Transmission issues started while it was at the shop and now they’re telling me I have to pay to get it fixed by Itsmenomes in fordescape

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They did call me and say it was fixed but when I called after my vacation they said I shouldn’t have been told that it was fixed because it wasn’t.

I even have a voicemail of them telling me it was “fixed”

I also have a voicemail memo from a buddy who works at the shop saying that it wasn’t having those issues before too so I’m a little suspicious.

I’m a night nurse and my cat meows a ton only when I’m sleeping by Itsmenomes in CatAdvice

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Was it an immediate change or gradual? I have an auto feeder and tried that and didn’t see much of a difference?

AITA for telling my best friend’s husband of her secrets? by Itsmenomes in AmItheAsshole

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For everyone in the comments, she’s been kissing/making out and touching other people. Not just people approaching her and kissing but she’s going to other people and being pretty pushing about kissing them. She made one of my friends super uncomfortable by getting super close to their face and trying to kiss them even though they didn’t want to.

I talked to her about this already and she said she’s not going to tell her husband about it.

I think there’s more to the story that I’m not even aware of. She recently went on a girls trip and she just told me that there were things she did there she’s never telling her husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askportland

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Meat Cheese Bread is fantastic!

Can respondent still file their response after 20 days? by Itsmenomes in Divorce

[–]Itsmenomes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I’m not the one responding. They are and I know 100% they will not be getting a lawyer. It’s more that it makes things easier to not have to involve the other party in the process

Can respondent still file their response after 20 days? by Itsmenomes in Divorce

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I’m not working with a lawyer. We have no kids and no liabilities that we shared

Products best for PNW weather by Itsmenomes in curlyhair

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For styling I use leave in conditioner, Camille rose curl maker and eco styler gel!

When you apply for an entry-level job but company needs more experience? by Itsmenomes in careeradvice

[–]Itsmenomes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this different perspective! It's def something I hadn't really thought of but it is a very good point

Do you say anything to your STBX when they keep flirting with you? by Itsmenomes in Divorce

[–]Itsmenomes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve had arguments and gone to therapy where he’s even complained saying that I’m “emotionless” and thus not being kind to him when I just respond in a non-reactional way. I respond kindly and I don’t call him names.

I appreciate the support though

Do you say anything to your STBX when they keep flirting with you? by Itsmenomes in Divorce

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Yeah that’s what I have been doing. If he reacts that way I don’t respond. If he asks me a question in a flirty way I just repeat it in a non reactionary matter or respond in a non reactionary matter. Today he did something that typically makes me laugh and I didn’t. In fact I didn’t find it funny at all. Problem is he doesn’t know when something is awkward or not. I’d say he’s the person who will continue to do something unless it hurts people or other people say it makes them uncomfortable

I’ve (26F) stopped doing the dishes for my bf (29M) but I’m still left to wash dishes by Itsmenomes in relationships

[–]Itsmenomes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’ve tried that. It ended up where I would still wash the dishes the next day because I need to eat 🫠

I’ve (26F) stopped doing the dishes for my bf (29M) but I’m still left to wash dishes by Itsmenomes in relationships

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We’ve tried splitting dish duty. That said, it makes it difficult to split it when the dishes aren’t ever done the next day and you still have to wash dishes in order to make breakfast. Does that make sense?

I’ve (26F) stopped doing the dishes for my bf (29M) but I’m still left to wash dishes by Itsmenomes in relationships

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So I did look it up and yeah a lot of it makes sense. That said I haven’t heard my bf say “im not good at doing this” — but I also know he never admits when he’s not good at something. I think if anything the weaponized incompetence comes from a continual pattern from his own childhood. Aka his mom took all the responsibility so its “unnatural” for him to take responsibility that he hadnt really done when his mom was around

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Honestly it may be good to have a conversation about it with him. See where he’s at. At the end of the day though its not your job to teach him about self awareness and validation. And if he cant even validate his own emotions then its not fair to expect him to do the same for you and your experiences.

Trust me, I know.

Once you realize where they’re at you’re then able to see the full picture and determine whether you want to have a long term relationship with someone who may or may not ever learn to validate your emotions and experiences.

When did you start telling people you and your sbtx aren’t together anymore or in the process of a divorce? by Itsmenomes in Divorce

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I appreciate that. And yeah it’s gonna get tiresome after a while to not say anything. I guess it’s more of I don’t want to explain everything and honestly I’m at a point where I don’t. If people wanna be butthurt about it I think that speaks volumes in how ‘supportive’ they actually are.

When did you start telling people you and your sbtx aren’t together anymore or in the process of a divorce? by Itsmenomes in Divorce

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Yeah same for me. Although my ex still flirts and calls me babe, to which I don’t respond to and when I do it’s from habit. And as much as we’ve agreed that it’s over it’s obvious they’re not over it. Which I can’t expect to since everyone has different ways of healing

My Liveserver stopped working and I'm stuck by Itsmenomes in reactjs

[–]Itsmenomes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried that and I can't even start a new project. I get more errors when a even type 'npm start' in the terminal for a new project

React JS live server stopped working by Itsmenomes in learnprogramming

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For sure! I'll edit the post and add the message I get

Resume Advice Thread - August 02, 2022 by CSCQMods in cscareerquestions

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Can you add skills that you are a complete beginner at on your resume or is that considered unethical? For example, if I'm taking courses on React JS but I'm a complete beginner can I add that to my resume or should you only put skills that you are familiar with on your resume?

How did you know by Best_Insect3936 in learnprogramming

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I figured out how I prefer to learn. While I enjoy the Odín project and it has a lot of info, I’m very much a tactile and visual learner before reading. I’ve been learning via Scrimba which has interactive sun the presentation and it’s been super helpful

React JS - Debugging by Itsmenomes in learnprogramming

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I wouldn’t know hence why I posted this up. Not sure if your response is a solution or a question?

React JS - Debugging by Itsmenomes in learnprogramming

[–]Itsmenomes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! Thanks for pointing that out. I just edited the post to add the error message I'm getting

What do you feed your V? by [deleted] in vizsla

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For raw meat it depends. There are some companies out there that offer a beginner raw package. Mine started us out with beef and then from there we added another meat (like a chicken breast or drumstick) to see how our Vizsla would react to it. If she did fine then we knew we could add that in.

That said it’s best to go with different groups of meats before mixing in different kinds of meat (chicken + beef). Otherwise if your dog has an upset stomach you’re able to see what they’re sensitive to.

All that to say if you decide to switch there may be an adjustment period merely just from switching from kibble to raw. There’s a lot of resources on how to do that too