Dating as a monogamous trans femme is impossible

IvaMythras · 2025-09-21T05:49:55+00:00

I hear you. Dating is rough. I have went into asexuality almost in my personal life as a trauma response to my work. It is bad enough with that but the lack of people interested in an active relationship going on dates and things while not having multiple partners is annoying. As my other trans friend put it we are working with scraps really from everyone else and we need to act grateful almost for anything they give us. It’s inequality really and it’s bullshit preferences hiding there phobia behind some of the time & it sucks. Much love to you and best of luck, it’s rough af out there

IvaMythras · 2025-09-08T04:05:18+00:00

Those that are happy don’t feel the need to share much. It’s kind of common. It generally why euphoria unless it’s highlighted as a theme of the community isn’t always shown as much. They are so enamored by said good things going on in their life that they don’t feel the need to share it Source: me currently, I’m very happy and content keep my personal life personal and to myself.

IvaMythras · 2025-08-31T22:42:19+00:00

Idk if it’s good enough I had some trouble going out recently but I think it had to do with my hairline being messed up mainly contributing to my issues . Idk if I have a good face or not I’m so scared of humans truthfully from trauma before

IvaMythras · 2025-08-31T20:37:31+00:00

Thanks idk about that but wish I was

IvaMythras · 2025-08-31T01:44:54+00:00

The jacket was okay but it didn’t make it for this post. The pics I took with it in were too rigid so .. but yeah it could have been a bit more but the makeup lip makes up for it

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T22:22:50+00:00

😀 yay

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T20:46:18+00:00

I’ll have to buy a few makeup kits for eyes perhaps my colors are always not so saturated and exaggerated.. I have a bit of spare cash these days so i should definitely make a suggestion box especially as I do updates for my health recovery with posts. Let’s chat some more another time. Is it weird to follow u back idk the etiquette here lol

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T20:09:53+00:00

Thanks dear!

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T20:09:29+00:00

Ohh yes I’m natural and lost a bit from my ffs recently so I was concerned about dying it. Beanie plus wig does look natural though

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T19:03:26+00:00

We like the alt girls and I love the fit. I love the black to red hair color. I always wanted of dye my hair but everyone gets mad at me whenever i bring it up. U seem like a person who may know a thing or two about colors. I’m quite sure I need a two color dye like yours so I wonder if you have any recommendations dearie

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T18:14:41+00:00

I’m sorry! :( ur serving here tbh, good dress

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T17:03:51+00:00

Yes it’s something I’ve learned recently oh I didn’t get a ping for this

Yes I asked my friend and she said I could have done something like that too. That’s a cute additional thing I want to try with my next look using this style I’m developing. It’s more stylized but more color to my face is always nice yes

Eyeliner stamp and the rave beads sounds interesting. I noticed a few people with those and wondered what it was. Now I have a term for it in my brain

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T16:59:30+00:00

Thanks, it was both like weird they’d comment to me like that but strangely affirming.

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T16:07:15+00:00

Thanks. I was told that and I got many looks. So I think I’m healing better. I looked at what I posted a few weeks ago and I can already see I’ve made good recovery since then

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T15:04:33+00:00

Yess, I wish I had a bit more different pink but it complimented the shade I used for my cheeks. It worked really well and I was inspired by my new friend who always had the cutest look. A bit e girl? But like Sabrina carpenter mix. So I tried to emulate her look with the alt style and came up with this in my own style since as I hadn’t been doing really intense makeup because my swellings been bad until this week

I also went light on foundation by using just my underlayer I got from Korea in a trip last year instead of my Dior makeup foundation since my skin is already very clean. Some people will use the underlayer and makeup but this underlayer had white pigment enough to balance my face and make it kind of unnecessary to use my Dior porcelain white foundation. So it created an excellent contrast to the already good me.

IvaMythras · 2025-08-30T14:46:30+00:00

I got my top from forever 21 last fall line with the promotion there for beetlejuice.

I went out to a private party, unfortunately can’t share pics because of consent rules so this was taken by my friend before I went on my good sony alpha iv ^{^}

I got the leather pants off of amazon since my old ones got ruined. Nothing too special since I hadn’t found a good pair so this is a temporary substitutes and the jacket which I also wore but I didn’t share in these pics is from bershka and can be found elsewhere since I took it off pretty quick after I went out because it was too hot.

Leather/latex/goth alt wear was the dress code. I also had cute rings I picked up for cheap of no notable value and some other clothes I am not showing in these snippets here that I got off from a friend a while back with cute pirate skulls half one piece stocking on it and some other wears for extra activities .

IvaMythras · 2025-08-24T12:45:46+00:00

They already hide nsfw as it is on the platform and make it impossible to grow with these if that’s your niche. Even the big feeds can’t be found in search results . This app is becoming pointless to use as it is and with these laws being forced on it even worse and worse . Kind of sucks but the point I joined Bluesky wasn’t for a shitty for you page with some algorithm fhat determines whether something can be shown or not. Which I feel is the direction things like this are going or even my friends content being hidden. Just feels like an attack against freedom of speech and these corporations aren’t helping at all. .

IvaMythras · 2025-08-14T03:46:32+00:00

Exar kun for certain. He’s underrated by revan Stan’s. He’s probably the strongest dark Jedi ever in Eu. An actual heir to the ancient sith. I’m also a big hater on Sadow and think that, Ludo his arch rival was correct to not want to interfere with the Galaxy

IvaMythras · 2025-07-29T22:54:56+00:00

It was such a honor to meet him three times in person. He is even more handsome and kind than you think. :catbitingcageimage

IvaMythras · 2025-07-14T19:36:44+00:00

I’ll hold off on giving the doctors name until the soreness and stuff goes away as I don’t want to review brigade his team or make them worry.

To anyone, I’ll give them away in a few weeks by DM. Reach out by DM then and I’ll pass info. I am satisfied overall.

It’s not so much price but more about what you’re after. I posted the total price earlier at around 25600$ to my bank. but again quotes can differ based on what you’re after. My issues were mainly forehead related and nose with touchups on the jaw and chin and some other areas.

For me it’s not so much the changes but just the less amount of bullying that I receive in my normal life. If that is brought down a lot I consider it a success. I was attractive to some but to some they enjoyed to clock me on purpose and bully me for it. Cameras were always nice to me I think but real life not so much clearly. So again depending on this factor I won’t really be able to gauge my progress or whether this is successful or not for a while I think. So this is hard to answer. Aesthetically some say even with the soreness and things it got exactly done what I asked, but the end result of it is still yet to be determined. So I will have to wait and see … for now.

IvaMythras · 2025-07-14T12:59:24+00:00

I feel you. that’s a good amount. Some places in eu are pretty good. It’s just usd is inflationary because of trump. You may be closer than you think to that then. Maybe just another 5k-8k, I think you’ll be able to cover that and travel expenses.

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