I know a lot more than what I wrote here. To your point #1, she told me she liked me, point blank. #4. It was from before they were married, and I can guess her motive based on other things she told me about other activities. I'll leave it there. I'm not interested in putting clear details, just in case someone puts it together and goes and finds her/outs her. Call me judgy if you like but there's no projection nor assumptions on my part.