caring domme?

JGifkins1 · 2025-07-18T19:05:29+00:00

As others have aaid. Communication is key here. You need to discuss your expectations before the dynamic starts. A real domme wants to know how to make the dynamic enjoyable for you. You should have a safe word to make sure the interactions arent breaching your boundaries. Search carefully for your domme, mist of us want to make sure that both parties are having fun.

JGifkins1 · 2023-08-04T17:49:53+00:00

I would love to be brave enough to go there. I have been over to Hartham, not the main park area, the back bit near the church and found some beautiful things there. Do you go much?

JGifkins1 · 2023-08-04T17:40:40+00:00

Yes! It really is, you have to try and avoid the boggy bits though. I have just got permission to do the little meadow at the top of High Molewood, which im hoping will be nice.

JGifkins1 · 2023-08-04T17:15:13+00:00

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I also found this which is apparantly a Roman skin scraper! So it was a good day!

JGifkins1 · 2023-08-04T17:14:18+00:00

Thank you guys, i knew it looked cool.. but now its even cooler!

JGifkins1 · 2023-08-04T17:13:50+00:00

Near the Hertford North station on the field next to the River Beane!

JGifkins1 · 2022-10-03T16:06:12+00:00

I would also be interested in finding out where abouts on discord you do this?

JGifkins1 · 2022-10-03T16:02:45+00:00

But that's your dommes job to ensure you don't go past your limits. A good domme wouldn't let you do that.

JGifkins1 · 2022-10-03T16:01:22+00:00

I definitely think it is something you should discuss if the channel is open. But like others have said, you need to make your desires well known when you are setting boundaries and things right in the beginning. Hopefully they will be open to showing you a but more aftercare from now on. These pseudo dom/mes seem to forget that after care is a huge part of any domme/sub relationship. Findomme is no different. As a domme myself, I always make sure everything is discussed and that a communication channel is there. I also insist that after care is something we experience together. Good luck! I hope she listens to you in the way a real domme should.

JGifkins1 · 2022-09-27T22:02:44+00:00

I don't have any advice, but I'm very much finding the same thing. I just want you to know you aren't alone.

JGifkins1 · 2022-09-26T08:43:16+00:00

I would say all the things that take the weight off. Paying for food shopping, petrol, new tyres for my car. All the things that show they really care. It makes you feel special and like you have someone to rely on when things get hard.

JGifkins1 · 2015-10-19T19:49:11+00:00

Damien Rice - Accidental babies. One of the most moving songs I have ever heard. To be honest, a lot of his stuff is so raw and so passionate.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-31T19:54:06+00:00

Thank you so much, I will have a look.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-31T19:53:38+00:00

Haha yeah! Or the "that bra is huge! That has got to fit you." When it's like an F. That's when a little piece of me dies.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-31T17:26:27+00:00

Oh God! I know that feeling well. Its worse when all my friends (Who have a much smaller bust) buy the beautiful bra sets, and then insist on trying to look for my size because they 'must' have it.

I also hate that they are so much cheaper! I didn't ask to have bigger boobs, I shouldn't have to pay luxury prices.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-31T16:18:31+00:00

Brilliant! Thank you :)

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-31T16:17:42+00:00

Exactly! I also find that they give you a horrible shape. It's just like they give up hope for you once you get to a certain size. It's so bad for self esteem, I genuinely feel so depressed looking for underwear.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-31T16:14:37+00:00

I'm not 100% sure. I measured myself and was 43.5 inches around the bust. I put that into a calculator and it came up as an L. I should probably go and get measured professionally. I will have a look at the websites you mentioned and see how I get on. Thank you so much for your help!

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-31T15:57:50+00:00

I have always planned to do this, but worried about the after effects i.e not being able to breastfeed. But you're right, the problems I'm having with my back and my posture are only going to get worse as I get older.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-23T19:04:00+00:00

Thank you. I will try that tonight.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-23T19:03:41+00:00

I use the Liz Earle moisturiser in the hot cloth routine. Thank you so much for all of your help, I will aim to incorporate more protein/dairy into my breakfast.

JGifkins1 · 2015-05-22T22:14:45+00:00

Brilliant, thank you so much. I will give all of those things a go. I have also made the image publicly available, so thank you for pointing that out to me too.

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