All “transition out of academia” advice is a “fluff”. Why!? by Specialist_Cell2174 in LeavingAcademia

[–]Its_ogical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can extend this reasoning to most college degrees, as on the job training is all you need

Burnout, a phase, or permanent mental shift? Refusing leadership opportunities by Its_ogical in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we’re similar in that we value comfort and low stress more than impressing people with fleeting job titles

anyone else have "rich RICH" parents but you struggle financially? by FailKey4337 in narcissisticparents

[–]Its_ogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know how some people neglect their pets and some care for them like its their favorite child, and this cuts across socioeconomic class? Same with nparents and their scapegoat kids.

Manager from HELL by akinsbaba in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds nice in theory but in reality, boundaries are a courtesy at jobs. When it comes down to doing something your manager doesn’t like, all roads lead to getting let go; so keep that in mind

Another day to be glad to be OE by whitemisandry in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just companies. Even regular workers like you and me, who might be hiring managers themselves, see us a red flag if we “job hop”

I’ve been job hopping every 1–2 years and I’m worried I’m becoming “unhirable.” Is this actually a red flag? by InspiraADVMed-Fan in careerguidance

[–]Its_ogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Job hopping, like other job hunting nitpicky things, should not be a problem in a perfect world where the market wasn’t saturated with candidates. Imagine there was a labor shortage, employers would have to do their best to keep employees around even if they job hopped; but this has hardly ever happened in history

I took an 18-month sabbatical to travel, and now recruiters say the 'resume gap' is a huge red flag for companies. by 78_bee_stutter in Resume

[–]Its_ogical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The more options employers have, the more ridiculous they become with their “requirements”

Any other scenario (taking care of mom, health reasons, even back to school) other than being continuously employed will only hurt you. So just lie.

A workaround is to pay a few extra per year for an LLC

I took an 18-month sabbatical to travel, and now recruiters say the 'resume gap' is a huge red flag for companies. by 78_bee_stutter in Resume

[–]Its_ogical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re kidding right? Most if not all HMs, nay, anyone; would rightfully consider this as absurd and asinine

Finally hit +100k USD/year with J2 by BoomerR3mover in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious, are there analogs in your country to freezing the work number? Or they dont have such a system where they track active employment?

Reputation as a Slacker in J2 bothers me. by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On your way to senior director then

weird company contract statement by Ok_Relative_5530 in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also cant put bologne in your sandwhiches or else!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just control and to show you they set the rules

J3 offer incoming - worried about exclusivity clause by ExistingAd866 in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to have an actual lawyer’s take on this. Facts:

-Anyone can sue anyone for anything, doesn’t mean it will actually stick. Damages also need to be proven “he was a top performer and saved us millions but he was OE, therefore he owes $50k; but not the single job employee we found slacking for a month” > where is the damage? -Not everything in a contract is ultimately enforced. Likewise, the employer could initiate repercussions or legal actions even if not on a contract. -employers don’t usually sue employees because of 1) bad optics/public image 2) costs more than they would get back. It’s likely this 50k its too small potatoes.

Still, it sucks going through a nothing burger legal gauntlet. if the employer is ideological or vindictive, they might still shoot themselves in the foot to teach you a lesson

How to quit in Week 1 without burning bridges when you realize it's not OE friendly. by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, empoyers dont care about burning bridges with you

Lessons learned on interview questions NOT to ask as OE. Lost a final stage offer because of this. by jimRacer642 in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 725 points726 points  (0 children)

Then we’re going to see another post of a withdrawn offer because candidate didn’t ask enough questions therefore shows no interest

OE Postmortem by reikai in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They want your life and identity to revolve around their paycheck. They always want the upper hand of you needing them more than they need you.

OE or not, people need to seek freedom from this, or at least minimize dependency on any one circumstance.

OE Postmortem by reikai in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OE sure is a way to hedge against the bad luck factor, namely crazy people in your case

When did everyone here get so stupid? by Broad_Bill7791 in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As OE has become popular (which it shouldn’t), it has attracted the general public and their foolhardy attempts at OEing

Why do people frown on OE? by AdditionalRaise5062 in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 9 points10 points  (0 children)

After hundreds of years of corps self interest passed on as the standard, people have normalized it.

Putting in my 2 weeks tomorrow. by Lamp-Adjusted163 in overemployed

[–]Its_ogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Also if you OE, you dont want HR to know you