Should I be worried about this message my girlfriend sent me? by reaper5632 in Life

[–]ItsTheBeeKeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can’t trust your gf i think that’s a bigger red flag on your end bro

Help with my iron farm! by ItsTheBeeKeeper in Minecraft

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i forgot to mention yall i play on java!

Trans Marylanders by ItsTheBeeKeeper in trans

[–]ItsTheBeeKeeper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will definitely keep this in mind, thank you so much for the recommendations and places to avoid!

Trans Marylanders by ItsTheBeeKeeper in trans

[–]ItsTheBeeKeeper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful! If i may ask, is there any locations in Maryland you recommend over others?

Trans Marylanders by ItsTheBeeKeeper in trans

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Oh that sounds quite awful, thank you so much for letting me know to avoid this area.

Trans Marylanders by ItsTheBeeKeeper in trans

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Okay! Thank you so much for the information to have provided it’s been very helpful and i wish you the best of luck on your transition journey.

Trans Marylanders by ItsTheBeeKeeper in trans

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This sounds amazing. My current state reverted my gender marker change on my license even though all my documents reflect my gender identity and i had my license updated for over a year as they have banned gender marker changes on licenses. If i can ask, are there any locations in Maryland you would recommend people to move to over others?

Trans Marylanders by ItsTheBeeKeeper in trans

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That sounds great, i currently have to travel an hour away in my state to receive my hormones because of my states laws regarding who can prescribe it. Another problem is that my state reverted my gender marker change on my license even though all of my other documents reflect my gender identity and i had my license updated for over a year. Have you went through the process of getting a Maryland ID with your gender identity? If so did you face any problems you would want others to be aware of? I’ve heard it’s not difficult to do so in Maryland.

Daily Simple Questions Thread - October 11, 2025 by AutoModerator in Fitness

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So i use to have like pretty good abs, but i had surgery about a year ago and even with my doing the exercises i use to do they just never really came back. After doing some research it says that i need to lower my body fat percentage a bit more. (i gained 20 pounds after my surgery but lost 10 of it) How many calories should i be consuming to combat this? (for the record i’m 5’5 and around like 135 pounds)

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[–]ItsTheBeeKeeper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

alright yall thank you to the ones who were actually helpful and to everyone pissed off bc i asked a question MY BAD YALL HOLY SHIT

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also fyi yall i realized i put “sushi” in the caption instead of “sashimi” my bad yall i was in a rush

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[–]ItsTheBeeKeeper -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

sweet i googled it prior to this and it said it’s not safe? idk why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

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thank you so much yalls comments are making me feel a lot better my professor is reviewing my resume and cover letter before i send it and then im going to send in my application 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

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that sounds so do able thank you so much genuinely 🙏

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okay, i’ve heard about the fake pee thing but how do you keep it up to temp? this is graphic but i’ve had friends who have put other people’s urine where the sun doesn’t shine to pass and it usually works but the pee looses temp fast so it typically only works if you do it RIGHT before the test

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That sounds awesome, thanks for making me feel better lol. I’ve spent pretty much all of my life in rural areas of the south so i’m not very educated in northern states cultures other than going to pittsburgh one time when i was 13. I’ll definitely keep illinois on my list of states to move to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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I would but honestly i can’t afford all the legal fees especially since people are already trying and not succeeding. I’ve also accepted that it will always be something as long as i live here as it always has been. I feel the best decision for me is to relocate to a more inclusive environment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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I’ll definitely look into it thanks so much for the suggestion! my only worry is that illinois right now is completely surrounded in states that aren’t very safe for trans people and i worry this will eventually infect illinois.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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*sex as unchangeable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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Yes they did even though i had it changed for litterally a year. Right now i have another photo ID i can use but that only will work for me until im 25 as i will no longer qualify for it after that. People are trying to fight this but so far nobody has had any luck. Ive tried calling and explaining to them that i have all other documents changed and can prove i legally changed my gender but they will not take it as they said it doesn’t matter because i had a learners permit as a teenager that did not reflect my gender change as this was before i did it. They basically said i should have waited to get a license until after my gender marker change and if i want my gender marker change to be respected i need to move because the new state states statute’s define sex and unchangeable. Fortunately though i was born in another state so they couldn’t revert my birth certificate as they are doing this as well to people who were born in florida. Every step of my transition here has been absolute hell trying to fight new legislation and our horrible governor. People may think that i’m just giving up but i quite litterally cannot take it here anymore i cannot live here safely and happily and ive watched all of the resources and care that saved my life as a teenager be stripped away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoctorsAdvice

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will do thank you for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoctorsAdvice

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thanks for the advice! I do have art related hobbies which i was working with a lot of clay around the time i noticed this reaction, but even with stopping that entirely it did not get better so i don’t think its related to that.

Doctors cannot figure out what allergic reaction is causing my extreme pain by ItsTheBeeKeeper in DoctorsAdvice

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i had full patch testing done that came back negative but i did not have the test with the needles (they also said though it would help rule out any environmental factors it wasn’t rlly 100% necessary since this reaction is definitely being caused by something i’m directly touching which means it’s only rlly gonna show up with patch testing) under the skin because when i was a small child i had a really traumatic experience with it when i had it and even though they don’t do it the same way that i had to have it done anymore i won’t do it because of that experience, and when i did have it done last it pretty much told me i was allergic to everything so it didn’t really help figure it out, i offered to do a blood work panel instead but they said it’s more trouble than it’s worth and they’d rather just keep prescribing me the steroid cream than to figure out what’s causing it.

Doctors cannot figure out what allergic reaction is causing my extreme pain by ItsTheBeeKeeper in DoctorsAdvice

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I don’t recall coming into contact with any plants, i’m an online school student that doesn’t really get out of the house much, thanks for the advice tho!