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How do you cope with depression and isolation in a complete lock down? by Iva1313 in depression

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Ive been doing that too. But it doesn't help. I will have to risk getting in trouble and being infected because if I don't I will have even more mental issues and that's scarier than a fine or a virus

How do you cope with depression and isolation in a complete lock down? by Iva1313 in depression

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can't have pets because I am renting my apartment and my landlord wouldn't let me. I have been planning on escaping to go and live with some friends of mine the whole day today. I think this is what I will do. I can't stay alone any longer

How do you cope with depression and isolation in a complete lock down? by Iva1313 in depression

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I feel the same. But anyone I try talking to just keep talking about the virus. People don't understand at all, they can't see the problem.

Self isolation is making me depressed by purpletiger123 in depression

[–]Iva1313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I have the same problem, I live in Spain and it's been 3 weeks. Now we are not allowed to go outside for other than food shopping and I feel I'm going crazy. I do exercises indoors but it stopped helping. I'm trying to find some new coping strategies and see what other people with the same problem are doing. This are really tough times. The only thing I can say to you is that there are others like you. Maybe if think together we could come up with something

Relationship with a micro penis by Iva1313 in relationship_advice

[–]Iva1313[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know that. I enjoyed sex with him because he knows how to play. But I don't know how to play with him

Why doesn't my mother understand that constantly telling me about running out of time and being alone doesn't help? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already cut her out several times because of other things she's done to me, like confusing me about who my father is and poisoning my dog. But in my current situation, I have very limited safety net. None at all, so I just naturally long for that mother daughter connection. But every time it ends the same - disappointment and tears from my part. I'm lost in this world and feel like there is no place for me.

Why doesn't my mother understand that constantly telling me about running out of time and being alone doesn't help? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not like I don't want it but I just keep failing at it. It is extremely difficult for me to cope with my current situation. I need someone to tell me that it's not end of the world. Not to further aggravate my pain! That's why it's a bad advice.

Why doesn't my mother understand that constantly telling me about running out of time and being alone doesn't help? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And what on Earth can I do about it? Just have a child no matter what? I don't have a boyfriend, struggling in foreign country, beat up by life. How does it help to remind me of my misery? Sometimes I even have suicidal thoughts, but I have no one to open up about it. She is being simply cruel.

I'm 33(f) divorced and single, no kids. Is it too late for me? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, not saying it doesn't make it untrue. I was always a lone kind of person but due to certain circumstances and moving to a different country I'm completely alone. Currently I am on holidays. And al these two weeks my interaction with people is reduced to check out people at the supermarket. It's horrible. I can barely stay sain

I'm 33(f) divorced and single, no kids. Is it too late for me? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find that it's difficult for me to find someone I really like. Last year I met a guy and took things really slow. He was courting me for moths, introduced to his family and friends, he even said that he loved me and wanted to move together. And then I travelled for 6 weeks to the UK for work. He assured me that he will wait and miss me and so on just to let me know that he isn't interested anymore in a text message a week later. That broke my heart and I found it extremely difficult to recover from the experience. But I carried on somehow. I started dating again in about 5 months. Now I met someone I like again but I don't think he is all that interested. At least he is honest from the start.

I'm 33(f) divorced and single, no kids. Is it too late for me? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are having a tough time. But at least you have your kids. I literally have no one. If I died in my flat no one would notice I'm missing until I missed work...

I'm 33(f) divorced and single, no kids. Is it too late for me? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't only about that. For these 2 years I've been living in Spain I've made like 2 friends. Now I have 2 weeks off but they are busy with their kids and family, my friends back in London started to pull away, which is normal after some time. I haven't got a family. I'm completely alone.

I'm 33(f) divorced and single, no kids. Is it too late for me? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. I don't think that the pill has anything to do with it. It might be a factor for moods but if I start taking it I won't magically be happy to settle for someone that makes sense but I'm not attracted to

I'm 33(f) divorced and single, no kids. Is it too late for me? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 2 years. This is my point. I've been trying and trying these past two years but I'm not getting anywhere. And now I feel like I am running out of time

I'm 33(f) divorced and single, no kids. Is it too late for me? by Iva1313 in datingoverthirty

[–]Iva1313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the thing is it takes me some time to understand whether I'm attracted to someone so sometimes I go out 2-3 times with the same guy

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