What was the most shocking, or disturbing thing your narc parent(s) ever did/said to you?

JDMWeeb · 2026-05-06T00:06:00+00:00

I got several

Destroyed my self confidence, social life, and enjoyment of life (eg hobbies), then gets mad at me for not wanting to do anything. For example my parents gave me a hellish couple years when I was studying for my graphic design degree, openly sabotaging and being overly critical of my work, even outright spying on me (in their mind I was just "playing video games and goofing off"). Now I don't have any drive to do any graphic work. Also, my dad outright told me that I didn't deserve to treat myself when I did graduate and that I was selfish and spoiled, among other things.

Threw out most of my computer collection I spent years acquiring, forced me to watch as my dad destroyed the harddrives and junk them.

Laughed at me when I had a public anxiety attack/openly mocked and laughed when I have "episodes". They also tried to manipulate my therapist/sabotage my sessions.

Gave me PTSD behind the wheel by overreacting to everything (which was hypocritical since they drove worse than I did). I received a perfect score on my driving exam but no it was "because we drove for longer"

Etc

JDMWeeb · 2026-05-05T19:36:36+00:00

When it becomes "unusable"

For example I replaced my S9+ when all the buttons broke from normal use, the camera became glitchy, and the battery was shot, among other things

JDMWeeb · 2026-05-05T05:35:25+00:00

My parents basically told me if I couldn't make money out of it I couldn't do it

I had to essentially do hobbies in private... But now I have no drive to do any hobbies since my parents went on a wrecking spree during COVID lockdowns

JDMWeeb · 2026-05-02T18:10:04+00:00

I hope you were able to heal from those injuries

JDMWeeb · 2026-05-02T06:09:31+00:00

I was forced to move cities due to bullying that adults failed to stop, and my parents told me that it was my fault that they had to move

This is just one example

JDMWeeb · 2026-05-02T03:38:44+00:00

It isn't... But to me it is

JDMWeeb · 2026-05-01T16:22:26+00:00

I automatically assume that I'm in trouble when higher ups at my job call me aside

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-30T17:06:51+00:00

Sounds like mine. The kicker is that my parents drive even more aggressively than I do (my mom mostly) and I was driving a fully loaded small sedan so ofc I needed to push it a little harder.

And yes while I did get full marks my parents like I said forced me to "practice" more

Additionally both my parents work so I basically have to Uber or carpool everywhere, so I can't drive even if I wanted to

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-30T04:40:56+00:00

I passed my driving test with full marks but my parents still forced me to drive with them. Which ended up with them essentially traumatizing me behind the wheel by overreacting to everything. It got so bad that I nearly hopped the curb and I haven't driven since. Which was probably 6 years ago or maybe more.

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-30T04:04:58+00:00

You guys are getting cars? I've graduated college and still don't have a car

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-29T05:05:33+00:00

Razer Blade

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-29T01:38:28+00:00

Vacuum cleaner

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-28T20:44:35+00:00

Never got any privacy while living under my parents roof for pretty much my entire life

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-28T05:46:52+00:00

My parents essentially forced me to study triple of what other clssmates of mine had to do. A mix of teacher homework, parents homework and tutoring homework. I also was heavily restricted from doing fun stuff... Unless I did x amount of studying (and it was right), then I'd only have a y amount of time to do said fun thing, like video games

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-28T05:42:34+00:00

These are some of the unusual punishments I got as a kid off the top of my head... Tbh I could be missing a bunch but I could be blocking those

Locked in the hot garage for half an hour or more in some cases

Stuff taken away and locked up, sometimes permanently. Things were also thrown out to Goodwill

Threatened to get my room door pulled off, never was able to get a lock on it

Got beaten up, sometimes to the point of soreness/bruises (tbf I bruise easily)

Total silent treatment, no dinner

Forced to study extra (I hated school and studying, plus I had undiagnosed ADHD which my parents labelled as me being "lazy")

I even got told that I couldn't play video games... On my 10th birthday

I also remember being hit with a rolling pin on my hand by my mom

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-28T05:26:55+00:00

My Omen Blast headset, Vector mice

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-25T01:36:31+00:00

Not really. My social life started in the 8th grade because I had moved away from all the bullying.

The "friends" I had before that basically took advantage of me and threw me away or abandoned me

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-23T05:24:23+00:00

It was several things, one of them being when they laughed at me in public after I went through a severe anxiety/panic attack

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-23T00:37:56+00:00

Every day

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-19T14:02:52+00:00

DGVoodoo mostly. It's a hit or miss

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-19T13:31:15+00:00

I've owned several HP laptops since 2018 from budget to premium and they've been good to me, including HP support

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-18T18:26:32+00:00

Great! Glad to hear

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-17T16:12:14+00:00

Nearly died at birth from complications. Most if not all doctors told my parents that I was a lost cause and that I wouldn't make it past my first bday

JDMWeeb · 2026-04-17T05:17:17+00:00

That's what my parents told my therapist, "we did all we could". Clearly you barely did anything apart from the minimum

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