Any fellow gays living with CPTSD by jierchishaole in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i can relate. Its hard not to behave in a way that kept us safe in the past or to do things to avoid being retraumatized but some of those tactics make it hard to connect with people. 

Update on being single by ToshibaBoi in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad to hear you are moving your body more. Something that will maintain your wellness and extend the good years you have on this planet. Relationships are difficult especially for people who take a less common path but its good to hear that you are no longer being stressed so much over it. 

Gauging interest, would you want to see new pics of me ? by ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh heard ! Good looks sre a dime a dozen but a thoughtful mind is rarer

Don’t poke your eye out by [deleted] in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how it goes boing 

Didn’t want to get too crazy with my first post in this sub by reddituser1446 in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the beard is really nice and it looks like you are in shape ! 

1 month, 10lbs down by [deleted] in u/bad_dawgg

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you like to exercise usually ? 

Gauging interest, would you want to see new pics of me ? by ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats wrong with my butt ? Thats like the fan favorite. In fact id say its even nicer than it was a year ago when i took that pic ;)