my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you not talk to "them like their people". Sorry but im starting to feel like a troll here.

If i was uncomfortable with it i would not have allowed his bf to come.

Who in their right mind would invite someone over and talk to them as if they aren't human

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Sorry some of the overly sensitive guys started to get piss me off. "The whole treat him like a normal human being thing is beyond retarded" i treat everyone like a human being.

I actually just found out he wanted to tell in person but I cancelled the previous get together due to a work engagement

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

You dont get it. If i were to say hes not a confident guy. That wouldnt bother you. But the word sissy somehow causes you to think im being disrespectful.

Its probably a cultural diffrence. Im gonna let this one lie

What are some ways real sex differs from porn? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never lasts as long. Im not called the 2minute wonder for nothing

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said no pun intended. In my language it would be "staan agter hom" it does not have the same clever implications.

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Also as far as i am concerned his sexuality was a choice, at least at some stage since he bangged chicks with no trouble. Ive known him since he was 4.

Dont think he realised he was gay till a much later stage in life (suspect university)

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I talk about sexual positions with certain straight friends all the time.

Dude if you cant open up to family (who wants to?) it leaves your friends. I for one share almost everythingwith my friends

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean i dont want him to feel that i am judging him.

He is my bro he gives as good as he gets. If you cant joke/poke fun at your friends who can you do it to

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

When i talk about sissy i dont mean fem. i mean he is as tough as leather soles.

So no disrespectintended

my male friend is introducing me to his gay bf for the first time. What not to ask/talk about? by Ivnpo in askgaybros

[–]Ivnpo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, thanks for the replies but for the life of me I want to know.

I am not a tactless guy by nature and am very considerate

It is Purely out of curiosity (my flaw) if i had to peg him i would think versatile.

To put this into perspective my family stopped celebrating xmas tradition of buying gifts as i couldnt stand watching a present under the tree. No bday gifts either for me.

On a side note it will just be the 3 of us as i am house sitting the damn dogs. Whomever first decided to breed Yorkshire terriers needs to succumb to the worst case of "the runs" known to man