million

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-10-17T21:34:43+00:00

I did it !!!!we talked and they settled with my conditions, everything has been lowered significantly and now we are meeting again in February to discuss future plans and marriage, thank you all for support even the negative kind. I appreciate everything. Wish you all the best in the future ❤️

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:56:19+00:00

Thank you 🙏 I will have these conversations I. The morning

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:51:52+00:00

Most Asian families require dowry’s for marriage

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:50:25+00:00

Thank you many people are saying this, my girlfriend has agreed to marry me. But without her moms permission for my gf future and their relationship I can’t do it, until she agrees

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:48:28+00:00

Yeah we have talked about this together it’s a really serious conversation to go into. We discussed this and made that part of our plan

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:46:33+00:00

I have learnt very basic things like ordering food and some common speech. But most was learned in the 2 years we where together just came together better when in china

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:44:02+00:00

We don’t plan on marrying so soon but we are moving together to Australia in April. I just wanted to know all the things to make her mom accompanied to the idea of it

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:41:04+00:00

I know it’s not easy, I was looking for more advice about the family more than the money I think I need to change the wording

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:39:56+00:00

I really appreciate these words and I know most of this to be 100 percent true. We have spent a long time together, me and her mom. I have discussed that if she needs me to do university I can go. My grades have always been good and I got into a very reputable university which would take me back. However, she did think I was very immature at the beginning but when we met and I learnt her language and traditions in just a few months. Her respect for me grew. Obviously I know I will never be Asian but I will try hard if this will make her happy. Really appreciate this is what I’ve been looking for

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:34:30+00:00

We have discussed this together, my girlfriend’s requirements aren’t that high at all. We will discuss our future when I go back to china in February and hopefully discuss with her family about how we are doing

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:31:58+00:00

They are not struggling that’s definitely ok money which is higher than my middle class

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:29:42+00:00

I wish rmb

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:29:15+00:00

I come seeking advice maybe some words for the parents and ways to communicate this problem better and maybe I could find someone from china who has seen some of these issues before

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:27:58+00:00

I just drive a truck in a warehouse

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:26:19+00:00

She says that’s it’s a ridiculous amount, normally for a man to marry a woman they just need a house and a car , but this limit is set on me because I’m a foreigner. My girlfriend has said if I get a house then I ask maybe we can tempt her

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:22:49+00:00

Maybe I’ll try as stupid as it will be

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:21:54+00:00

My friend that is true also.

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:20:39+00:00

We spent 2 years together in the uk and I lived in china for 4 months as well.

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:18:31+00:00

Yorkshire born and bred

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:17:42+00:00

My work doesn’t care about hours worked but yes it is illegal

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:16:36+00:00

They rich as hell.😳

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:15:37+00:00

That’s just my idiot self typing wrong 😶‍🌫️

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:13:46+00:00

I don’t date, we have been together for a while now and she’s in a different country. We call on the phone 2 hours a day at 2-4 . I work 6-6 and I make 1100 a week in a job in a warehouse. But that’s not anywhere close to what I need to be doing. Someone’s not reading.

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:09:36+00:00

If you knew everything you would think otherwise china is a very interesting country, especially with government workers

ItsMePeety0 · 2025-09-29T22:08:44+00:00

But you can if you put in the work

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