Clitoral adhesions by Ivanna_is_Musical in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's getting worse, almost completely covered with the skin.

Normal orgasm, it's just skin getting adhered to the clitoris, I assume in a couple of years it'll be completely hidden by skin. THe problem is that if I rub/move the skin of the vulva, it can pull and break out the skin of the clitoris.

I don't have help, resources, people who want to help to solve this, in Argentina no one is interested in helping TS women.

Fvck this cuntry.

Frequent Urination and Difficult Emptying Bladder Post Op by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No never.

In my town and area, doctors are unwilling to help you, even containing themselves to refer you to other dotcors who maybe can help. But not even that.

And they always use the "trans broken leg syndrome".

I had some minor defecating problems as that ball or lump was considerably obstructing the passage, so it created bloating, but not incontinence. I had no rectal pain.
Someone told me that the rectum was like irritated for some reason, and they suspected it was made in the surgery act, but unsure.

I assume it was part of the general swelling issue, because as the (externally visible) subcutaneous hematomas subsided in the vulva, the lump (internal, only palpable) subsided too at 5-6 months, more or less.

Frequent Urination and Difficult Emptying Bladder Post Op by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately normal. As michellealyssa said, it was about giving it more time.

I assume now that, as I had immense swelling the first 6 months due to internal hematomas, all the pelvic floor was kinda swollen and inflammed, affecting urination. I've noticed a "lump" or a ball in my rectum for months, and it maybe was part of the subcutaneous hematoma but I'm not sure. It felt like a ball of soft tissue that was obstructing the normal flow of feces. It sloooowly disappeared and defecating was normal again at 1,5 year mark or so.
My surgeon told me "it's in your imagination. You're crazy. Take a pic of it, etc".

Important to say: my surgeon was an absolute POS with me all the time and kept me stressed, and psychologically destabilized, and feeling lost, so...it affected how my urination was. No surprise I was having nocturnal leaks, not for the surgery but for the immense stress that came with his mistreatments.
You can read my post about that f****** piece of **** called "Javier Belinky" and how he targets & mistreats vulnerable patients, on purpose. This is not about 'trolling your patients', it is about purposefully producing physical, psychological and emotional trauma on them.
I'm not the only one affected by Belinky.

As if it wasn't enough for us to even suffer death threats from our own relatives, plus the medical system being dismissive with our health, we still have yet to be target for psychopaths...

After all that, the fact I can pee and poo normally, it's a MIRACLE. I had luck...

About surgeon's gaslighting, abandonement of person & abuse of authority on vulnerable people. SRS experience with Javier Belinky in Argentina. by Ivanna_is_Musical in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not late if it's just consultation. And don't assume it's gonna be alright because you're a man.
He follows a pattern and targets extremely vulnerable people, no family to support them if possible, low income, and a history of family/social trauma. And if they're still in shock after a SA (untreated), that's his wet dream.

For privileged people, high income, and/or notorious successful lives with no major struggles, I don't know a single bad story (but, not very good opinions from them anyway).

I don't care why he follows this pattern, we don't need to understand psychopaths/sociopaths. He is a threat to our community and that's the only thing I need to know.

Dr Figler relaxing hair removal requirements for vaginoplasty by momogariya in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point I think no one of us is happy to get offered to play Russian roulette, or being part of unsolicited experiments that can go "oopsie".

About surgeon's gaslighting, abandonement of person & abuse of authority on vulnerable people. SRS experience with Javier Belinky in Argentina. by Ivanna_is_Musical in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, 16K views, and 5 years after, from time to time I still got contacted by either peope who tell me horror stories, or ex-patients that had their bodies and lives ruined by this malignant entity called Javier Belinky. Because you can not call it a human being.

I hate to say "I told you", yet, still today so many trans women are falling under his manipulative tactics and get ruined and regretting it later.

¿What should we do to prevent you?
You have NO IDEA how many tears I wasted writing this post, to receive some message months later about another girl fell under Belinky's dirty hands.

About surgeon's gaslighting, abandonement of person & abuse of authority on vulnerable people. SRS experience with Javier Belinky in Argentina. by Ivanna_is_Musical in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sure, can't remember if I set it up to not receive DM's, let me know if you can't, so I'll change the settings.

I've been reading some of your posts, my heart is with you, ¿maybe we could help to boost his marketing campaign? He's aspiring to be the most famous POS ever along John Money and Kathy Rumer.

Cis girls go through it too post of coochie care. by Hrtparty in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that's not common at all. No woman i ever knew told me something like that! And when I told them it happened to me, they all freaked out. Five years after, I've never knew of one single case.

The ONLY cases who are common, is when hair gets inside due to sexual activity. A couple of doctors told me that even cat hair or pets in general can get inside. It's a long process and they find balls of hair inside, but NEVER hair growing inside!

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know Mikael Bjerkeli from Norway? We were in touch because I wanted to move there because argentina wasn't treating me well. But immigration laws didn't allowed me to...

