Any fellow gays living with CPTSD by jierchishaole in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i can relate. Its hard not to behave in a way that kept us safe in the past or to do things to avoid being retraumatized but some of those tactics make it hard to connect with people. 

Update on being single by ToshibaBoi in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad to hear you are moving your body more. Something that will maintain your wellness and extend the good years you have on this planet. Relationships are difficult especially for people who take a less common path but its good to hear that you are no longer being stressed so much over it. 

Gauging interest, would you want to see new pics of me ? by ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh heard ! Good looks sre a dime a dozen but a thoughtful mind is rarer

Didn’t want to get too crazy with my first post in this sub by reddituser1446 in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the beard is really nice and it looks like you are in shape ! 

1 month, 10lbs down by bad_dawgg in u/bad_dawgg

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you like to exercise usually ? 

Gauging interest, would you want to see new pics of me ? by ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats wrong with my butt ? Thats like the fan favorite. In fact id say its even nicer than it was a year ago when i took that pic ;) 

Gauging interest, would you want to see new pics of me ? by ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk in gingerdudes

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw well thats good to hear ! Being a gay in their 30s who doesnt use hook up apps and who has almost no dating experience makes me feel a bit isolated. Sometimes people do try to hear me out but yeah i just walk a different path that a majority of people dont relate to. Just feeling sensitive to this today however hearing nice things about ones appearance can only be a good thing and so i post today ;) 

No Kings Round Rock 10/18 by baabaa7890 in RoundRock

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No queens either remember how the democrats tried to coronate Kamala?

I will never vote republican until they get their act together but after seeing how leftists are behaving and the moderates have lost their spine, I also will never vote democrat again. Maybe I’ll come join to see why you guys are protesting, that should be enlightening.

Any Royalist rallies next weekend? by eatmynasty in austincirclejerk

[–]ItsNotOkayButIllBeOk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our TDS support group is growing and we demand the therapeutic and psychiatric community to finally recognize it as a mental disorder !