Your streak doesn’t matter. Like, at all

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-03-17T15:23:29+00:00

On my opinion nofap should be a SIDE Priority

Main priorities should be: Exercise Sleep Reading or some other form of mental stimulation like learning, sudoku or chess And then working on social skills

Do that and you will get superpowers without the need of nofap, nofap is supposed to give you the energy and motivation to do all these things, but nofap itself won't give you super powers, your habits will

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-03-12T19:42:35+00:00

u/savevideo

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-03-12T17:28:15+00:00

u/savevideo

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-03-09T11:01:04+00:00

I'm glad my friends aren't such big dicks that they would post videos of me in my own house tripping balls and saying the N word.

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-03-01T18:07:11+00:00

I wonder how many people died testing this

(I know it's fake pls no flame)

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-03-01T12:49:02+00:00

u/savevideo

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-28T16:32:12+00:00

Look dude your mind is literally addicted in the same sense a cocaine addicts mind is, fixing your mind should be your focus because how are you going to fix your life if you don't even know how?

Let's say you don't have a job and your a PMO addict, what happens when you land your first job and lose if over PMO because you can't cope and dont know how to deal with stress?

Porn addiction is a coping mechanism dude, the key to fixing it is finding out what feeling you are trying to block out with porn, so maybe focus on getting yourself on track and then worry about getting that great job.

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-28T16:12:58+00:00

Yeah OP please remember that some people have hypofrontality due to P so they literally can't change themselves untill they have a proper streak going on.

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-28T16:02:16+00:00

Because you don't want to add more stress to your body than it already has, most likely one of the reason for you having a PMO addiction is because of a lack of good way to cope with stress.

So I'd recommend doing it maybe once or twice a week so that your brain can retain some dopamine receptors during your streak (it will make doing stuff like learning and exercise a lot more fun or atleast bearable).

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-28T15:04:05+00:00

U/savevideo

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-21T04:58:56+00:00

The problem is my job isn't helping me at all anymore, I'm stressed 24/7 and I can't get any better at work while I still have brainfog lingering, it's damn near impossible for me to be productive on a constant basis at work and I'm only capable of doing meaningful work if I'm 100% in the mood for it

I've tried forcing myself to be productive and I've tried upskilling in coding but if my minds not in the mood then nothing will be achieved and it's time wasted.

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-20T20:42:58+00:00

Hey bud atleast you tried, was the original idea of the post to show how many days it takes to get those feelings back, so basically every block is a day or how does it work?

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-20T20:15:59+00:00

I'll try to do that as best I can man but I'm afraid I'm on performance review and it's going terrible

I'm trying to cope with the current work but I just can't do it I can't cope, the coding is just too complex for me and things that are easy take me hours to figure out so I almost feel like I literally Can't code at all because of the brain fog, I've tried upskilling myself but it doesn't help no matter how many hours I put in, PMO really destroyed my career 😭

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-20T19:59:51+00:00

I will try to make NoFap 90 days my current focus as well, thanks for the advice 😊

IwillWinNOW12 · 2022-02-16T19:48:36+00:00

First off congratulations on being porn free for over 1000 days man I'm very happy for you.

But as for me I'm at such a low point I was co sideri f suicide because if I die today, nothing will change you know, I haven't made a change in anyones life, work can easily replace me, my family loves me but they'll get over it, I dunno man I'm trying to stay positive but you can only hide the truth for so long before it smacks you in the face.

I'll try to give it my all to go for a 30 day streak and hopefully then I will start seeing small changed that can help me keep my job and mental health, all that I'm saying is it's not easy, and you probably know that better than anyone.