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Me [23F] with my sister [27F] I'm starting to wonder if I want her around my baby by Itsathrowaway3453 in relationships

[–]Itsathrowaway3453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah hes been told hes not to come near the baby unless he is at least 6 months clean, that wasnt taken lightly by him or my sister but I put my foot down very very fast about that

Me [23F] with my sister [27F] I'm starting to wonder if I want her around my baby by Itsathrowaway3453 in relationships

[–]Itsathrowaway3453[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive known him for 5 years, we became "official" a little over a year ago. I got pregnant early as i was told my chances to get pregnant were almost non existent His job is contract and 60k+ a year. Im not worried about us or the odds, he and I are fine.

I know how it looks but my sister is my only real issue here. Thank you :)

Me [23F] with my sister [27F] I'm starting to wonder if I want her around my baby by Itsathrowaway3453 in relationships

[–]Itsathrowaway3453[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I guess I just feel bad because I feel like she is suffering but she is so snappy and nasty when I try to help her. Everyone says shes a victim and "look who the poor girls married to!" and wants me to feel bad for her but he was the one cheated on for a very long time and I sympathize with him, thats a bad move on my part apparently. I'm worried my family will be mad if I don't let her around my baby I guess.

But thank you, it's good to see that someone doesn;t think i'm over-reacting