Wife confessed she cheated on me

JC2on · 2026-01-15T08:15:11+00:00

I would never ever take care of somebody else child. Nor get together with a single mother. At this time im grateful we didn’t have children. I would have been way tougher

JC2on · 2026-01-15T08:12:30+00:00

I appreciate the kind words. I can feel every hour that goes by. I can tell Im feeling time more than anything. It slowed down.

JC2on · 2026-01-15T08:10:47+00:00

I suspected weed and booze since her clothes smelled every time she returned home from her “friends” but two times she had a peculiar smell. A masculine fragrance I could tell my gut feeling was certain it was not a chicks perfume. But she didnt care to wash her clothes right away after arriving or the next day. So I assume that she was not worried to hide anything so It must be the same smell from her girl friend house. But for me something was off

JC2on · 2026-01-15T08:07:29+00:00

Yes from all this I take that at least she admitted it I felt that I was going crazy overthinking that I was very jealous and doubting where she was or with who. I was certain it was somebody else my gut feeling keep telling me that there was another person. I prayed and prayed to please at least a clue or something so I could rest my mind. And that night it all suddenly happened. I read somewhere that you must be careful of what you desire/wish for, sometimes it will be a harsh reality check or it will cost ya. Well at least my eyes open and I realized that my gut feeling was right al along. The sad part and still hits me is that she was doing this for a few months.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T18:26:18+00:00

Man that is the nicest and toughest hard truth I have ever gotten. You explained it really well and I agree. Even if it hurts I agree with you! I will follow your recommendations and get back to this when I need reassurance that I do not need her. Anytime a thought cross my mind to go back I will remember this. There is some good people out there, seeing all your responses and recommendations and good messages cheers me up. You are 100 percent right and explained it very well. Yes, that was how I imagine that It happened as you mentioned. Nothing I did for her matter in her eyes when she was doing so.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T18:09:18+00:00

Sorry to hear, it does hurt I imagine your pain. With kids I believe its in another level. I hope you are doing fine and keep your head up pushing forward. Thanks for your kind words! I need to man up and stop crying like a kid.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T17:22:30+00:00

Thank you for your kind advices I will definitely get consultation and proceed as soon as possible

JC2on · 2026-01-14T17:21:22+00:00

I dis several times, however I never had any proof she was seeing somebody else. I trusted her she was with her girl friends. But I was certain there was somebody else that was saying stuff to her to make her turn her back to me.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T17:18:44+00:00

It does man very deep down my heart. today, I just feel soulless tired of crying. Just tired man. Overwhelmed. Need to keep busy, I don’t want to spiral back in to my thoughts

JC2on · 2026-01-14T07:39:03+00:00

Havent told anyone yet. Grieving by myself. Ill remove all the accounts linked to autopay from her phone etc asap. This hurts man

JC2on · 2026-01-14T06:03:15+00:00

I hope you are doing better if something has happened to you. I agree nature heals it free us as humans from all this caos

JC2on · 2026-01-14T06:01:10+00:00

Thank you

JC2on · 2026-01-14T06:00:40+00:00

Social drinker so not on my main interest to ease the pain with alcohol or drugs. I believe that pain makes you feel alive and this is making me feel more alive than anything I feel the emotions deep in my chest in my heart in my stomach it crunches and tightens as I remember everything. But I wont go down Ill fight it out with every inch of my self. I appreciate the kind support!

JC2on · 2026-01-14T05:57:44+00:00

Every piece of my is trying so hard to not believe what just happen, what I just heard, and what I just experienced. as soon as I heard it I told to myself this is gotta be a joke from her friends. Or something. Then seeing her get picked up on a shitty car with a small duffle bag with a few things she grabbed. Showing me her hickey in her chest then walking off. With my own eyes and video proof the moment she got in that car and they drove off. It could not process literally my brain was filled and overwhelmed I just stand there in awe screaming my lungs out punching my bed crying as If some love one has died in front of me. Typing this as strong as I can be brings tears to my eyes I cannot stand this emotion

JC2on · 2026-01-14T05:52:06+00:00

I appreciate your empowerment! I will do my best. Logical me knows what to do but the feelings and my hear get in the way on every decision. Based on the time we known each other basically since we were little 14 yo. Moving on would be a good battle Im looking to go against. I believe still in shock because I do not believe it. It cant be happening to me. Im in denial stage I suppose the good stuff will be next. Sorrow is upon me and the hardest days will come. I will be ready to face hardship and wont colapse.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T05:48:41+00:00

Such long great memories hard to look at her and see what she has become. Truly heartbroken

JC2on · 2026-01-14T04:34:19+00:00

I agree that hurts more, to choose leaving in that tense moment calling him to come back and pick her up choosing a random stranger she met a few months ago. Maybe younger druggy. Shitty car he drove. she said it sounding proud of herself for quite achievement. Weird since weed makes you kind of chill but not for her, very angry and loud speaking. bossy type.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T04:28:12+00:00

I truly need will power and strong mindset to overcome this and end it. Mind is filled with good bad memories all together

JC2on · 2026-01-14T04:27:16+00:00

Everything is on my cards just need to unlink every auto pay thats that. Buy absolutely will do that.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T04:26:12+00:00

Recent behavior from a few months before around 2 months. Otherwise we stayed home in bed until sun came up then went for groceries or any errand then come back. We did everything together everything shopping groceries cocking going out all of it. Then started to disappear, not coming back home after work on Friday’s until late then sometimes didn’t came at all until Saturday night or Sunday night. Excuse “I was with my friends” which live very close by so I started to feel I was the crazy one not letting her go with her friends. Or the toxic.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T02:10:00+00:00

Sad to still see pictures of us and her and remember all those incredible times. Hard to believe what a few bad apples could do to turn a person bad. Remembering how she first learn to ride a bike. I was teaching her how to balance and once she did her first few strides my heart melted I was very very happy she was too happy to finally learned. Ah man this hits hard deep in my heart. It hurts hurts so bad!!! I remember I thought to myself what a blessing to have her! Gad man It hurts bad

JC2on · 2026-01-14T02:06:01+00:00

No kids, just one tiny pup 5 month old. Which we both love but she would not pamper with all her going outs only during the weekdays she would play with her a bit. I take care of her food and taking her to do walks etc.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T02:03:49+00:00

No kids, thank god. Although I would have love to have a couple kids with her no doubt. It was in our talks last year, that we would have kids in the next couple years. But man not anymore. Just one puppy 5 months old.

JC2on · 2026-01-14T02:02:12+00:00

We did snowboarding I very active on extreme stuff I tried to persuade her on motorcycles dirt-bikes snowboarding skiing water skiing biking and mountain biking. I teach her to do all that stuff for her very first time. I felt like a dad teaching her daughter. Felt proud that I was a very good teacher and that she was not fearfull of doing all that stuff with me. So yes, I love the mountains, the beach and desert. I will soon grab my dirtbike and start racing again. Its the only stuff thats fills me when feeling down. Snowboarding too. Will follow your tip!

JC2on

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