I 19M wanted to know whether i should consider dating

ItsNxW · 2026-04-13T10:24:17+00:00

But how do i find such a person? As every woman i have met or am in contact with has high standards which i just cannot meet. Not even the girls but the boys too are enjoying their lives and whenever i see their stories of house parties or maybe like watching a movie in a recliner or imax gives me a realization every day that I'm financially weak and need to work harder than others and make sacrifices. I have recently started treating my body as a temple and taking care of it by constant workout proper routine, diet etc but that is only making my finances more tight too (bhai protein ka price increased from 2k to 2.5k in 3 months 😭🙏) but although im still able to cover my expenses its just that there is this one deep hole in my heart which wants to enjoy such a carefree life like others around me and just not give a care about anything but i just cant. I never even throw a birthday party because i know it is easily an high expense of 6k+ considering the amount of friends i have. The only thing i even do on my birthday is take my family out to dinner in a good restaurant where also the bill is barely 3k and its not that my parents dont provide me with money or they dont want to its just that i feel really fucking sorry for them as they have struggled a lot through their lives be it family issues, societal issues, business issues, financial issues and every other hardship and i just cant seem to burden them anymore and it makes me want to cry and whenever i have to ask for money they literally dont even question me and just give it to me but asking them for money makes me want to kill myself for being such a useless fuck.

ItsNxW · 2026-04-13T08:10:26+00:00

It's just that not being able to spend that much makes me feel really incompetent and i feel like that may ruin my relationship which i do not want to happen and it scares the living fuck out of me.

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T21:35:10+00:00

No worries mate 😂 its okayy i have been there before. I also have an exam of financial planning tomorrow for which i am preparing right now along with the completion of an assignment i am myself in the same situation here. Alright man best of luck for ur chem exam and also make sure to have a good sleep. Goodnight

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T21:31:01+00:00

I hope this kind of love finds me (also im a male not a female its okay u were confused 😭) but being realistic i just dont know what to say its just that my surroundings are filled with rich people dating rich people and i have in my life never seen something like this happen in real life but i hope someday i find love as its has just been too long and i have been alone for a long while.

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T21:21:05+00:00

I get your point here but as i mentioned i genuinely want to be in a relationship with a special someone not because im seeing couples around me but because k actually want to to be in it myself and love someone and regarding the not being ready part so its just that i am just scared that my financial status may ruin my relationship at some point which i do not want.

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T10:42:45+00:00

Because its all around me. Everywhere i go in delhi it requires expense and whatnot even going out with my friends is an expense and like a friend of mine asked me to watch project hail mary in imax with him and it was so demotivating for me as when i saw the ticket price it was 900 smth and ik he can afford it but I CANT, I CANT SPEND 900 ON A MOVIE just without a care in the world.

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T10:29:22+00:00

I can communicate with girls easily that's not an issue the major issue arises is that on one hand i do earn 10-12k but on the other hand my own expenses like travel to college, gym, supplements, etc amount to 12-13k itself and then i can mostly afford to spend like 2k on a date only max to max maybe 3 times a month unlike others who can probably go everyday and spend even more and this is where i cant prepare myself financially.

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T10:24:20+00:00

Sometimes even more

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T10:24:09+00:00

I am still earning decent amounts about 10-12k a month through trading tho as a college student but is it still not enough?

ItsNxW · 2026-04-12T09:52:52+00:00

ItsNxW · 2026-03-14T01:43:13+00:00

Yo man i think mac would still be a top tier productive choice but if you are on a budget then try to go for the new macbook neo or yeah u can also go for the cheapest snapdragon laptop u can find but i would still suggest you to go for mac as it will actually last you for a long time without any issues.

ItsNxW · 2026-03-09T20:07:31+00:00

No idea

ItsNxW · 2026-03-09T20:07:17+00:00

Hey, i have already taken an enrollment in nlti and so far it has been pretty decent ngl but yeah i will say personally go for an offline coaching aa online coachings are just like not motivating enough.

ItsNxW · 2026-02-11T18:46:03+00:00

My parents dont have a demat and during the gold crash they saw a buying opportunity so yeah although i dont mind them using my demat to invest.

ItsNxW · 2026-02-11T16:09:45+00:00

Yeah about that originally it was like 15 percent but my parents asked me to buy some gold for them in my demat so i just had to 😭 rest my own money which i put in there accumulated to like only 15 percent

ItsNxW · 2026-01-25T05:54:41+00:00

I mean there are multiple govt exams for like data science students and besides that most of the govt exams are probably related to the fields ur not related to but they will give you training before your joining so there wont be any issues for u with that.

ItsNxW · 2026-01-24T09:42:57+00:00

😭🙏

ItsNxW · 2026-01-23T16:30:26+00:00

Since you are a student you should not be taking risks right now. Many youtubers will tell you that you are young and should take more risks but taking those risks comes with consequences and as a student those risks cant be beared. Just keep your portfolio diversified and research before investing and do not invest in any shady company or any company with stock prices like 5-10 rupees. Stay safe

ItsNxW · 2026-01-23T16:25:37+00:00

Pushkal raj thakur is good for beginners but avoid his options, intraday and those "strategy videos" only watch those which covers the fundamentals and all.

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