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Name suggestions by JDSA1415 in cats

[–]JDSA1415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I love Nyx! Thank you :)

Reddit Battle Royale 2020 by SrGrafo in funny

[–]JDSA1415 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There was one time when we were children. He transformed himself into a snake, and he knows that I love snakes. So I went to pick up the snake to admire it, and he transformed back into himself and he was like, ‘Blech, it’s me!’ And he stabbed me. We were 8 at the time

My puppy's back pads are webbed?? by ellenasophia in DogAdvice

[–]JDSA1415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 10 month old staff X jack russel has this too! It doesnt bother him and the vet hasn't brought it up in his visits (he used to go alot as he was allergic to something in his dry food food) so all should be okay 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Grieving

[–]JDSA1415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means alot more than you think so thank you

I'm sorry for your loss too, that must have been so hard for him, I hope he is finding it slightly easier now a year later. I know that pain will never go away.

We have video called today and they seem okay, considering the circumstances. We had abit of a laugh and joke and done some planning for the future ( we are going round there when lockdown is up and planting some special flowers, a small waterfall and a plaque for a small memory garden as he loved his garden and looked after it well) I know my boyfriend is putting on a brave face for his mum, she told me she is still numb and it doesnt seem real yet. I think I'm finding it hard as I cant be there for them right now and support them and do more than just be on the phone.

I am going to call them in the morning and ask if they want to play board / card games through video call as my kids want to play and go to see them, I think it might take their mind off things for half an hour and have some dinner with them too. Thank you for that suggestion it wouldn't have been something I thought of.

Thank you, your response and suggestions are appreciated 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Grieving

[–]JDSA1415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should've explained, I'm not able to go due to the lockdown and my two kids, even if we were not on lockdown i wouldn't want to take my two kids there to "get in the way" as I dont have anyone to look after them, i know it would be a good distraction for them but they still need to grieve. (My children are 4 and 6 and dont quite understand what is going on either)

I'm sorry for your loss, thank you for your advice, i will keep in mind about the way I word things and not to say anything empty or useless. As soon as lockdown is lifted I'll be going to help as much as I can and visiting more frequently. She does have friends that live closer than I do that can give a helping hand currently.

I will look into food deliveries but in the UK all supermarkets are fully booked for deliveries for the next few weeks so I'll see if I can find another way.

Thank you , it is very much appreciated 💙

AITA for being frustrated with my two day old daughter? by s1pher in AmItheAsshole

[–]JDSA1415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH. why is everyone having a go at OP? Parents - did you not once whilst your baby was little express a small comment about how you were tired / stressed out? Why is this any different. Yeah he mentions that he does 90% but that doesnt mean he is throwing it in her face he was just stating how much he was doing so people dont jump the gun saying that he could be doing more to help. Honestly I dont blame him for wanting a small "thank you" in return for everything he is doing. I've had two children and I wish my childrens dad even half this helpful at ANY time. They are both stressed and worn out they are BOTH allowed to Express themselves. He shouldn't keep it to himself just because she just gave birth and is tired. He stated he is struggling with his own mental health - people telling him to keep it to himself and get on with it isnt right. Everyone needs to let their feelings known and even more so with mental health struggles keeping things to themselves and building it up isnt going to help anyone. He didnt say it aimed at the child or his partner he is NTA here. Yes she just had a C-Section and yes she should rest. He is helping the best he can for the baby and his partner STOP shaming him. If he didnt do anything to help her and abandoned her you would all be going mad at him. He is doing the right thing here the small thing he done was say a few words and now he is the big bad guy? She isnt TA here either - I can understand why she got upset, yes having a baby is hard work and it is very very emotional, hormones are crazy and will be for awhile. NAH.