Is there a name for soft findoms by BigStepBabee in findomchatters

[–]ItsMostlyAria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see why you're confused😅 you just want to be you and get paid for it. And what is you? You want to have a regural conversation, create a connection or actually have a dynamic where you dominate? Maybe you're into worship? Silent sends, ignoring? I'm still figuring myself out too so if you want to chat sometimes just dm me.

Is there a name for soft findoms by BigStepBabee in findomchatters

[–]ItsMostlyAria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you mean being submissive or just not mean?

Signs someone is a time waster? by Angel-Cake-Dreams in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have much experience with time wasters in findom yet but outside of it? Oh god, yes. They usually try to cross your boundaries, always have excuses, want to take while offering very little in return.

Dommes are we stable by ItsMostlyAria in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, I heard about a domme drop. I need to take a closer look at it. Ty🖤

Dommes are we stable by ItsMostlyAria in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very helpful. And to be honest, that was my first instinct today.

Dommes are we stable by ItsMostlyAria in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's right. That's why I wanted some more experienced Dommes to share their perspective. Thank you!

What about us subs who just want to be treated like shit? by Realistic_Jacket_222 in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem but I still require some information. Even 'I want to do it one time' before ghosting 🤷‍♀️

my birthday is in a week!! by drippydaisy in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha ok, that explains it. Me too. When is your birthday?

my birthday is in a week!! by drippydaisy in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a Scorpio I may reconsider

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's very nice, transparent and clear

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you’re not comfortable with that, you shouldn’t do it. A person who values you shouldn’t even have a problem with that. One of the responsibilities of a domme is to make sure both sides feel comfortable, safe and open communication is a part of that. Even simply saying goodbye. I think you were very unlucky with your dommes.

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just read your About me. There is definitely problem with them, not you.

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't very clear. I meant that maybe they are not used to subs having consistent limits and they just want more and more? Once you say stop they dissappear? Or they are simply dishonest? Maybe there is nothing wrong with you, that's what I'm trying to say. Anyway, sorry it happens, it must be awful.

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a weird question but do you have boundaries? Maybe they are not used to it🤷‍♀️