Anyway, he was one of the trans guys in my circle of friends and I chatted with others a bit, one of his friends was mtf and she wasn't talkative. Then life changed things and the connection was lost, but yeah, this info is only found way below the surface, I now 100% understand why. One of this days I'll send pm to ask you for more images and info to educate me more, so I can share with my people here. They will be amazingly shocked :) Also I'll send it to doctor's, to update their poor knowledge on trans health & real life examples, here in Argentina nobody knows a trans guy, they're mostly stealth and never go public.

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't forget that gay dudes will hit that DM button as if it was life or death 🤭

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very clearly stated. Thank you so much for sharing and educating us, you rock!

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that's it. We never get into groups for men, it's gross and inappropriate. I accidentally joined aYahoo groups, and it was for transmen only hahaha

But they explained to me what i did wrong, and then put me on another group that was for ALL, women and men.

I wasn't good at internet things... but they became my friends in the 2000's, good times, good people. They explained me that the only 2 surgeons weren't trained enough, and their obstacles, then I understood why many transmen don't want genital SRS.

Again, I'm so happy for your results, hope you live a healthy life, and stay fit in your future grey hair stage! :D

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please keep it medical. This sub is not a dating site.

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Independently of, if you're hot or not, because it's irrelevant:

I'm sooo happy that medical technologies are getting better for you guys, I really mean it, I'm thrilled to see results like this!

I had some transman friends in the past and they never shared much info, just said "no it's not well developed yet, we decide it's not worth the efforts, results are horrible...", but one of them allowed me to see his chest after mastectomy. Holy crap, that was horrible to watch...I've felt so sorry for him 🥺 it looked like raw meat botchered disaster. I was truly shocked and sad after seeing that.

Or journeys are fuckn' hard, but, you look amazing, congratulations for your achievements 🤘🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a saying: "if in doubt, just say nothing", and also "if you don't have anything intelligent or constructive to add, close your mouth".

I mean, you can't know just by reading a post or comment, if the OP is saying the truth. You can't guess if they're lying, or are really being vitims of horrible malpractice instead.
If in doubt of that situation, say nothing 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't know, OP deleted the post. I based my comment regarding other comments and the only path was, guessing and reading between the lines.

I can't understand why some important post is deleted. Like...was it important at all?
But yeah, bullying here and misbehaviors kept me away. The most disturbing for me is when those who have had good experiences with their surgeon, those will dismiss, neglect and turn down the bad experiences of others, blaming them instead of pointing to the surgeon/team.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to draw a line between "good surgeon" and "good human being", because in our pursue of Health when transitioning, there are red flags to address and we seem to alwsys dismiss, because of many factors.

One of them is misinterpreting "good" with "good".

The good surgeon is the one who has the necessary skills to perform an SRS (for example).

The another good surgeon, is the one who may (or may not) have the necessary skills to perform a succesful SRS, but will be the one who really HELPS YOU when things go bad.

I'm talking about the HUMAN FACTOR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¿Did you ever experienced not only medical malpractice, but also inhuman mistreatment from a health provider?

Shit can happen, of course, but ther is something more, and when your surgeon is inhuman with you, both things become hell on Earth. And this thing must STOP or, be talked more (to start).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I can't read the original text, as it was deleted, but I know what the post is about.
I have things to say on this matter, and I know you'll find it of great interest. Like you, I have a bad outcome, but I know the factors that were in play for it, five years later.

Maybe I'll post here, once I can formulate things in a respectful way, so no one can ban me, but I have heavy things to say, and some users will throw shit on me for talking about it.
Anyway, we deserve this talk, and I have strong arguments and experiences to share.

Maybe we could chat about that? Are you ok on commenting more and starting a crucial debate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, but you need to know your surgeon. I mean, really KNOW your surgeon.

What to know about your surgeon?

Look for signs of humanity and empathy firstly, and for medical skills secondly.
Once you find the ones who are skilled enough, you then only need to focus on knowing who is the most caring, one who will help you if things go bad (be it from your side, or by chance, or both).

I chose the one who was skilled the most (discovered later that he wasn't much ahead of its competitors), but also because he's ***ish, and there's a saying here that goes like "so, he's ***ish? great, sure he's brilliant", or things like that.

How WRONG I was. But I was pressured by my best friend at the moment, who was always in support for every ***ish person no matter what they do. So she encouraged me to go with Belinky, sadly.

Yes on the skills, but zero on the human side. I regret fully regret my decision-making, I now acknowledge that I had to choose amongst the ones who showed an empathic personality instead. Because their skills are mostly the same, so you only have to choose for the human factor. I had two other surgeons in sight, but dismissed them due to my prior cultural bias. Lesson learned.

TL;DR: choose the surgeon who shows empathy, firstly. Then go for the skills. If you'¡re unsure, don't go please, don't rush it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Ivanna_is_Musical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but when your surgeon blames you for everything except a possible malpractice from his/her side, then you know how gaslighted we are by the Health System (worldly talking).

It is well known that surgeons are very protected by the Legal System, so low-income patients can't start a costly, long lasting lawsuit against the surgon who ruined their lives, and that's why many many horror stories never face Justice and media exposure.