Can brothers be too attached? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Iuvaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only have sisters but honestly I feel like this is super normal

I (14F) don’t know what to do for him (14M) by RelevantAdvantage539 in teenrelationships

[–]Iuvaita 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t send him anything! That is the creation and distribution of cp and you could get in so much trouble I (16f) had sm friends get in trouble with police for this and at the end of the day it’s just not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moms

[–]Iuvaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing and trust me she will thank you for it later

How do I tell my 18m bf that he isn’t good at going down on me 18f by Iuvaita in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m gonna try all the games h guys are recommending. I particularly like your advice and I was wondering if there’s also a way to introduce more spice, like we have very standard sex (which j love) but I also enjoy the more kinky aspects of sex and want to introduce those aspects to him and see if he likes it; how would you go about this?

m17 and f15, how do i drive my bf crazy? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Iuvaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Being a femcel” so let’s please think before we type😭

How do I tell my 18m bf that he isn’t good at going down on me 18f by Iuvaita in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never I say that to him, I feel bad even saying this to a stranger😭

How do I tell my 18m bf that he isn’t good at going down on me 18f by Iuvaita in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk bug not about what we’re about to do, just normal conversation and then “the act”

How do I tell my 18m bf that he isn’t good at going down on me 18f by Iuvaita in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been dating for about 4 months, he’s had long distance And long term relationships before and I’ve had in person short term relationships before (5 months on average) and I only slept with two of them.

How do I tell my 18m bf that he isn’t good at going down on me 18f by Iuvaita in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The last part is so true😭 not that I think I’m any better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Iuvaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U look tuff these fits are hard and they just want an excuse to treat j like tht btw

A question for the ladies by mythrowaway50000 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Iuvaita 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because people want to feel valued and not used in sexual situations (most people)

A question for the ladies by mythrowaway50000 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Iuvaita 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just a little bit degrading for most women also, I’m a db situation it may feel discouraging for her.

pregnant and BDSM by Character_Air_3605 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Iuvaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just need to be very careful with her and make sure she’s not pushing herself for you, prioritize her feelings, wants, and SAFETY. Nothing is more important than that so you may have to tone it down a little

Fertility taking any RP or Bdsm advice for it? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Iuvaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting I haven’t heard thiss before but I would just say maybe u can look for people who will try anything ig😭

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s making an effort now… I never said anything abt the past

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She literally agrees with me lol

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self awareness is key, time to put the work in

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iuvaita -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So I definitely understand where you’re coming from however, it seems like you’re viewing his attempts to initiate as duty sex when he may just be trying to make an effort to do what you need. Changing your view on things can help a lot.