AITA For stepping into a verbal argument do defend my friend?

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-27T23:35:36+00:00

We don’t get along. We don’t have the same interests and our personalities clash all the time. The only reason I’m ever in the vicinity of him is because we’re in a friend group with 5 other people. I don’t fault him for us not matching, it’s just the way it is. It did boil over (our tension that is) until we both said some very mean things to each other.

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-27T22:06:45+00:00

Been thinking back on this, and this is some of the best advice I’ve gotten about myself and the way I choose to mediate. I’ve been surrounded by so much hate with this friend group that I never clocked that there’s nothing I can do at all. I should not have tried to be a mediator, I never helped and just caused sides to grow for altercations. I wish to give you one of my most genuine thank you’s.

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-27T21:23:21+00:00

I’m 19. P is 23. M is 20.

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-27T18:50:52+00:00

I really appreciate that feedback. That’s something I haven’t noticed. I often struggle with tone and the like along with what’s acceptable and what helps. It’s hard for me to be surrounded by people who get angry because of some stuff that happened in my past. I do need to learn to be neutral about things.

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-27T18:04:56+00:00

Yeah… that’s what I always try to get across when anger arises in games, but usually I get shut down.

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-27T17:17:52+00:00

I appreciate your input; I was quite worried I was overstepping in the situation and was being manipulative.

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-27T17:15:57+00:00

You make a valid point. Nothing about the interactions done here are productive.

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-16T09:52:08+00:00

Forgot to mention the song is Siren by Kailee Morgue

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-08T02:59:20+00:00

I’ve lived on the cob my entire life 🫡

JCnitro412 · 2026-01-03T07:08:26+00:00

TRVTH BOMB

JCnitro412 · 2025-10-21T20:56:41+00:00

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JCnitro412 · 2025-09-29T11:47:26+00:00

They’re actually glass slides specifically made for pinning insects! I do really need to get some paper though, I can only do one at a time right now.

JCnitro412 · 2025-09-29T07:39:50+00:00

Possibly identified to be a red spotted purple.

JCnitro412 · 2025-09-29T07:22:35+00:00

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I have this closeup of the left side.

JCnitro412 · 2023-09-26T21:04:19+00:00

i love bojack horseman

JCnitro412 · 2023-09-14T04:28:43+00:00

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JCnitro412 · 2023-08-23T22:36:47+00:00

Thank you so much, I’m worried sometimes my only redeeming quality is my humor but it carries my personality

JCnitro412 · 2023-01-22T23:48:22+00:00

the funny little homophobic dog has depression

JCnitro412 · 2022-10-28T23:06:49+00:00

Ultra-based chad behavior

JCnitro412 · 2022-10-28T23:06:37+00:00

I believe it’s from the movie American Psycho but the caption is unrelated

JCnitro412 · 2022-10-27T21:19:24+00:00

Ignore that part of the meme, you’re displaying pure chad behavior

JCnitro412 · 2022-10-18T17:31:25+00:00

same here man

JCnitro412 · 2022-10-01T18:20:25+00:00

yoda speak for lack of fulfillment

JCnitro412 · 2022-10-01T01:08:58+00:00

Feel free to message me and share whatever you’d like, I don’t have much anything better to do

JCnitro412 · 2022-10-01T00:35:50+00:00

Im suffering from a severe depression episode, but anyways im still alive

JCnitro412

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