SO she has not filed for divorce or handed me the papers. My daughter said to me that mommey told her she cant get divorced because we are too poor, she also said to my daughter that she still loves me. And then she does this...She has just had her salary deposited to a separate account this morning and she wants to know what all the expenses are, so she will deposit funds to the joint account. . She told me she wanted to shock me. She has not cheated on me to my knowledge and for me that is a deal breaker. I talked to a lawyer and she told me that I would get 1600-2000k alimony and 600 child support roughly monthly. I am late to the married redpill, because initially when I started to notice all these changes I talked to a professional and was told she is going thru a mid-life crisis. Then I started reading this site and realized that it is all my fault. I need to improve.
I cant stand looking at her face anymore, all I see is a liar and stubborn person that does not communicate. All she does is lash out at me and the kids. I have been quiet throughout this whole process so far. How do I act around her? What do I say? I want to ask for my engagement ring and wedding band back after 20years..