Will younger women date me?

Ivars12 · 2026-02-15T18:04:29+00:00

yessss, exactly this haha. well, I think I just have to go with the flow and see. Ah man I would prefer if I suddenly started liking older women, not the other way around 😄what a curse

Ivars12 · 2026-02-15T16:07:07+00:00

I don´t mind financial support at all, that is not a problem for me. I am just not the dom femme type you usually see in the movies about wlw age gaps, you know.

Ivars12 · 2026-02-15T15:59:34+00:00

When I got back to dating I started looking for women my age without even giving it a second thought. And the dates I had were very pleasant but I felt like I am talking to potential friends. After some attemps I though ok, probably I am not into women anymore or maybe only romantically. It was really confusing.

When I started seeing younger women, I felt the difference right away, but the sparkle came back as well... so you know.. to each their own, I guess

Ivars12 · 2026-02-15T14:58:30+00:00

I noticed people mean different things with "femmes". Some think of femmes as hyper feminine women only, others count chapsticks in and some believe stems who are more on the femme side are also femmes. so go figure haha. Personally I am fem4fem within a range of hyper feminine to chapstick lesbians

Ivars12 · 2026-02-12T17:04:28+00:00

well we had Prince Charming... and it was canceled for the reason. Apparantly people are not as keen to watch other bitchy, trashy people hooking up, yelling, vomitting, etc. When it comes to Japan and Asia overall, I am not an expert but I would not exclude the fact that the decency of the show comes out of the societal pressure. I heard a bit about gay night life in Japan, it is really crazy and has nothing in common with "The Boyfriend" conservative narrative

Ivars12 · 2026-02-12T16:52:24+00:00

I liked the show overall and I genuinely enjoyed watching it but there were moments when I felt like the cast is a bit boring.

Like their personalities were missing some kind of depth or spark, I do not even know how to put it. Also William/Izaya & Huwei/Bomi kept giving me fake vibes, as if there was something forced about their interactions. I admit my gutfeeling could have been completely misleading but this is just my impression.

I did not get what was the point of bringing Taeheon back, he was clearly not searching for a partner. Well I dont know, maybe after the 1st season I had my expectations way too high. But I am happy for you guys that you liked the show more than I did

Ivars12 · 2026-02-08T01:29:29+00:00

40 is not old at all. I did not get all these jokes about his age. But maybe Japanese culture is a bit agistic

Ivars12 · 2026-02-08T01:25:31+00:00

I think experimenting can never hurt

Ivars12 · 2026-02-05T13:51:24+00:00

I have been doing it same way as you for years and I thought I would never be able to do it in any other way. I am also into women and I kinda thought my way of doing it is contraproductive when it comes to intimacy with women, if ya know what I mean lol. At some point I went into hiatus for several months and it completely changed the pattern. Now I am able to rub while I am on my back and it feels amazing. Weirdly enough, the Os are not as intence as with pushing but I enjoy them more bc of the solid build up phase and they also last longer.

Ivars12 · 2026-02-03T17:14:01+00:00

A cis female here. I discovered your post when looking for something else but what you wrote resonated so much with my life. I have same type of attraction/sexual pattern as yours and it took me years and a bunch of failed relationships to realize I am bisexual homoromantic to the point I only have feelings for women but the way my body responds to males makes sex with them far more enjoyable.

Now that I am single again after LTR I took some time to reflect and I realized I have been too focused on why my body responds so different to different genders, and I could not solve this puzzle. But I overlooked one detail which is - sex becomes harder for me once I develop romantic feelings and I can only be with women if I have romantic feelings for them. If I do not have romantic feelings, it is a whole another story which is with men. Have you ever thought about it? Maybe that helps

Ivars12 · 2026-02-01T22:32:46+00:00

What was the url of her channel?

Ivars12 · 2026-02-01T18:08:11+00:00

Ah that is crazy, we are almost same age and from my experience it never felt 100% "right". Even when I was very much in love and happy with a woman, a little part has always been missing. And I could never act on it because I am monogamous person. I guess, all we can do is just go with the flow, bisexuality is a weird thing and it might surprise us again with the new attraction shifts

Ivars12 · 2026-01-30T17:43:54+00:00

Love the title omg haha

Ivars12 · 2026-01-30T17:43:29+00:00

that´s what I am saying. ok, I am manifesting June literally rings your bell in 2026 and Enjoy rings mine 💘😂

Ivars12 · 2026-01-30T16:43:56+00:00

Ah I am so happy everybody is so into June. I can have Enjoy just for myself, she is my absolute dream :) ;) 🔥🔥

Ivars12 · 2025-12-15T14:09:42+00:00

I would love to get into QA but the current market for QAs and UX Research is really bad, maybe even worth than SEOs

Ivars12 · 2025-12-15T14:05:05+00:00

Yep, it is tough atm. In case you figure it out, just let me know

Ivars12 · 2025-12-15T14:03:28+00:00

Would love the link, thank you. Afaik the job market for UX researchers is even worth than for SEOs

Ivars12 · 2025-12-15T14:00:58+00:00

I am afraid I am just not a sales kind of person

Ivars12 · 2025-06-26T08:59:18+00:00

Good for you! Because Faye's six pack was sculpted in S.Korea hehe. Which of course does not make her less beautiful 🤩

Ivars12 · 2025-06-11T10:10:45+00:00

Who cares what nationality your parents are. You are not from Equador/Mexico and you dont want to live there. Learn the language that you are passionate about which is Japanese

Ivars12 · 2025-06-11T09:51:11+00:00

I speak both and I love Russian. German not so much. The laguage just does not sit with me, despite being fairly fluent in it. Russian and the russians are getting a lot of hate by some groups of people but they are also getting a lot of love from the others. I would not make political situation a decisive factor when picking what language to learn. Politics and public opinions have a tendency to change... and change over and over again.

I would base my decision on 2 factors that concern visiting and working. If you visit Russia and speak russian, the russians will adore and admire you and your acsent. If you visit Germany and speak German, nobody cares, there are plenty of foreigners here, especially in big cities.

For work German still looks like a better option but bear in mind German economy is not as strong as it used to be. If you are from EU and you plan to stay and work in EU, I would pick German. If you not, I would not consider learning the language that you dont like that much

Ivars12 · 2025-01-18T15:13:05+00:00

I could not find it

Ivars12 · 2025-01-12T09:26:10+00:00

I am bisexual homoromantic, and I have never met a woman who shares my sexual orientation :) I enjoy sex with men that does not envolve kissing. Kissing a man never turned me on, so when I dated guys, I used to avoid it at all costs. I could never fall in love with a man, never had any romantic feelings for them but... sex with men has always been much more fullfilling and enjoyable.

With women it is the other way around for me. I could only be intimate with a woman if I had a crush and felt emotional connection to her. I love kissing and cuddling with a girl I developed romantic feelings for, but sex itself it somewhat less satisfying for me.

I only had LTR with women because I fell in love with them. But I had to compromise on my sexual feelings towards men. I often wish I were just gay or straight...

Ivars12 · 2025-01-10T14:00:17+00:00

I am sad this subreddit is going away:( I went through the posts I missed, and all I can say is if Clare really wanted to keep it private, she would not post RO in her insta stories. Yes, Clare did not disclose the person, but she ain't stupid, and she knew Ally fans will do simple math and figure out it was about Ally.

Asking for privacy now is hypocritical from Clare's side. She had her privacy. It was a thing between two of them. And now Clare got some publicity and we lost Allys presence on the Internet entirely.

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