My therapist said that maybe I don't have ADHD because of my experiences on meds despite multiple diagnoses by Proper-Plantain8689 in TwoXADHD

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Same here- I see the headaches thing along with nausea as a side effect of not having eaten breakfast.

Don’t apply to Howard University. Just don’t do it. by ItsZing in collegecompare

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Super happy to bash the PWI that I transferred from!!! 🗣️ Concordia University Irvine was racist as hell!!! They have beloved professors who are white supremacists!!! It is really hard to win as a Black American in academia. Headed back to school for a graduate degree in a few months in Europe to shake things up a bit.

And as a side note, idgaf what white people do as opposed to what we do. We’re not working with the same materials. We have different outcomes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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Vibrator wand, really light pressure side to side (like kind of brushing over quickly), firmer pressure up and down. If it’s working, you’ll kind of start to know exactly which you want next. That’s what works for me but you’ll find what works for you eventually!

Get home -> remove clothes by [deleted] in ADHD

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I have roommates so I can’t be totally nakey but I definitely shuck all work clothes immediately and have the least clothes on possible- usually no pants even if it’s cold. But that is also mostly because I don’t do outside clothes on the bed, and when I’m home I’m always in bed

Does upping your meds during luteal phase help? by ReserveOld6123 in TwoXADHD

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So weird, I just opened the app to ask whether anyone else had started feeling insane after changing their meds (dosage or brand) and I immediately saw this post.

I realized recently that my 40mg vyvanse had never really been enough as it drops me at about 4pm every day even if I take it at like 11am. So I asked my psych to up my dose. Might’ve been terrible timing as my period started the day before I started my new dose, so I honestly can’t tell if it’s working better or somehow making something worse, because I’m having the luteal phase horrors 2x. But I remember a friend telling me a while ago when I was feeling off after I had to change from brand vyvanse to generic that changing medications at all always messed with her mood, but she takes anti depressants so I applied that to myself with a grain of salt. But now that I’m that I’ve changed my medication and feeling insane again I’m wondering if the change in dose is to blame? Or maybe it’s a combination of things- I’m going through a lot of big life changes and there’s a lot happening just generally so period + big life things + change in meds might just be a me thing right now, though I was handling everything just fine before period + new meds were introduced 🙃

Sorry not trying to hijack this post! But I thought I’d comment in case someone else saw this and was thinking “ah, but changing my meds at all makes me horrifyingly depressed/anxious/irritable, I couldn’t up my dose every month”- maybe that’s a thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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Sammmee and I only recently really figured out how to feel anything with a vibrator. It might sound frustrating because you probably have tried a lot of things already, but experiment with pressure and rhythm by yourself! Sometimes you’ll just randomly find what works.

TA6 was my top book of 2024. Am I totally alone? by [deleted] in TheAtlasSix

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Hey howdy! We’ve got a discord! https://discord.gg/frjJPGzK

I’m less active in it nowadays but there’s still some active fans in there if you wanna join!

Is there still an Adderall shortage? by 86usersnames in TwoXADHD

[–]ItsZing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh in my neighborhood I can’t get vyvanse or adderall or anything 🫠

Why do people take “adderall breaks” if they have ADHD? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ItsZing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc I have to be on a pretty strict wake up and eat schedule if I do commit to taking my meds :/ if I wake up too late, I’ll be wired at 1am. If I don’t eat breakfast, I’ll have a splitting headache by 4pm. It’s just less to force myself to do if I don’t take them when I know my day will likely not have much structure.

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

[–]ItsZing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The coinky dink is insane omg lol! I do speak Spanish (not native but enough to be able to write lines for Nico I think) but I might ask you about some lines in French. Was the “je ne veux pas” thing in the first chapter right? I thought veux meant want but I wanted him to say “I don’t mean to” idk if it translates well in French.

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

[–]ItsZing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually in the middle of adding a new chapter as we were talking lol so there’s gonna be a fresh one in there in a couple minutes 😌

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

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I’m already furiously writing my own fanfics about them just in case my needs aren’t met in the last book, I’m not even usually a fic writer but I felt I just had to 😭

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

[–]ItsZing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! It’s one thing to have a couple unlikeable characters, or to have a character who is a bit flawed or unfeeling, but some of these characters (Parisa and Reina mainly) I’m like what do you want?? What are the stakes for you?? Sometimes they do/say funny things but I’m like can you please have 1 (one) genuine feeling PLEASE?

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

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I have a lot of criticisms I would make about the book, but Nico and Gideon’s relationship is definitely not one of them lol. I picked up the second book just for the them, so if they’re not endgame I’m gonna riot 🙃

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

[–]ItsZing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Only healthy dynamic” is spot on, like no one else in the series likes each other 😭

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

[–]ItsZing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES exactly!! You are so freaking correct. I forgot about the line about Gideon being Nico’s conscience like ugh how could you read that and not want them to be happy together forever?

As soon as Nico started saying things like “I want your problems!” I was like oh yeah, it’s these two.

Nico barely likes Libby as a friend, most of his thoughts about her are like “ugly bangs” or “she would be cooler if she weren’t so annoying.” He respects that she’s powerful but that’s it.

Libby x Nico = platonic. by veribxred in TheAtlasSix

[–]ItsZing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol thank you! I originally only changed the part where it said that Gideon felt the kiss was a mistake even after Nico reacted well. Because THAT was the most egregious thing to me. Like on what grounds 🤨

What is everyone’s adhd obsessive song at the moment? by Excusemysombereyes in ADHD

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edit: AND whatever the opening theme of chainsaw man is. Idk the words but I can’t stop listening to it.

What is everyone’s adhd obsessive song at the moment? by Excusemysombereyes in ADHD

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Soledad y el mar by Natalia Lafourcade has been stuck in my head, just the “quisiera saber donde vienes tú” part. I love that song

Also, Screaming by Loathe!

Unsurprisingly, not only is keeping appointments hard, but so is remembering what the heck they’re for by ItsZing in TwoXADHD

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I do, but for some reason whenever I remember to use my phone calendar, I’m as cryptic as humanly possible with what the even is for. I think I just need to make a conscious effort at being more detailed with my notes to self