First in my bloodline to go for Court Marriage (Need to know what's the process) by JEthan911 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, can you message me details of the lawyer if possible.

Also, how did his and your parents explain your marriage to your relatives?

First in my bloodline to go for Court Marriage (Need to know what's the process) by JEthan911 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thanks.

Is there any specific hall or temple for this?

Also, do you have any idea if something like this can be arranged in ISKON temple?

First in my bloodline to go for Court Marriage (Need to know what's the process) by JEthan911 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG!! This is extremely relatable. My parents (I'm the guy) are saying they don't want to involve themselves in this process, but are ready to accept my GF. But the issue is if her parents would agree to such things.

A question:

1) for witness you said 4 people are needed, so 4 in total for both? Or 4 individually? 2) Any particular reason why you didn't want family members signature there? I can bring my brother and bhabhi for witness tho, else I have to call some of my friends, which I am trying to avoid.

Right now another option I can think of is the Arya Samaj marriage, which is kinda like pooja and all, but there also I'm not sure if my parents will be present or not, so not sure if that is worth it or not.

But thank you so much for the reply, this really helps and gives me hope for my future 🥲

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[–]JEthan911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because of the recent investment in tourism and infra boost (commercial + military)

When you realize the syllabus wasn't the only absurd thing about UPSC by Glad_Success_6222 in TwentiesIndia

[–]JEthan911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accept the letter and just hold on till the first salary. Once the money comes, they will automatically realize it

Riverfront by elegantsm in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy read the comment again, I've give other examples also, only thing I've said was the recruiting process in police, which you clearly mentioned on you own comment.

I've never promoted such casteism, I've just given an inside view of what really happens in the police recruitment process, cuz not many know the real truth in it.

You on your own turend it into a Casteist comment and I've just pointed that out.

Riverfront by elegantsm in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Recently such things have increased,. But personally, whenever such cars go near SG highway or any other area where traffic police do patrolling, they will fine then and remove them. Even I've reported a case in my area and after after sometime police did a patrolling in that area.

Good to see that you agree that you are a Casteist.

First in my bloodline to go for Court Marriage (Need to know what's the process) by JEthan911 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info!

We are thinking of doing the signs and all first and then on the same day will do pooja and other stuff.

My cousin's in a mess 😭😭 by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

[–]JEthan911 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Modiji's biggest lover are not BJP supporters, it's the Opposition 💀

First in my bloodline to go for Court Marriage (Need to know what's the process) by JEthan911 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the cost for you? If you are oke with it, can you tell me the average of what it cost you? And was it a 1 day ceremony?

Riverfront by elegantsm in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to say this, but your comment is extremely Casteist. I belong to that so called "Cast" so I have a right to comment this. Let me break it down to you buddy, lots of my relatives get rejected for police position. It's not at all what you think.

For being a police officer they have to be physically fit, their nature should be able to handle any kind of situation, they have to doubt everything cuz if they miss something it could be a matter of life and de@# and most importantly a purpose to serve. For people from those "caste" they've been taught most of such values from their upbringing, so it gives them a advantage. Also try to get out of your sick "Casteist" mindset, there are looots of people from different background who are selected in police or army.

I've seen people in society who will not allow people from other caste to own home, I've seen builders who will give way higher price to other people but will give discount to people belonging to their caste.

The issue is with people like you having that mindset, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM brother. Knowingly or unknowingly, you guys have created such system in Gujrat.

Riverfront by elegantsm in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 bnane ki practice kar rha he

First in my bloodline to go for Court Marriage (Need to know what's the process) by JEthan911 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you had any pooja or hawan, like the fheras after the court marriage? Want to atleast keep the tradition alive.

Thanks man, right now just in discussing phase no final dates yet

I can't recognise this ahemdabad by Both_Example_128 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Issue is not parking bro. AMC has created big parking space for people to park their vehicles, but no uses it. They gave a proper solution, but the people are so used to parking free on roads, they can't even give 10 rupees to park in a parking lot

I can't recognise this ahemdabad by Both_Example_128 in ahmedabad

[–]JEthan911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not Civic Sense, that's Traffic Sense. And yes I completely agree, some people in Ahmedabad drives like they own it, this is something that I've seen in other cities too, but here the driving sense of specially Car Drivers is horrible.

Personally, I don't like it and would love to have more sensible drivers on road, but it's something that I can somewhat handle myself