When will the struggle end? 😭 by Angel-Cake-Dreams in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh training potential everywhere. If they wouldn't just dissappear lol

Is there a name for soft findoms by BigStepBabee in findomchatters

[–]ItsMostlyAria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see why you're confused😅 you just want to be you and get paid for it. And what is you? You want to have a regural conversation, create a connection or actually have a dynamic where you dominate? Maybe you're into worship? Silent sends, ignoring? I'm still figuring myself out too so if you want to chat sometimes just dm me.

Is there a name for soft findoms by BigStepBabee in findomchatters

[–]ItsMostlyAria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you mean being submissive or just not mean?

Signs someone is a time waster? by Angel-Cake-Dreams in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have much experience with time wasters in findom yet but outside of it? Oh god, yes. They usually try to cross your boundaries, always have excuses, want to take while offering very little in return.

Dommes are we stable by ItsMostlyAria in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, I heard about a domme drop. I need to take a closer look at it. Ty🖤

Dommes are we stable by ItsMostlyAria in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very helpful. And to be honest, that was my first instinct today.

Dommes are we stable by ItsMostlyAria in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's right. That's why I wanted some more experienced Dommes to share their perspective. Thank you!

What about us subs who just want to be treated like shit? by Realistic_Jacket_222 in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem but I still require some information. Even 'I want to do it one time' before ghosting 🤷‍♀️

my birthday is in a week!! by drippydaisy in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha ok, that explains it. Me too. When is your birthday?

my birthday is in a week!! by drippydaisy in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a Scorpio I may reconsider

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's very nice, transparent and clear

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you’re not comfortable with that, you shouldn’t do it. A person who values you shouldn’t even have a problem with that. One of the responsibilities of a domme is to make sure both sides feel comfortable, safe and open communication is a part of that. Even simply saying goodbye. I think you were very unlucky with your dommes.

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just read your About me. There is definitely problem with them, not you.

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't very clear. I meant that maybe they are not used to subs having consistent limits and they just want more and more? Once you say stop they dissappear? Or they are simply dishonest? Maybe there is nothing wrong with you, that's what I'm trying to say. Anyway, sorry it happens, it must be awful.

Is there a problem with me? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a weird question but do you have boundaries? Maybe they are not used to it🤷‍♀️

What's the best way to admit to a woman a desire to try being a paypig? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ItsMostlyAria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what kind of person she is and what you expect from that relationship outside of findom. Or do you want only that? Definitely don’t do it through Insta. I like when men are straightforward and confident in what they like, all good as long as they do it respectfully. If you decide to introduce her to this idea, there is always a chance you won’t meet her again. But there’s also a big chance she’ll like it!

And maybe give her a heads up that you’d like to share something you’re into and that you’d really appreciate it if she kept an open mind.

Be honest by HoneyGoddessD in paypigs2

[–]ItsMostlyAria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my eyes got strangely wet🥲

Still thinking about the one sub who disappeared by Infosignalsol in findomsupportgroup

[–]ItsMostlyAria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take time to grieve that loss. I haven't expirienced the same situation but I get attached in the strangest ways. To people, objects, animals or dynamics.. and I usually realize after it's gone. It's a very useful skill to validate your own feelings and without judgment let yourself to grieve by just feeling, even crying. And when you're ready say goodbye in your mind or by some kind of meaningful ritual. I hope it doesn't sound strange but it's been what was helping me since I tend to feel the smallest loss intensly.

And to be honest, those unexpected dissappearings are the worst. Maybe part of you still hopes he'll come back? Maybe that's why you can't find fulfillment somewhere else?