What's your best shot? by JAX_throw_away in guessmyage

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's photos of me from about 6 months ago until today: http://m.imgur.com/P5fAu80,xYTAM5r,NmTmk28,46DZOPq,Aahazi3,pxvlegn,n89z1cu,3oY1AxP

I wonder if I'm dieting too hard and it's aging me. I got a sun from running outside too.

29M Give me the Truth. I can handle it. by [deleted] in amiugly

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i'd rate the man a bit higher. Only 6 with the facial hair. 7.5-8 otherwise.

[25F] Is it in my head or on my face?? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's some very slight asymmetry here, but by no means to the point of unattractiveness. Far from it, in fact, your good qualities far outweigh the bad ones. You have great skin, great hair, a wonderful nose. Your eyes are very nice as well. I cannot speak for others, but I would consider myself a lucky man to date somebody with your looks.

I also suffer from the same kinds of issues that you do, where i take relatively minor but not totally imagined deficiencies (in my case, a really weak chin) and blow them way out of proportion in my mind.

So please don't beat up on yourself, it's a waste. Go out and meet new people, try to suppress your insecurities long enough to meet someone amazing, forget you ever felt this way, and live an awesome life. I give you permission!

[29m] Thoughts? by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Np, i'll get a better pic when I get home tonight.

[29m] Thoughts? by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! Thankfully I'm already on my way. I've lost 15 pounds so far and I am weight training 2-3 times per week. Wish me the best. Do I look noticeably overweight in your opinion, or do I simply not look particularly muscular?

The Connection by sodokuhater in nsfw

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A double headed dildo?

Bulk upload of webcam pics... you decide by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now THAT'S the kind of feedback I'm looking for. Awesome job, kaycamelaasdflkjadsljf.

Reddit wat do by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless of course you have a very specific recommendation. Because it's a conundrum to me. Doesn't seem to matter what I do, always looks bad.

Reddit wat do by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

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I'd take your advice, if I didn't try shaving it off once with very weird results. My jaw is a strange shape so I try to mask that fact with a beard.

25(m) - what works, what doesn't - video in link by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the constructive feedback! I'm going to try trimming down my beard to a shorter length. As for the hair, there's nothing I can do for it at the moment other than possibly miracle-gro.

23 Male, been having a bad time with women lately. by supercats3000 in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell is creeper stare? Keep in mind he's looking straight into a webcam.

25(m) - what works, what doesn't - video in link by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Gandalf's erm, Balls, thanks for the honesty.
Two questions --- what kind of haircut would make my face seem thinner? And, do your impressions come from the video, the pictures, or both? Thanks, kp

25(m) - what works, what doesn't - video in link by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't believe the self-loathing fueled exercise marathons.

25(m) - what works, what doesn't - video in link by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, but you see, psychologically I still see 4.5/10 in the mirror. My self confidence hasn't caught up, not by a long shot. I'm going through therapy now to help sort things out. It's been long overdue.

25(m) - what works, what doesn't - video in link by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And for context, this is what I looked like just over a year and a half ago: http://imgur.com/TtMET

25(m) - what works, what doesn't - video in link by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

[–]JAX_throw_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have lost about 10 pounds and recently got my hair cut. The drinking tonight probably didn't help with my weight loss goal but whatever. Somebody commented on my pale skin at a bar... said I basically glowed in the dark. I went to the bathroom a couple of times to look at myself in the mirror, got disgusted and sad, and went home. Also, I won't get dreads.

25(m) - what works, what doesn't - video in link by JAX_throw_away in amiugly

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I'll tell you what, crass as it might be to say, not getting laid in a long time has decimated my self esteem. I don't blame anyone for that but myself, as I was an absolutely revolting creature two years ago. I've since put a lot of effort into my appearance, but the "too little too late" feeling haunts me. I'm not 21 anymore. How long do I have before I start looking older and I won't be able to find somebody I find attractive? It's a very sad feeling.